The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - NO SPOILERS - Discussion

Oh - we have the pull back here as well! More doubt is cast.

maybe he doesn't pick either because he can't make up his mind.

LCD's are leaving both girls confused and unsure.

"We put ourselves here" - actually Ben you put all three of you here. I'm pretty sure that neither girl had planned on this ending.

JoJo is putting pressure on him for "more". I would probably too in this situation.

"best friend" again - I think it's so important to have your partner as your best friend as its more often the "friend" and not the "lover" part of your partner that helps you get through the tough times.

Bathroom scene!

Oh that was brutal! Might be time for a coffee - super strengthed.

How is he going to make a decision and propose? this is crazy!

Yes CH - It is the most dramatic that I have watched. Might have to go find some tums!

Is this the day that Ben proposes and he still hasn't made up his mind?

He's choosing the ring and he hasn't chosen the woman! Make a freakin' decision!

Kaitiebelle are you still watching? I like your comments as you watch the show. In the spoiled thread posts happen so fast.

Finally!

The ring is a bit bling for my taste.

here goes - who is going to get out the car first?

Lauren is getting ready - is it her?

Oh now we see JoJo - don't like her dress - too pageanty.

they have cut back to the audience!

Eeeeeeeeee.... Its coming! Who is it?!?!?

Its JoJo!!!!!

Lauren is F1

JoJo - shut up and let him speak.

Oh bloody he!! - is he doing the proposal first?

Whew... There's a BUT!

She's pissed but taking it well considering. She's not even blubbering. One tough cookie!

She deserves the Bachelorette after this!

She's going to fall apart in the car - that's what I'd do. Hmmmm.. I thought there'd be more tears. Ben seems more upset than she is.

Ok - this better be an amazing OTT proposal for Lauren.

Ben - you are about to propose to Lauren and you are STILL talking about how much you love JoJo. Cut it out already!

Katiebelle wrote:Ok - this better be an amazing OTT proposal for Lauren.

Ben - you are about to propose to Lauren and you are STILL talking about how much you love JoJo. Cut it out already!

@katiebelle
I kept wondering how much of that was producer induced.
With Jojo having the brothers she has, I'm sure she IS a tough cookie. Especially with what we saw of her Mom. I kept thinking that Ben's nice parents and that family would not really be a great mesh... more like a big mess. That sort of thing can end a relationship.

Just got an idea!!! It would be fun to have the fashion police critique the RC and FR dresses. HHMMM!!!
Is there anyone else here who has done design work?

Why do we keep on cutting back to CH - its getting annoying.

The phone call was to Lauren's dad! I thought a woman answered the phone?

The dad is so nice - great family.

oh .. I'm getting a little teary.

Awww... that was lovely! Might have been worth all the angst.

Katiebelle wrote:Why do we keep on cutting back to CH - its getting annoying.

The phone call was to Lauren's dad! I thought a woman answered the phone?

The dad is so nice - great family.

oh .. I'm getting a little teary.

Awww... that was lovely! Might have been worth all the angst.

That's the way it SHOULD be done. Show respect for the man who raised the girl.

Ok - just made myself a cappa in prep for the next installment - 40 mins of ATFR. Can't wait to see what JoJo has to say to Ben. And what lauren has to say about the ilys. Hope he gets raked over the coals a bit.

AND there better NOT be a wedding - that's just stupid and kind of tacky. Do you think that is what the surprise is? CH is going to say hey we are all set for your wedding NOW.

CH - stop pushing the wedding.

Bachelorette - may not be who we think it is. Yes yes yes - please let it be Becca!

I'm hearing a lot of me, me, me from Ben.

"Show her off" Mmmm... she's not a possession.

Good answer - can't picture my life without her - I'm the same about my husband.