Josh Murray - BIP - Famously Single - Season 3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Luckily he already knows Amanda has had sex at least 2x! So that's okay. I hope.

^^^ I agree Mindless.

Josh is getting berated for feeling the way most guys feel. Looks are a priority for them when it comes to dating. Call it shallow. I call it normal for men. And personally, I don't see anything wrong with being picky. I wouldn't want to go on a date with a person I wasn't attracted to either. I guess that makes me shallow as well. Atleast Josh has been open to the exercises on FS and is having fun, letting loose, and learning to be more open to dating different types of women. But when it comes to who he marries, he should be more picky.

Interestingly enough, that is why for many species the male is more colorful biologically than the female. It's to protect the female from being front and center and to attract less attention. Survival of the species.

Kashathediva wrote:Interestingly enough, that is why for many species the male is more colorful biologically than the female. It's to protect the female from being front and center and to attract less attention. Survival of the species.

Why can't we be pretty and still be protected.  

**edited**based on what I have seen of Josh, I think his anger issue is being blown out of proportion.  We all get angry and I'm certainly glad my anger has never been captured on film.  I don't think he has shown any signs of being violent either.  He is most likely an uptight person but maybe it's just when he is in an uncomfortable situation.  **edited**

sosleepy wrote:I'm sorry, double post. When did Famously Single film? Before the book, right?

Josh really said Andi looks nothing like his mom and sister? Is he nuts!? Andi looks like she could be Murray sister #2. And you don't even need to squint to see the resemblance. I remember thinking it was a little odd Josh was so into someone who was literally his mom's doppelgänger.

I saw his periscope and I didn't hear this question or his answer. The video must have cut off for me before it got to that part although I thought I saw all of it.

Yeah, Andi definitely looks very much like his mom & sister.

I have watched all .of the episodes Josh has been on famously single and bachelorette. I also follow his social media and his family's social media. I have not seen all of this anger that people talk about. I think he has been labeled and any indication of him being frustrated or upset is blown way out of proportion. I'm happy he's three dimensional showing frustration, happiness, sadness, and yes, sometimes anger. I don't think anger equates a blowup for blowing your casket.

I think he just means that while Andy is gorgeous, once he got to know her better & once the Nick FS lie came out; he stayed trying longer than he should have and therefore settled.

I also think that majority of us mere mortals who are looking to date are initially attracted to looks.

I also agree that the anger issue is being blown out of proportion. Most people get angry when they are lied to, ignored, disrespected and talked about behind their backs. We'll see once BIP airs how out of control he actually gets and how unwarranted his reaction is.

Anger is an emotion and is up to subjective interpretation. Just saying. 
Just like I think something could be funny, someone else could interpret it as being psycho.

In my experience, you can never know what goes on behind closed doors...I have a family member with a temper but it's non-threatening to me, I find it immature but it does not cross my personal line ever and in realty, they are just one of the most feeling and loving people in the world.... However, I dated a guy who everyone thought was a saint but behind closed doors he eventually became physically abusuve. Public and private personas can be very deceiving. As a "victim" myself, I usually always feel an immediate connection with someone's experience, so when Andi made these claims, I bought the book, and well... I ended up feeling sorry for Josh...what can I say, yes he's immature but unless he pulls a Chad (punches walls, pulls shirts, threatens physical violence)...then there is hope for me.

Loveinterest wrote: I have watched all .of the episodes Josh has been on famously single and bachelorette. I also follow his social media and his family's social media. I have not seen all of this anger that people talk about. I think he has been labeled and any indication of him being frustrated or upset is blown way out of proportion. I'm happy he's three dimensional showing frustration, happiness, sadness,  and yes, sometimes anger. I don't think anger equates a blowup for blowing your casket.

Did you really mean casket or was this supposed to be gasket?    I hope he doesn't blow his casket!    

I wonder if Josh was on a different season of the Bachelorette (different lead) if everyone would still think the same of him.  To me, the season he was on evoked a lot of emotion on/off the show with cast and viewers alike.  JMO.

Loveinterest wrote: I have watched all .of the episodes Josh has been on famously single and bachelorette. I also follow his social media and his family's social media. I have not seen all of this anger that people talk about. I think he has been labeled and any indication of him being frustrated or upset is blown way out of proportion. I'm happy he's three dimensional showing frustration, happiness, sadness,  and yes, sometimes anger. I don't think anger equates a blowup for blowing your casket.

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Some people defend Josh no matter what and others form a different opinion of what they see.

sosleepy wrote:I'm sorry, double post. When did Famously Single film? Before the book, right?

Josh really said Andi looks nothing like his mom and sister? Is he nuts!? Andi looks like she could be Murray sister #2. And you don't even need to squint to see the resemblance. I remember thinking it was a little odd Josh was so into someone who was literally his mom's doppelgänger.

That is why you can't believe what Josh says. Everyone who is not blind see and think that Andi looks like them. Even his brother Aaron said "she looks like one of us).