Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

What IF, the source RS and RJ are getting information from is telling them opposite. What if maybe Ben told her to come on his season to see if there might be something. Maybe they didn't talk enough for him to change his mind about being the bachelor, but enough for them to agree that there might be something if she went on. He probably wasn't 100% sure she'd be there night one, but was surprised when she got out of the limo. Maybe I'm just looking for excuses for Becca because I don't see her being this naive, but I seriously don't know WHY she would go on if she wasn't sure if something in it for her... As selfish as that sounds. JMO!

breannalauren wrote:What IF, the source RS and RJ are getting information from is telling them opposite. What if maybe Ben told her to come on his season to see if there might be something. Maybe they didn't talk enough for him to change his mind about being the bachelor, but enough for them to agree that there might be something if she went on. He probably wasn't 100% sure she'd be there night one, but was surprised when she got out of the limo. Maybe I'm just looking for excuses for Becca because I don't see her being this naive, but I seriously don't know WHY she would go on if she wasn't sure if something in it for her... As selfish as that sounds. JMO!

Exactly!! This is what I've been trying to say. Your naive is a kinder and better word than my delusional. :Nod:

Anything's possible at this point, until backed by evidence. Until then, I'm going to travel the sleuthing road, which will lead to the truth. It hasn't failed yet.

breannalauren wrote:What IF, the source RS and RJ are getting information from is telling them opposite. What if maybe Ben told her to come on his season to see if there might be something. Maybe they didn't talk enough for him to change his mind about being the bachelor, but enough for them to agree that there might be something if she went on. He probably wasn't 100% sure she'd be there night one, but was surprised when she got out of the limo. Maybe I'm just looking for excuses for Becca because I don't see her being this naive, but I seriously don't know WHY she would go on if she wasn't sure if something in it for her... As selfish as that sounds. JMO!

Well said!

quietpal wrote:Anything's possible at this point, until backed by evidence. Until then, I'm going to travel the sleuthing road, which will lead to the truth. It hasn't failed yet.

I am too! :cutesmile!:

breannalauren wrote:What IF, the source RS and RJ are getting information from is telling them opposite. What if maybe Ben told her to come on his season to see if there might be something. Maybe they didn't talk enough for him to change his mind about being the bachelor, but enough for them to agree that there might be something if she went on. He probably wasn't 100% sure she'd be there night one, but was surprised when she got out of the limo. Maybe I'm just looking for excuses for Becca because I don't see her being this naive, but I seriously don't know WHY she would go on if she wasn't sure if something in it for her... As selfish as that sounds. JMO!

Yup, already posted this possibility before this info even was stated by RS.
Because when it comes to what is being fed by TPTB to anyone, I can see the opposite happening.
Anyone remember RS and his "Kaitlyn 100% picked no one"? Yup, not true.
Thus, if it doesn't make sense there's probably a reason for it, IMHO.
*skeptical glasses on*

Becca would 100% not go on if Ben had said "don't come." If someone doesn't want her, she doesn't want them. Same reason as why she didn't want any to do with Chris Soules after he and Whitney broke up. He had the chance to be with her, he said no, and that was that. She wouldn't go after someone if they had rejected her, not her style.

Becca, or anyone who wishes to return for a second shot, doesn't need the leads invitation or approval. In most cases, they only need to feel that "there is a chance," have a talk with the producers, and they make it happen, if it suits their purpose.

I'm solidly all for sleuthing, but even if it happens that Ben and Becca end up together, it won't make or prove that the information given by RS and RJ is a lie. Saying that Ben won't choose Becca is simply their prediction, based on the information that they were given. It's a logical conclusion.

Hopefully, it works out for Becca...whatever that might mean.

Thank you. I tend to see it that way, also, however that would be my pov and not hers. So good to hear.

1fortheMoney33 wrote:Becca would 100% not go on if Ben had said "don't come." If someone doesn't want her, she doesn't want them. Same reason as why she didn't want any to do with Chris Soules after he and Whitney broke up. He had the chance to be with her, he said no, and that was that. She wouldn't go after someone if they had rejected her, not her style.

How do you know that? RJ who is her friend, said it is true...

KatCAli90 wrote:

1fortheMoney33 wrote:Becca would 100% not go on if Ben had said "don't come." If someone doesn't want her, she doesn't want them. Same reason as why she didn't want any to do with Chris Soules after he and Whitney broke up. He had the chance to be with her, he said no, and that was that. She wouldn't go after someone if they had rejected her, not her style.

How do you know that? RJ who is her friend, said it is true...

Because I am her friend and know she would never do that had he point blank told her don't come on

1fortheMoney33 wrote:

KatCAli90 wrote:

1fortheMoney33 wrote:Becca would 100% not go on if Ben had said "don't come." If someone doesn't want her, she doesn't want them. Same reason as why she didn't want any to do with Chris Soules after he and Whitney broke up. He had the chance to be with her, he said no, and that was that. She wouldn't go after someone if they had rejected her, not her style.

How do you know that? RJ who is her friend, said it is true...

Because I am her friend and know she would never do that had he point blank told her don't come on

I agree with you. I don't know her, but what I know of her, I can't see her still going on the show after being told the lead doesn't want them. AshleyI yes, but not Becca.