The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - NO SPOILERS - Discussion

Carine wrote:

theKeptGrits wrote:Snoggy, snoggy, lip locking with Lauren B.

Girls observing that he's singling out some for extra attention. Well, at this point he probably has an idea of who he's clicking with.

Jubilee has her time with Ben. A lot is said, but communication ain't their specialty. She tries to explain how the other girls feel over pda's. He should have listened better. But the writing is on the wall.
If you get on the ABC website, there is / was a clip of silliness in the  house between Jubilee and the twins. So there obviously have been fun outgoing times for her.
I hate to see her go.
My gut is telling me that she might be a candidate for Bachelorette. RUN Jubilee!! Although I wish her all the best, I'd hate to see tptb turn her story into a disrespectful drama. Her comment that she felt like the most unlovable person in the world right now, was heart breaking!

Does anyone have a link of the clip of the twins with Jubilee? Couldn't find it.

@carine
I went looking too and could not find it. I saw it around week two or three. What was happening was this. The twins were step dancing and Jubilee was in the center acting goofy shaking her booty. It was funny.

hang on - pause, rewind and watch again, then rewind and watch again!


WOW - ben and Lauren - that was steamy!

It reminded me of when you have boyfriend and you are at a party and he grabs your hand walking past all your friends to take you outside for some alone time - aka making out in the bushes.

Did you see the way he was grabbing her?

Jubilee is too insecure - not good in this show.

Ok ben is being a little mean. Although how patient and understanding can he be?

Poor Jubilee - I tend to over think things as well - its sometimes hard to let things go and just be in the moment.

She's pushing him to say something and commit and she didn't get the answer she wanted.

oh - I'm a little sad - I liked her sass.

Jubilee - once you become stronger in yourself you will meet someone amazing that is perfect for you

Another one that cuts in - Bens not allowed to express any feelings without one of these girls jumping on him.

I still see the connection with jojo. I want to see more time of them together.

haha - the girls faces when he gave Olivia that rose - brilliant! it looked as though they are all sucking on lemon drops!

Still love lauren h - although she might be friend zoned.

Love the date and she looks amazing. she's easy going, fun and confident - I'd be friends with this girl. She'd be a great bachelorette. I'd watch her season.

but - I'm not seeing it with ben - I don't think her and Amanda will be in the F4.

That kiss was nice but didn't have the passion of Lauren B and JoJos.

Cocktail party - all the girls look fantastic although Emily's dress is a bit pageanty.

Promises jojo that she won't be blindsided!?!?! Huh - only the F1 isn't blindsided. Is he telling her something?

Ha ha - JoJo and Ben's high five fail! I thought for a second she was going to yell "dolphin dive!" like my kids do.

Is she the hidden F1?

Lauren - That's a lot of likes!

He's so loving this - did you see his smile - he's so into her.

Olivia - foot in mouth disease!

I actually don't think she meant it to be mean. I think she's socially awkward.

Emily is tattling! Didn't Mike Brady say something about this?

He's going to take the rose away from Olivia! I think?

A ring - that's a little strange. she's a too intense. I think he's worried.

Emily - OTT!

Its all coming out now - the sharks are circling!

Oh ... here we go... he's going to take the rose back! The girls are happy.

WHAT!!!!! To be continued! Ah man that sucks!

Katiebelle wrote:Olivia - foot in mouth disease!

I actually don't think she meant it to be mean. I think she's socially awkward.

Emily is tattling! Didn't Mike Brady say something about this?

@katiebelle
In that moment I was thinking "open mouth insert whole freaking shoe factory"

I think because it's the halfway point, tptb are now allowing us to see who he's developed the biggest hots for.

I'm seriously starting to have hives over the word "like" abuse. GOOD
LORD my ears still hurt.

More drama and crying next week - I've had enough. Its exhausting. I'm off to have coffee with a friend.

But before I go - TPTB - if you ever look at this forum here's my plea to you.

Dear TPTB,

I know this sounds like an oxymoron but...

Your excessive use of drama is making your show incredibly boring!

All I want is this - a simple sweet romance.

I do not want to see any more bitchiness, indignation, vilification, self doubt, griping, sniping and most of all... tears. I mean really, are you getting these girls to cry on command? Are you waving a fresh cut onion under their noses?

I want to see furtive glances, shy smiles and brushed fingers turning into shared stories, steamy kisses (however, Ben, you are getting as Matty would say, a bit Billy Big Balls with the kissing now so cut that out please) and confessions of care. Yes, I don't expect the big L. I'm a realistic romantic - I'd rather hear someone say I'm falling in love with you with sincerity than I am in love with you with pretence.

So please... show us the romance not the drama. Otherwise I'm going to have to break out my Lisa Kleypas novels for my hopeful romantic fix and that box is way up in the attic.

From Katiebelle who is lucky and got her HEA and loves to see people get theirs.