The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 7 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I would have much rather had Lauren's date than JoJo's. Just like last season, Ben wanted his F1 to meet his friends. Clearly he wanted to see if Lauren would fit into his life. It's a no brainer why he tells her "I've been in love with you for a while now too" during her fantasy date.

OMG, OMG OMG, you guys!!! The back and forth between Team Lauren and Team Jojo is making my commute, and this blasted traffic, not so bad right now!

Jojo is a lovely girl!
Lauren is a lovely girl!

Go Westcoast!!

The debate is half of what makes these shows enjoyable

Becca is beautiful

Becca is begging for him.

i guess.. if I'm in a serious relationship i would rather meet his friends and see how i would fit into his real life when its not like they haven't had one on one talk time already. Both Lauren and Jojo have had one on one dates so they both have had the intimate dates.

julychild wrote:OMG, OMG OMG, you guys!!! The back and forth between Team Lauren and Team Jojo is making my commute, and this blasted traffic, not so bad right now!

Jojo is a lovely girl!
Lauren is a lovely girl!

Go Westcoast!!

LOL! I am TeamLauren, I just want to see more of their love story on camera! :cutesmile!:

mizzoufan wrote:

gatorfan1987 wrote:

MiniDiva wrote:

We are not seeing "why" Ben is in love with Lauren, IMO.

does there need to be a "why". Love doesn't need an explanation it just happens.

I think we need to see some sort of connection or it seems like nothing more then physical

I'm not watching so don't know what's happening but this is a good way to look at the differences.
A good clue I think particularly for Ben could be how "intimate" he gets with either of his F2 and how, because he's an emotional, sensitive guy. I think who he lets into his inner life would be a girl he's truly building intimacy with. How vulnerable and emotional and raw does he get with either of them? An example of that I think would be his story about his dad cos he said "I don't I've told this to anyone..." or something along those lines. How is he building this intimacy with either of them during this week's episode? Has he revealed something deep and real about himself to either of them?

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Cheers to a night of romance, and a little break for #AllDayBreakfast @McDonalds.

He gave Becca what she asked for, not to be blindsided. Only he did it before it ever got to that point and blindsided her anyway. LOL

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