The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 9 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

NCGalBecca wrote:This looks uncomfortable and awkward - new video of Caila's date

Caila Can't Handle the Truth

I noticed that Ben, for most of the time, has his arm resting along the back of the boat, rather than around Caila. I think if it was Lolo, we'd see him enveloping her. I do not see any chemistry. I would be shocked if Ben slept with her.

NCGalBecca wrote:This looks uncomfortable and awkward - new video of Caila's date

Caila Can't Handle the Truth

Where is that crickets emoji??

nutty1 wrote:

NCGalBecca wrote:This looks uncomfortable and awkward - new video of Caila's date

Caila Can't Handle the Truth

I noticed that Ben, for most of the time, has his arm resting along the back of the boat, rather than around Caila. I think if it was Lolo, we'd see him enveloping her. I do not see any chemistry. I would be shocked if Ben slept with her.

Slept and then dumped her. No way Ben would do that imo. How can she be so excited on HTD , then do a complete 180? Did producers put things in her head to give her pause?

casjacknick wrote:

NCGalBecca wrote:This looks uncomfortable and awkward - new video of Caila's date

Caila Can't Handle the Truth

Oh no! If that doesn't solidify who's final 2 I don't know what does. They both say it's weird! Yikes. Isn't he, at least, supposed to act through this and pretend? Maybe they told him he didn't have to since they were setting her up for bette? Oh man that date is going to be painfully awesome to watch.

Well I guess it gets better since she looked a lot happier during the evening portion and even said she's in love. But yeah, not seeing any connection between those two. Seemed they had nothing to say to each other so they started kissing as usual. She's in way over her head IMO.

Jeepers wrote:

NCGalBecca wrote:This looks uncomfortable and awkward - new video of Caila's date

Caila Can't Handle the Truth

Where is that crickets emoji??

Seriously that body language though they are so uncomfortable together.

Yes, she looks happier during the evening portion of their date but as the presser says, she goes to his room later in the week to get romance and validation which suggests something was likely lacking during FS date.

Perhaps her Bachelorette play is that she hesitated with Ben and loses him but won't do so the next time around.

Miyala wrote:I think its hard for most guys to make out with an attractive woman without getting "exited". A lot of man can react so even if they are not in love. I also believe he had feelings for Jojo, just not as strong as for Lauren but certainly enough strong for a reaction

Not to mention it's likely been how long since he last got some action? If he and Kaitlyn did do it in the FS, that was probably the last time, and the only time since before filming Kait's season. I doubt he would've slept around after the season since he was in talks of next lead. JMO.

Bronco18 you are onto something there I think. Also, all of these beautiful women are in love with him and that's got to do something to you too. You are the freaking bachelor, in Jamaica, making out with a beautiful woman (one of three at this point; all three of which are in love with you) and you haven't done finace type things in awhile....

Oh geez that should be fiancé not finace or whatever world I made up there.

mindless wrote:

NCGalBecca wrote:This looks uncomfortable and awkward - new video of Caila's date

Caila Can't Handle the Truth

Well that's romantic. Not.

I have lukewarm feelings for this date. No butterflies at all.

We have to consider this is the date that happened right after Ben met Lauren's family. It will be hard to not show lingering emotions from that date. That being said, if Lauren's Fantasy Date came second, he might be so happy after that that his happiness spread to his date with Jojo. I'm sorry I really like to think everything revolves around BenLo. (So hard to be so invested!)

charmained wrote:

mindless wrote:

NCGalBecca wrote:This looks uncomfortable and awkward - new video of Caila's date

Caila Can't Handle the Truth

Well that's romantic. Not.

I have lukewarm feelings for this date. No butterflies at all.

We have to consider this is the date that happened right after Ben met Lauren's family. It will be hard to not show lingering emotions from that date. That being said, if Lauren's Fantasy Date came second, he might be so happy after that that his happiness spread to his date with Jojo. I'm sorry I really like to think everything revolves around BenLo. (So hard to be so invested!)

It's ok Charm. There are several investments going on here . Proving its BenJo or BenLo. Someone above wrote finace for fiancé . To TPTB it's finance and they are surely milking it with their new cash cow named Ben.

Lol Thank you forever love for making something witty out of my spelling mistake! Do we know if he gets to travel on the same plane as the girls. A flight to Jamaica would be long from L.A. That would be a lot of quality time together.