Amanda Stanton - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

My first thought was that if my husband was cheating and partying it up every weekend, I'd probably be a bit high-strung too...but they both just need to let it go. It's just becoming immature and inconsiderate to their children.

It seems to be a fairly safe bet to take Amanda out of the running for the next Bachelorette. What a mess.

This why I don't like parents as cast. Please think of your children first. This goes for both mom and dad.


JMO

Yeah, we don't need the baby daddy drama to continue for another season. Emily's situation was much easier, because there was no ex in the picture and Ricki wasn't a toddler anymore. Choosing Amanda as the lead would be craziness. I just fear they're considering it since Bachelor alumni seem to be so supportive of her.

This makes me admire Snez (<3) even more. She's not once talked about her ex in any public form, even after he did. And her daughter was old enough to handle it all IMO. 

How many 26 year olds would be ready to be a step parent to two kids under 5, added a messy ex to the picture?!

I don't know if Snez needs to be admired, she is just doing what she already should be doing—not airing her ex's business on national television. He didn't sign up to do the show.

Her ex spoke to the press while she was on the show though. IMO it takes a bigger person to simply not fire back.

Fingersandtoes wrote:Her ex spoke to the press while she was on the show though. IMO it takes a bigger person to simply not fire back.

He was dissed on national TV and wants to tell his side of the story. Makes sense to me JMO

Her ex spoke to Life and Style magazine to give his side of the story, via his Instagram. It's on stands now! Lol

And he got a paycheck for that as well..... A bigger man would have let it pass by...

Never liked Amanda, having 2 kids and already divorced so young are the biggest clues as to what kind of person she is. I don't know it's more because she is a very dim bulb, or she is simply an irresponsible person, or both.

And I don't know how she normally talks, but I get a feeling she is trying to be Emily Maynard 2.0. It's not about the similar voice, it's the way she talks.

peggy0221 wrote:Never liked Amanda, having 2 kids and already divorced so young are the biggest clues as to what kind of person she is. I don't know it's more because she is a very dim bulb, or she is simply an irresponsible person, or both.

And I don't know how she normally talks, but I get a feeling she is trying to be Emily Maynard 2.0. It's not about the similar voice, it's the way she talks.

*EDIT* I know of a number of people who have been divorced young with a couple of kids and they weren't irresponsible or a dim bulb.

I still love Amanda and she has always been in my top 3.  I think she is someone who loves her kids very much and is just looking to be able to provide them the best life possible.  I know a couple guys I would love to set her up with.  To bad they will never meet though.  And honestly I think Ben would have had no problem becoming a father figure to those 2 little girls.  He has worked around kids before and it appears he loves kids.