Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - Bachelorette 11 - #2 - Discussion

AllAboutLove wrote:Kaitlyn is definitely a narcissist, IMO.

Kailtyn views herself and her life as something people should consider themselves "privileged" to have a front row seat for and are unworthy of. And if anyone complains about the view (her) then they face her wrath and a reminder of how unworthy they are of those front seats reserved only for those who make sure she stays above them.

JMO

Yes. If you remember, Chris S was going to bring Jordan back, but he listened to the protests of the other women. Kaitlyn gave no such consideration to her group of men with Nick. Kaitlyn is the kind of person who will simply do whatever she wants. She doesnt care so much about right or wrong or even how it will affect people she even "cares" about (e.g. Shawn). She's going to do what she wants, when she wants, with whomever she wants. She just doesnt want anyone to criticize her for it. She wants the right to do every wrong thing, to disrespect anyone and everyone, without anyone calling out her behavior as amoral. That's also why they invented the new phrase "sl*t shaming." She doesnt want to be told that certain stuff is amoral. It is a do whatever you want philosophy which she lives by, and many people (including lots of women) vehemently disagree with that lifestyle.

You can see what kind of girl she is, as she makes every joke about sexual innuendo, while claiming it is just how she deals with things.

She also needs something to do with her life. Something important, something she feels passionate about. She seems bored for lack of a better word, so that's likely partly why she focuses so much on random strangers' comments. She is too surface level as Ian accurately said and if she could accept any constructive criticism from someone who has her best interest at heart who isn't just paying her lip surface of what they know she wants to hear, they could tell her that! But at 30, she should know this already!!

rhondam wrote:She also needs something to do with her life. Something important, something she feels passionate about. She seems bored for lack of a better word, so that's likely partly why she focuses so much on random strangers' comments. She is too surface level as Ian accurately said and if she could accept any constructive criticism from someone who has her best interest at heart who isn't just paying her lip surface of what they know she wants to hear, they could tell her that! But at 30, she should know this already!!

But she said on her Tedx yt video that at the age of 30 she never bully by anyone just now . So that added to how she is reacting to cyber bullying because to her this is new . Unless she is not speaking the truth of no one bullied her at her younger years .That is why she is having a hard time coping with constructive criticism and it much worse now she is a public figure . Jmo .

People complaining to Kaitlyn about paid sponsorships is not cyber bullying her.
Kaitlyn lives in Kaitlyn's world and expects her followers to worship her and rants when they don't.
Plain and simple. jmo

lovebites8727 wrote:

rhondam wrote:She also needs something to do with her life. Something important, something she feels passionate about. She seems bored for lack of a better word, so that's likely partly why she focuses so much on random strangers' comments. She is too surface level as Ian accurately said and if she could accept any constructive criticism from someone who has her best interest at heart who isn't just paying her lip surface of what they know she wants to hear, they could tell her that! But at 30, she should know this already!!

But she said on her Tedx yt video that at the age of 30 she never bully by anyone just now . So that added to how she is reacting to cyber bullying because to her this is new . Unless she is not speaking the truth of no one bullied her at her younger years .That is why she is having a hard time coping with constructive criticism and it much worse now she is a public figure . Jmo .

Many of us (people in general) haven't been bullied by the time we're 30 or still never have. That doesn't mean that we're going to flip out on anyone who next bullies us or plain and simply doesn't say something we like. The maturity or functioning isn't there for her imo, on how to interact with her followers, fans or the others.

rhondam wrote:

lovebites8727 wrote:

rhondam wrote:She also needs something to do with her life. Something important, something she feels passionate about. She seems bored for lack of a better word, so that's likely partly why she focuses so much on random strangers' comments. She is too surface level as Ian accurately said and if she could accept any constructive criticism from someone who has her best interest at heart who isn't just paying her lip surface of what they know she wants to hear, they could tell her that! But at 30, she should know this already!!

But she said on her Tedx yt video that at the age of 30 she never bully by anyone just now . So that added to how she is reacting to cyber bullying because to her this is new . Unless she is not speaking the truth of no one bullied her at her younger years .That is why she is having a hard time coping with constructive criticism and it much worse now she is a public figure . Jmo .

Many of us (people in general) haven't been bullied by the time we're 30 or still never have. That doesn't mean that we're going to flip out on anyone who next bullies us or plain and simply doesn't say something we like. The maturity or functioning isn't there for her imo, on how to interact with her followers, fans or the others.

True to that . Imo I do think that she needs more of growing up at her age . I know you can't judge someone by just looking at their snap show or other sm but atleast you can give your opinion by watching the way they are acting and their various appearances . To me K thinks so much of herself and she only wants everyone to agree with her and don't ever ever give any constructive criticism to whatever she does or posting because she cannot accept that and she will get back at you . I do think she needs to stop talking cyber bullying or ranting anything about bullying and stop feeding people to keep them coming back at her to say something .

There is a huge difference between "bullying" someone and voicing a contrary opinion.  Kaitlyn seems to consider it bullying her if someone offers an opinion short of total agreement, acceptance and worship.  
She needs to focus on gratitude for all the wonderful things in her life.  Enough of the negativity.

Seabear wrote:There is a huge difference between "bullying" someone and voicing a contrary opinion.  Kaitlyn seems to consider it bullying her if someone offers an opinion short of total agreement, acceptance and worship.  
She needs to focus on gratitude for all the wonderful things in her life.  Enough of the negativity.

Which that is what she thinks . She doesn't know the difference between bullying and voicing a contrary opinion. All she thinks is they are all bullying . She just wants to be praised . Jmo.

Another day, another rant....yawn. If she hates the criticism that much, just delete your social media accounts. I think the world will do fine without seeing pics of drunk Kaitlyn or her annoying rants. The world did exist without social media you know Kaitlyn.

What the heck is her problem? Seriously. Does she think people who criticise her will change their minds if she puts them down and underlines that hear true fans always have her back? I'm afraid it has the opposite effect. The people who don't worship the ground she walks on might be keeping an open mind and might even learn to respect her at some point if she just let them have their opinions. With these rants she's just making them dislike her even more. If that's her goal, then great, but don't whine about the negativity if you keep fanning the flames on a regular basis.

She just sounds stupid. Congrats Kaitlyn, we are all also dumber for listening to you and reading your rants.

The problem with Kaitlyn, imo, is best summed up in her IG bio which says, "I'm an acquired taste. If you don't like me, acquire some taste."

Basically Kaitlyn is saying that if you don't like her then you are the problem and need to change for her.

That is just plain narcissism.  

Most people in this world will not be liked by everyone and are not everyone's cup of tea — which is totally normal. 

What is not normal is someone like Kaitlyn who not only believes she should be everyone's cup of of tea but also expects people to view her as the best cup of tea ever.