The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 9 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Ok but is it Lauren's or Jojo's room ? Dazed and comfused here .

I am just thinking out loud here but maybe the spoilers are wrong again this season and he does end up picking jojo. My only thinking for this is because Lauren never has any picture with her and Ben from the show while jojo does and this preview is really messing with my head. I certainly hope that isn't the case because I love Lauren and really have only watched for her.

nutty1 wrote:Still, this lamp may also be possibility.....

Again, this room doesnt look like that since November and probably before that. I found new pics, with similar diamond  patterns on the wall lamps and greenish sofas, but not enough photos to confirm. I contacted the blogger to see if she has more pics. She went during the summer, blogged in November about it. 

http://magicaltravelswithbarb.com/tag/villa-plantana/

ForeverLove wrote:Ok but is it Lauren's or Jojo's room ? Dazed and comfused here .

I would say JoJo, since her room (not FS) is in the Riviera Beachfront building at Saldas Ochi and that loveseat picture is from a smaller room in the same building. Lauren's room and FS aren't anywhere near that building. But because it's probably in JoJo's personal room instead of the FS she shares with Ben, I think that ILY is from their LCD which usually ends in the woman's room. JMO.

Fairly, new at this so I can't bring over the picture of the new I love you.. I know everyone is trying to figure from the backdrop where it takes place. However, I notice on Ben's face near his jaw line right above #thebachelor there is a red mark it could be a scratch or lipsticks but are there any other pictures that maybe it can be compared to?

Well if he told her he loved her on her lcd that i really lose respect for him since I believe by that time he knew how Lauren felt

Crazylady29 wrote:I am just thinking out loud here but maybe the spoilers are wrong again this season and he does end up picking jojo. My only thinking for this is because Lauren never has any picture with her and Ben from the show while jojo does and this preview is really messing with my head. I certainly hope that isn't the case because I love Lauren and really have only watched for her.

It's going to be her imo, but this is about the rocky journey to get to her . We will need DRAMA-mine for the motion sickness . I'm hearing Taylor Swift's song....boys only want love if it's torture.

I hope than Lauren runs far away from him since he doesn't seem ready to commit to one girl and she deserves better than that

Crazylady29 wrote:Well if he told her he loved her on her lcd that i really lose respect for him since I believe by that time he knew how Lauren felt

It's not Lauren's season though? It's kind of the point of the show to have relationships building with multiple people and have the lead be torn between the F2. Ben's not even the first lead to say 'I love you' to both girls (Sean, Andy) and his relationship with JoJo isn't less valid than his one with Lauren just because he didn't pick her. The episodes haven't even aired yet. TPTB always make things out to be worse in promos than they actually end up being.

Crazylady29 wrote:Well if he told her he loved her on her lcd that i really lose respect for him since I believe by that time he knew how Lauren felt

Well if he already said it back in the FS off camera, then he can't really not say it on the LCD without JoJo knowing something's up. Not that that makes it any better, couldn't really be any more misleading. But the show must go on I guess.

AmyB wrote:

Crazylady29 wrote:Well if he told her he loved her on her lcd that i really lose respect for him since I believe by that time he knew how Lauren felt

It's not Lauren's season though? It's kind of the point of the show to have relationships building with multiple people and have the lead be torn between the F2. Ben's not even the first lead to say 'I love you' to both girls (Sean, Andy) and his relationship with JoJo isn't less valid than his one with Lauren just because he didn't pick her. The episodes haven't even aired yet. TPTB always make things out to be worse in promos than they actually end up being.

But there is a difference between them saying I love you and him telling her that he was in love with her. He didn't have to say those words if he was really in love with Lauren. There have been many other leads who haven't said those words either.

NCGalBecca wrote:Maybe the hot tub got to him..one of the earlier season teasers show Ben and JoJo getting into the tub. She has the red bikini on in the pic above.

As said above, I don't think it was difficult for Ben to succumb to JoJo. The cut Vegas clip showed me two people into each other in a very natural way. They looked like a real couple into each other would, so, of course, that clip had to be left out.

I see this ^ too and the elimination of footage might also have happened on the Wrigley Stadium date as well. Harrison said, paraphrasing, that Ben took the process seriously and really did compartmentalize each relationship. Honestly, if we saw evidence of any possible SHVs, I'd believe F1 is JoJo.