Marcus Grodd - Lacy Faddoul - Bachelor in Paradise Season 1 - Discussion

nd4reality wrote:Seems like they are in the courtship phase not he married phase . Crazy goons.

I don't follow their SM very closely but it seems Marcus posts about Lacy. Lacy doesn't post about Marcus. She acknowledges his posts with a neutral response. They don't seem like they're courting. Lacy's just being polite JMO

^^^ there's that.

"thank you for the birthday wishes" something you would reply back to a fan

Maybe Lacy is not the emotion, mushy type of person, and that is OK. We do exist. SM does not show us real life, I think we have become so spoiled because of it we forget that people have lives without it.

StacyNor wrote:Maybe Lacy is not the emotion, mushy type of person, and that is OK. We do exist. SM does not show us real life, I think we have become so spoiled because of it we forget that people have lives without it.

. I would have definitely described her as emotional and mushy on Paradise and immediately after... It just seems like when you have gone radio silent on SM about one another and THAT is what you come back with..... as for their current relationship I'm going for "it's complicated." And if Im guessing, Lacy isn't convinced that being a military wife is for her... she wouldn't be the first to find that a hard road... and I don't think it was part of the equation when they fell in love so could be a deal breaker...JMHO...

IDK> I agree her response is like a response for a fb bday wish to friend. Nothing special.
I can see a happy bday to my wonderful/beautiful etc wife. With a response of thank you hunni or whatever type of endearment. Both seem a bit sterile.

She thanked friends, family and co workers on twitter for the Happy Birthday greetings. No mention of Marcus. It sure doesn't feel like they are together, or even trying to work it out. Sad. I like them together.

So odd. They should just call it and put the fans out of their misery.

I think they're trying to avoid having to explain why it's not a divorce, since they led everyone to believe they got married. Kind of awkward.

IMO there will come a time when one or both will want to date other people. (sorry hit send too fast). So they will either have to broach the topic or just go for it.

I don't think they owe fans any explanation still. Break ups and divorces can be humiliating, and having to post to strangers about your marital status just might not be their top priority, no matter how publicly they met and got together.

I don't think anyone (here) feels like they owe us anything. I do think they should just rip the bandaid off once and for all to make it stop. But maybe they don't mind the questions and comments on every single pic and tweet, idk.