Marcus Grodd - Lacy Faddoul - Bachelor in Paradise Season 1 - Discussion

So I forget to put my wedding ring on when I am running late. I don't sleep in it as it catches in my hair. So when I am in a rush I have been known to forget. I even left it off for a business trip one time. My husband teases me, but knows it is my Spazzy self. Not sure if that is what happened here, but it could be innocent. JMO.

bleuberry wrote:It was reported that they didn't have one in Mexico at the time of the wedding special. And Chris Harrison corroborated it essentially saying that they could get it done anytime after coming home, no big deal.

I don't think they are legally married in the US. I did a basic record search with both of their names and they aren't linked together. Usually if a couple is legally married the search will list the spouse under possible relatives. Marcus has no public records in CA just TX. All Lacy's public records are in CA JMO

The sad thing is the first person who came to my mind was #26.

^^^^ yes those two are certainly tight and quite adorable.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BEzor_im3Os/

They have a weird relationship. I mean they don't need to share everything on SM (like a certain couple ) just a few things here and there. Shame for their fans who hardly get any updates.

Most normal married couples don't behave like Marcus and Lacy do on SM....particularly reality tv couples. They used to talk about each other and post photos together and sweet words and now very little about each other and no photos of being a married couple living everyday life together.  Tonight on SM Lacy is at Stagecoach with her girlfriends hoping to meet SamHunt and Marcus is walking around SB alone or with?? (SB which I assume is Santa Barbara)  I find it very strange they are so cloak and dagger and won't say what the status of their relationship is.  Very very Odd.  Of course people on SM wonder because they played their relationship, engagement and supposed marriage out on full display on TV and then after a few months went off the grid with each other and make mostly vague references.  They could stop the speculation so easily...it defies logic why they choose to be so mysterious.    

JMO

Or Marcus joined the military and they are figuring out how to adjust and handle that. She is settled where she is, so she can't just quit and follow him to each new place he is posted. 

They get so much negativity, I don't blame them for stopping the posting with each other completely. JMO.

Thousands and thousands of military wives and husbands live together on or off base when their spouse is not deployed over seas for active duty.  And support each other on a daily basis regardless.  Marcus and Lacy are both posting separate photos of themselves in a variety of activities quite often.  Just not together. IMO if you don't want people to pay attention to your marital relationship/status...don't get married on a reality TV show.

JMO

Seabear wrote:Thousands and thousands of military wives and husbands live together on or off base when their spouse is not deployed over seas for active duty.  And support each other on a daily basis regardless.  Marcus and Lacy are both posting separate photos of themselves in a variety of activities quite often.  Just not together. IMO if you don't want people to pay attention to your marital relationship/status...don't get married on a reality TV show.

JMO

I understand. I personally think it is a difficult transition for them and am fine with them backing off. Lacy has businesses and people who count on her. She has not has the freedom to just follow Marcus as he moved from Coast Guard to Marine and the initial training assignments since then. I can believe that they might not know for sure what they are and what will happen and respect them keeping quiet until they do. JMO.


Also JMO, but just because you meet on tv or marry on tv does not mean that you have to continue to be public or that you owe anyone any explanations.

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I agree with stuckinsc, they don't owe fans anything, and I would block anyone demanding answers. That's insane. One of the comments actually said that the fans 'deserve' answers, because the spent time watching BIP. What crazy logic is that?

And it could be they've decided to not post about each other on sm, because the fan entitlement never stops. If they posted more, these same fans would go in on them for the clothes they wear, their looks or anything else. Or it could be they're figuring things out and don't want to make any announcements. Fans wants answers, but Lacey and Marcus might not have one. And Lacey/Marcus win that one for me, obviously, since it's their life.