Re: Joelle Fletcher - (JoJo) - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #2

by Maggenzm Thu Mar 10, 2016 9:49 pm

To be fair, she didn't say anything against Lauren, she just said that Jojo is more her style which we saw on our TV, she was friends with everyone, and Ben. Even Olivia described her as nice, funny, smart, and beautiful. so mom was able to see that right away.

Lauren seams very nice too, but I can't say I know anything about her while watching the bach, he is a little be reserved. but that's Ok, if Ben loves her, I love her too.

by Guest Thu Mar 10, 2016 9:51 pm

sdmom wrote:It doesn't really matter to me who Ben picked. I still think he picked Lauren. I also think his mom probably didn't know either girl that well and she could possibly changer her mind after getting to know Lauren better. I just find it funny some people think Lauren is a better fit for Ben when his mom, who knows Ben way way better than any of us here, would pick Jojo after spending some time with both girls. It's probably her gut feeling. IMO and hope it doesn't offend any one here. Or, was she prodded by tptb to pick Jojo?
I don't know how Jojo will feel after watching hearing his mom's puck, if she's f2. Will she feel validated or even more heartbroken?
I don't know if

but she knows the girls even LESS than we do as she hadnt seen any of the show at that point.

by Guest Thu Mar 10, 2016 9:51 pm

Maggenzm wrote:To be fair, she didn't say anything against Lauren, she just said that Jojo is more her style which we saw on our TV, she was friends with everyone, and Ben. Even Olivia described her as nice, funny, smart, and beautiful. so mom was able to see that right away.

Lauren seams very nice too, but I can't say I know anything about her while watching the bach, she is a little be reserved. but that's Ok, if Ben loves her, I love her too.

thanks!

by sdmom Thu Mar 10, 2016 9:56 pm

sophienette wrote:
sdmom wrote:It doesn't really matter to me who Ben picked. I still think he picked Lauren. I also think his mom probably didn't know either girl that well and she could possibly changer her mind after getting to know Lauren better. I just find it funny some people think Lauren is a better fit for Ben when his mom, who knows Ben way way better than any of us here, would pick Jojo after spending some time with both girls. It's probably her gut feeling. IMO and hope it doesn't offend any one here. Or, was she prodded by tptb to pick Jojo?
I don't know how Jojo will feel after watching hearing his mom's puck, if she's f2. Will she feel validated or even more heartbroken?
I don't know if

but she knows the girls even LESS than we do as she hadnt seen any of the show at that point.

But she met both women in person. We only see what TPTB wants us to see.

Doesn't matter what she thinks now. If Ben's mom is loving and wise, she will learn to accept and love the woman her son loves.

by mindless Thu Mar 10, 2016 10:00 pm

sdmom wrote:It doesn't really matter to me who Ben picked. I still think he picked Lauren. I also think his mom probably didn't know either girl that well and she could possibly changer her mind after getting to know Lauren better. I just find it funny some people think Lauren is a better fit for Ben when his mom, who knows Ben way way better than any of us here, would pick Jojo after spending some time with both girls. It's probably her gut feeling. (IMO and hope it doesn't offend any one here. )Or, was she prodded by tptb to pick Jojo?
I don't know how Jojo will feel after watching hearing his mom's pick , if she's f2. Will she feel validated or even more heartbroken?

Well she liked some tweets about it, so my guess is that she's flattered. Might sting a little, if a part of her is still wondering what if.

by **GuardianAngel** Thu Mar 10, 2016 10:59 pm

I would like to know the reasoning behind her choice and why was she crying when she was stating her opinion. It looked strange to be crying during that PI.

by pander3575 Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:03 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:I would like to know the reasoning behind her choice and why was she crying when she was stating her opinion. It looked strange to be crying during that PI.

She was also upset when Ben told them he was in love with both and the girls didn't know it. Could it be she's upset because Ben is in such turmoil about which one he wants to continue with?

by Duke702 Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:08 pm

I think she is upset , because she sees the emotional investment they all have, and knows what Ben is going through is really hard... and seems very confused. She knows that Ben has to hurt one of the girls. This episode is just going to be really emotional and sad. The girls look very sad in their itms. Hopefully we will see a good happy ending, despite that one girl will be devastated.

by julychild Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:14 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:I would like to know the reasoning behind her choice and why was she crying when she was stating her opinion. It looked strange to be crying during that PI.

She is a kind woman who was put in an uncomfortable position. She didn't want to hurt anyone (not one of those mean, so-called "brutally honest" type) by sharing her feelings, which was why she apologized.

by NCGalBecca Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:15 pm

JoJo looks wrecked by whatever comes out during the 1st part of the LCD (per the video below). It must lead to the bathroom scene later in the evening that's in the finale preview. The dates for both look glum.

Lauren B. & JoJo Express Their Doubts and Worries in ‘The Bachelor’ Season Finale

by Lucas15 Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:28 pm

sophienette wrote:
Raggy 43 wrote:You would be well placed then to know that a Parent`s opinion can be a complicating feature at the start of a relationship

Actually no. It made us stronger. I am all for family disapproval. Worked for JP and Ashley

For the last 33 years my mother has disapproved of my wife; it has also made my relationship with my wife stronger. One lesson I learned the hard way though is never marry someone because someone else thinks they are right for you - marry someone because you think they are right for you.