Caila Quinn - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

From Ben's blog...

To be honest, I was pretty sure I wasn't going to give Caila the rose that day. Mostly because while I was still extremely interested in her, I knew I needed more time with Becca and Amanda, and I had just had a one-on-one with Caila last week.

http://www.people.com/people/package/article/0,,20981907_20987486,00.html

^^ That's just referring to the group date rose, though, right?

I never got the feeling Ben was conflicted at the RC. That conversation with CH just seemed like it was for show. JMO.

In his blog he says next weeks goodbye (Amanda) was the hardest goodbye other than the last goodbye (JoJo). And the above comments about not giving Caila the group date rose, is all he says about her in this weeks blog. Safe to say IMO, that he did not have a hard time saying goodbye to Caila. I really think he was completely turned off by her "afraid of hurting you comment", and it wasn't his decision to keep her. A lot of her comments are very snobby and full of herself IMO.

Truth be told, I didn't like that short glimpse of her father either. He seemed snobby too. I think he chose Caila as F3 by default in that he couldn't eliminate 2 before the FD.

Duke702 wrote:In his blog he says next weeks goodbye (Amanda) was the hardest goodbye other than the last goodbye (JoJo). And the above comments about not giving Caila the group date rose, is all he says about her in this weeks blog. Safe to say IMO, that he did not have a hard time saying goodbye to Caila. I really think he was completely turned off by her "afraid of hurting you comment", and it wasn't his decision to keep her. A lot of her comments are very snobby and full of herself IMO.

To me, that was the nail in the coffin for Caila being the Bachelorette. Every single future lead has had a tough exit, whether it was by choice (Andi, Ali) or being dumped and appearing to get their heart broken.For Ben to essentially say in a TPTB-approved blog, "it wasn't that big of a deal to let Caila go", I don't see how they're setting her up to be the lead. JMO.

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I learned a lot about Caila last night. I believe she said she moved 17 times! growing up. She's very socially aware and having to be so adaptable is a strength of hers. Ben wants someone who can settle down. Caila could go either way - she could want that stability she didn't have by living in one locale for very long or she would find it very confining. Can't read where she is. Still love this girl though.

IA. I do think Caila is very interesting, but there's something about her I can't quite put my finger on. I don't know if she is ready to get married, and that could be due to "instability" in her life with having to move practically every year. She has a lot going for her, but I'm not sure she knows what she wants. JMO

I haven't watched the episode yet. I don't know if I'm in a hurry to, cause something just turns me off about this entire season.

I've realized I mostly watch for the personalities and this season has sucked on that front imo I'm still stubbornly stanning for Caila even if it isn't in her best interest. Love her

I don't think Ben saying next weeks goodbye was the toughest means he didn't have trouble saying goodbye to Caila. I will watch the episode and judge from that.

megaa wrote:I haven't watched the episode yet. I don't know if I'm in a hurry to, cause something just turns me off about this entire season.

I've realized I mostly watch for the personalities and this season has sucked on that front imo I'm still stubbornly stanning for Caila even if it isn't in her best interest. Love her

IA. I'm not feeling anybody this season.

Well I am still team Caila regardless if she is Bette or not. She is young, fun and interesting to watch. I dont think she is mean in anyway. She mostly states facts in her itm moments. She is very good friends with Emily based on their sm exchanges so I don't think Emily took any of her comments to be mean. Emily is the mean girl and she has said some pretty mean and foul things about Olivia.