The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 7 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

When Ben looks at JoJo there just doesn't seem to be the gooey, soft look in his eyes that he has when he looks at Lauren.

Sprite wrote:When Ben looks at JoJo there just doesn't seem to be the gooey, soft look in his eyes that he has when he looks at Lauren.

Sometimes when Ben talks to Jojo it sounds scripted not coming from the heart I think tptb told him he has to show more interest in the other girls not just Lauren jmo

MiniDiva wrote:JoJo is getting a lot of good alone time with Ben as opposed to being surrounded by so many people, lots more intimate, IMO.

I agree. One on One would be better then surrounded by strangers.

mizzoufan wrote:Ben and JoJo conversation is very real and honest. That's what's missing with Lauren no real coversations no deepth

I think it's hidden to develop Jojo's story. Unraveling someone's trust issues are always real but will she revert again ? That will be Ben's problem. I get it between Ben and Jojo but his heart is elsewhere imo

I know JoJo is the F2 girl but I like her. She is pretty and so well spoken.

timfan wrote:Sometimes when Ben talks to Jojo it sounds scripted not coming from the heart I think tptb told him he has to show more interest in the other girls not just Lauren jmo

True, he could have been told he's losing the other girls and so he has to amp things up to keep things going.

I for one see the love story between ben and lauren and i have since the beginning. I love JoJo and i hope she gets to be the bachelorette.

gatorfan1987 wrote:

mizzoufan wrote:

MiniDiva wrote:JoJo is getting a lot of good alone time with Ben as opposed to being surrounded by so many people, lots more intimate, IMO.

I agree. One on One would be better then surrounded by strangers.

again those were people that helped shape him as a kid. those for the most part weren't strangers minus a few of the kids. Plus she met his friends. what could be more intimate.

Lol and will those same friends accept Jojo is he chose her after meeting Lauren? And those kids. It won't be easy.

ForeverLove wrote:

mizzoufan wrote:Ben and JoJo conversation is very real and honest. That's what's missing with Lauren no real coversations no deepth

I think it's hidden to develop Jojo's  story. Unraveling someone's trust issues are always real but will she revert again ? That will be Ben's problem. I get it between Ben and Jojo but his heart is elsewhere imo

This is so wrong of TPTB to encourage this conversation of Ben with Jojo.  Just for a show to get her to break down her guard, which, I think Jojo has really good institution, she can tell she really does not have his heart.  This just seems wrong. Very honest conversation on Jojo's part but not on Ben's part in my opinion.

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Aww she looks so happy. does she have a dimple?