Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

Fingersandtoes wrote:I think Ben changes his mind quite fast about things like this. It's not been long that he advertised about 'their' snap chat on his twitter page, and even shorter time since he wanted to be in her video. She's not really been  posting that much on social media, 1-2 snaps or IG pics every 1-2 days. He's also been posting on his IG. Jmo of course.

He could just be tired, they haven't stayed in one place very long. They have hardly spent anytime in Denver and he just might want to get Lauren moved and get back to normal life.

Or everything is just fine and we are waaaaaaaay over analyzing 5 second snippets in these people lives. I'm going with this one.

Ben and Lauren are reminding me of Josh and Andi with their sm. Lauren is forever doing things he doesn't like on snap and he's always cranky about it. He's way more easy going than Josh so it's not the same, but she's very snarky with him, moreso than I would have predicted.

sosleepy wrote:Or everything is just fine and we are waaaaaaaay over analyzing 5 second snippets in these people lives. I'm going with this one.

I'm going with this too.

Alanna wrote:Ben and Lauren are reminding me of Josh and Andi with their sm. Lauren is forever doing things he doesn't like on snap and he's always cranky about it. He's way more easy going than Josh so it's not the same, but she's very snarky with him, moreso than I would have predicted.

He's been on her snapchat wanting to be apart of it and willingly talking about what he's about to do with her or what has just occured. I wouldn't consider the two times he's been cranky about it worrisome. People just have their moments where they don't want their pics taken or video. Nothing alarming about that. JMO

Sure it's just been those two times she's posted. How many snaps hs she deleted? I'm not saying they're doomsday city but clearly things aren't always oh em gee sunshine and sparkles with them either imo.

^^ no couple is.

I don't see the Andi and Josh comparisons at all.

We're also seeing all the snapchats in Lauren's POV. Whos to say if Ben was in charge we wouldn't see a Lauren being cranky and not wanting to be part of his snap. JMO

Thank goodness they aren't all sunshine and rainbows ! I would be worried if at this point with them being together nonstop for a few weeks if they were always perfect. To mean that would mean they were working too hard. Occassional grumbling/crankiness is normal and natural to me, which is how I few this about couple. Just living their lives on their own turns. They obviously don't seem the need to censor anything which is telling to me.

Alanna wrote:Ben and Lauren are reminding me of Josh and Andi with their sm. Lauren is forever doing things he doesn't like on snap and he's always cranky about it. He's way more easy going than Josh so it's not the same, but she's very snarky with him, moreso than I would have predicted.

She was (playfully) snarky (or maybe whiny is a better descriptive) in the edit a few times so it might be her voice inflection when she says certain things. Not that fond of it, but maybe Ben adores it.


"...he so handsome, like.." at 0:06  
Ben " you don't believe me, do you?" Lauren "No, I don't" at 0:38


Ben "Do you question it, ever?" Lauren "Yeah, of course." 2:20
Ben "Don't hold back from that, though."  Lauren "It's terrifying" 3:06



After Ben gets bitten by a crab: Ben " You saw him, though" Lauren "Yeah....I saw his little claw, like, going for more..." 0:46

I have no idea, maybe Ben just adores it, but it reminds me of Jill saying Ed better not "f#^ it up," Josh rolling his eyes that he'd never watch reality tv with Andi, etc etc. I felt this way about Lauren's comment immediately after getting engaged that "he better not drop [her]" also. As always, we shall see, but this couple isn't giving me the warm fuzzies although I love Ben and would like to love them together.

And ... This is why I could never go on this show. *edit*The over analyzing of Ed "better not f*,k this up" (bothered me then, too) or "don't drop me or you are toast?" I mean, seriously? Dang, glad my relationship is private. You'd all probably be analyzing me as a bi*$ on wheels with some of the off the cuff things I'll say to my husband in jest.