Amanda Stanton - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Where is the video/pic of Becca/Ben looking bored in the limo?

And, I totally see what you mean about her not being that into him. They both seemed a bit shy and uncomfortable with the crowd, so I'm not sure if that played a role? I do think Ben is a bad actor and it'll be clear as day who he's into and who he's not.

I'm honestly not that excited about this season anymore either. It all just seems so predictable. Maybe they'll surprise me! All, my opinion!

@nothatgirl I agree. And I love your avatar :cutesmile!:

nothatgirl wrote:Where is the video/pic of Becca/Ben looking bored in the limo?

And, I totally see what you mean about her not being that into him. They both seemed a bit shy and uncomfortable with the crowd, so I'm not sure if that played a role? I do think Ben is a bad actor and it'll be clear as day who he's into and who he's not.

I'm honestly not that excited about this season anymore either. It all just seems so predictable. Maybe they'll surprise me! All, my opinion!

I'm sorry, I'm not sure in which thread it is but it was a picture taken by the limo driver of Ben as he was being driven...I'm assuming to the carnival GD. He looks kind of po'd to me....not that I can blame him. I'm sure he is over all the games tptb are pulling by now, but he did sign up for this so...sucks to be you Ben...unless you actually end up with someone. Not holding my breath.

Thanks, AAL! I loved the season - Sam should give all our future bachelorettes lessons on how to be a classy, empathetic lead!

And, Sprite, thanks - I found the pic in the sleuthing thread! Whenever there's a candid pic of him, he just looks exhausted! He seems like he's ready for all this to be over.

Amen to that NTG!! Sam has set the example for all leads, imo! (sorry O/T)

I dont care if the season is predictable. I'm not here to be surprised, especially when I'm actively searching out spoilers. I'm here to watch the journey...enjoy the entertainment.

Oh btw, one of the tweeters said Amanda barely spoke, cause she looked nervous and uncomfortable with the "madness" of the crowd. So there's that.

eversotrue wrote:Oh btw, one of the tweeters said Amanda barely spoke, cause she looked nervous and uncomfortable with the "madness" of the crowd. So there's that.

That makes me think that Ben is even less into her than the photos suggest since he was standing so far from her, even with the kiss. If she was that uncomfortable he would be holding her super close, imo. And a piggy back doesn't strike me as anything intimate at this point of the game, imo. More friendzone.

AllAboutLove wrote:

eversotrue wrote:Oh btw, one of the tweeters said Amanda barely spoke, cause she looked nervous and uncomfortable with the "madness" of the crowd. So there's that.

That makes me think that Ben is even less into her than the photos suggest since he was standing so far from her, even with the kiss. If she was that uncomfortable he would be holding her super close, imo. And a piggy back doesn't strike me as anything intimate at this point of the game, imo. More friendzone.

There were a lot of photos though. And a few were action shots. In some they were standing further away, in others they weren't. Most of their outing was captured at various points throughout the night. It's not like it was just one snap and it was over. Lol

It is so hard to tell from pictures, I have learned that before. He must have some feelings for her, she is in the F4. She is a very pretty girl. That said, I agree with whoever said they got Jade and Chris vibes from it. Off topic, those were my first intro to Jade and I have adored her ever since.

Yeah... it could be that.. but I am not betting on it. CS was this way with Jade so it really does say a lot to me, imo. I have no egg in a basket so it matters not to me. Just stating how I see it. Could be nothing. Imo, though, Ben is not into this girl, nice as she may be.

I know some people think it isn't fair for Ben to take her to HTD's if he doesn't think she is the F1, because of her kids. I used to have the same sentiments. But after all these years, I have come to realize that this show has been on long enough and contestants are pretty aware and have watched enough contestants with kids at home. These days, I think the parent decided to go on the show, therefore involving their kids. If they do not want them to become at all involved with the lead, then they could easily choose to not have them at the HTD. JMO, of course.
And I am not saying parents shouldn't go on the show. I am just stating, imo, it is the parent who is the one who is ultimately responsible for leaving, and perhaps involving, their children.