Jennifer Saviano - BIP - Season 3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

IMO, considering things that I've heard, they broke up on BIP and there was no "romance" after that.
Those who know Nick and his SM activity when it comes to women he dated (really dated or had a fling with, not "RS" scored) may find some clues about his thoughts on the whole situation.
As for Jen ... she has yet to reveal herself ... but let's play a game and say that it is true, that they were done with no question marks left at the last BIP RC ... what does her SM activity say about her "way of thinking"?
I'm curious :winkie:

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Thirsty? Promoting the show and her sl? Or wishful of what might have happened, and her ego got hurt in the end?

Fingersandtoes wrote:^
Thirsty? Promoting the show and her sl? Or wishful of what might have happened, and her ego got hurt in the end?

She knows viewers will be checking out her SM.
She's building her own public narrative.
The public never really took much interest in their story line, right? Not in the forum or on SM.  

This is looking like the last breath.  Leah blowing up the swan

I've never understood why people choose to portray themselves as a victim in public.

Oh well, at some point a great guy will scoop her up.

I don't really understand the victim mentality either. Clearly she was holding out some sort of hope, but that's not Nick's fault, if they weren't actually dating. If he really wanted to be with her, he would be. The fact that he isn't says it all. It was never gonna happen and just because it's now officially never gonna happen doesn't really change anything. Making a big deal about it feels like attention seeking to me. Tenley was doing the same thing last year, except worse. Just have some dignity.

Lauren Himle tweeted an interview she did saying Nick and Jen WERE dating post show and he sprung this on her last minute.

http://detroit.cbslocal.com/2016/09/01/new-bachelor-nick-viall-ditched-girlfriend-jen-saviano-to-be-on-show-lauren-himle-dishes/

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:Lauren Himle tweeted an interview she did saying Nick and Jen WERE dating post show and he sprung this on her last minute.

Nick,,would you please verify this?

What's the definition of dating or seein each other? I had said it before the announcement, sm shows they've seen each other one time in early July. Is that dating?

sdmom wrote:What's the definition of dating or seein each other? I had said it before the announcement, sm shows they've seen each other one time in early July. Is that dating?

Maybe it was a long distance FaceTime/Skype relationship ?

sdmom wrote:What's the definition of dating or seein each other? I had said it before the announcement, sm shows they've seen each other one time in early July. Is that dating?

IMO, if Nick saw a future with Jen he would move heaven and earth to be with her. One weekend meeting and facetiming doesn't sound like Nick was all that invested.

“She knew that he was kind of manipulating her towards the end, this just happened, they were solid a week ago. It’s fresh.”

St. Nick being manipulative? Nah, not possible!

I believe she thought they were dating. I don't think Nick had a clue he was really in the mix for TB so I could see it happening that way. I bet she'll get over it pretty fast. He's not all that IMO.

OnePromise wrote:

sdmom wrote:What's the definition of dating or seein each other? I had said it before the announcement, sm shows they've seen each other one time in early July. Is that dating?

IMO, if Nick saw a future with Jen he would move heaven and earth to be with her. One weekend meeting and facetiming doesn't sound like Nick was all that invested.

You know how people on the show get engaged and then almost always announce that now their relationship can really begin?
Maybe she thought once the show finished airing they would actually see each other in person  because they really seem to have posted enough SM to verify they weren't in the same place at the same time except for Jen's LA trip.

IDK, she asks him on a date then talks about dolphins having sex for pleasure "like us".  Mixed message girl.

I think tptb provided a window of opportunity by the early announcement for "controversy"
Nick's been on Bach related shows for 3 years and the only disgruntled exes coming forward to media are Bach nation girls.  

Even his former fiancé has shown class but never revealing her identity or feeling the need to air her dirty laundry. She's had plenty of time to do so. Guess she doesn't let their former relationship define her.

Hoping, maybe irrationally, that there are some truly empowered women on the next Bach season. These post show dramas are frivolous.