Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - Bachelorette 11 - #2 - Discussion

Thank you GA yes that's what I like this time around about K&S. I'll enjoy the ride they are taking me on even if it ends up crashing, at least this time it will be expected & not with the wool over my eyes.

Linds911 wrote:Thank you GA yes that's what I like this time around about K&S. I'll enjoy the ride they are taking me on even if it ends up crashing, at least this time it will be expected & not with the wool over my eyes.

I say go for it, enjoy it. We all have different likes and dislikes when it comes to couples. There have been many couples who had disappointing fans, and others that enjoyed a wedding, it works both ways. K and S are no different. Fans should enjoy who they like. I'll say one thing, whenever a couple does split, what makes me happy is the way non fans come forward and offer their sympathies.

Negative opinions may irk fans, but again, next time around they may be on the same team. I've been on that side with Ed and Jilly. I lost a year of my real life.

S and K are having a good time. They appear to be happy which is really all that's important. There was a proposal at the end of her season and they are still together. That's a heck of a lot better than many other couples.

Some may not agree with their life style but all we do is voice our opinions on the forum. I certainly don't loose sleep over any couples. Been there, done that.

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Diana wrote:Plenty of my friends are happily married after setting a date less than six months after they began dating. Someone's you just know. JMO. Like my boyfriend and I JUST started dating after I broke off my two year engagement and I already feel like he will be my husband (obviously not right away) which considering I was engaged to my ex for two years and never felt right about getting married, proves my point, when you know you know.

It's not my place to call anyone crazy or doomed obviously but I've done the long engagement and the whole not set a wedding date and usually it means something is up.

Not that Kait and Shawn have been engaged for long. I just don't see these two getting married. IMO.

I have no gut feeling one way or the other whether they will tie the knot but I just don't see Kaitlyn as the overly romantic, can't wait to plan the wedding kind.  To her, it's all about the party/reception/open bar.  She has mentioned Shawn is the more romantic of the two.  Plus, they continue to stress the getting to know each other part (although being together 24/7 should be plenty of getting to know you time imo).  If anything, if they don't break up, I can see them living together or being on and off for several years as opposed to a wedding (unless it's televised/paid for).  They might even have a child before they wed like Ali.  Hopefully, this is years in the future when life is a bit more stable (or as stable as Kaitlyn can be)

Kaitlyn actually kind of said that in her interview on ET Canada (I think). She said she was way more excited about having babies than the wedding and they both really want to have 4 kids. Considering she's 30, I can see them starting soon.

From the beginning, I thought that they would have a Charlie/Sarah type thing where they were together for years and years, but on and off. Now, I kind of think they might get married but I'm kind of biased. I really never know where things are going to go with couples. I really like both Jade/Tanner and Kaitlyn/Shawn, but I'm too cynical to believe that things will end in marriage just because they're currently happy. It's still the honeymoon phase for both couples.

I really really hope they don't have child on the future!!
They are going to be the worst role model for kids.

Yeah I think K&S having children anytime soon is not a good idea at all.
They need to get themselves sorted and mature and grow up first.
Not to mention, narcissism is definitely not a good trait to have as a parent.  

If not rushing into marriage is considered a good thing...
... then not having children any time soon is definitely a much, much better thing, imo.
The latter is a lifetime commitment and responsibility.
Just no.

I saw this K response to someone today . It is a positive comment which the person might asked about how she is handling negativity on her page . And she responded by addressing some negative comments from her . And she said that by reading people's comments just making her feel better at life than them . I don't have a problem with her response though but I find a little contradicting . Because by saying any negativity she is reading or even read people are making her feel better at life than them.  I don't know what she is trying to say about that phrase . Because if these people making her feel better at life then she is not spending her time to these trolls . And just ignore and move on since being known this is always the case. You can't control these people .Maybe I am saying this is because of the way she is responding to more on negative ones than the positive ones that we all know . I do agree that sometimes too much negativity is not okay and she needs to response at them but in a nice way and she hasn't been done  that way instead she does the other way. And still prepare people to praise her and no constructive criticisms should be allowed because she is Kaitlyn . If this is what she is now saying hopefully this is the starting of her handling the negativity differently and ignoring them, focusing more on positive ones .

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I think she means those who left negative comments are pathetic and looking at them makes her feel better? If this is the case, then she is lower than them because she always let those negative comments bother her.

I used to like this girl, but her behaviour during and after filming were/are kind of ridiculous. Excessive drinking, negativity, the me-me-me attitude ... no, those are not her being real. Being real means you learn and grow, and always strive to be a better person. She abused the phrase "living in the moment".

Yeah I used to think she was really confident and didn't take things to heart but she has to be the most thin-skinned person ever on this show. She needs to toughen up if she wants to stay in the public eye.

I agree, Blu.
This is what made me so disappointed too - I saw a totally different Kaitlyn in Farmer's season, that she never involved in the drama, that she handled the Britt situation well, that she carried herself well. when people said she is trashy after seeing her limo exit and skinny dipping, I even defended her by saying she is just being a modern woman who doesn't care too much about what others think of her.

I was so blindsided.

Yeah I guess she stayed out of the drama on Chris season because she was auditioning to be the Bette. She put her best foot forward and then bam we see the real Kailtyn on her own season a a lead. Pretty disappointing imo

mysthelma wrote:Yeah I guess she stayed out of the drama on Chris season because she was auditioning to be the Bette. She put her best foot forward and then bam we see the real Kailtyn on her own season a a lead. Pretty disappointing imo

Not me. I saw through her and was rooting for Britt to be The Bachelorette. The signs were there but people chose not to see them, lets not forget this is the same chick that went on radio and talked about sleeping with her friend then fiance with no care before she got the gig.

Kaitlyn, Kaitlyn, Kailtyn.
Grow up.