Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Sorry to continue the OT, but I think the big underlying issue with RS is his demeanor and the arrogant way in which he shares his info at times. I have defended him myself as I really enjoy spoiler/spec/anything, and he does offer that, but I completely understand the annoyance with him as it gets under my skin as well. I admit I enjoy when he gets called out sometimes. If he were less in your face about how good he is, maybe he would get a pass for being human.

LOVE your posts AAL!!! and some others!!! :Nod:  Whew caught up!

As a side note:  maybe administrators can answer this, but why would the name of a member on here who posted recently change to Guest? If I'm allowed to ask?

chasingpavements wrote:AAL, I think that's silly - no one is forcing people to read RS.

(jmo)

Well, I will be silly then and keep "guessing".
Who knows, I may be correct again.
And if I am incorrect it really doesn't bother me.
I care more about the facts than about being correct or incorrect.

And it matters to me if something is presented as fact when it is just speculation because it causes unnecessary confusion and it is hard to sift through it all.  

I think there is a reason we don't have an RS thread on this forum.
While he is a source of information it has, IMO, time and time again become more about RS and I really honestly don't care.

Since it is Becca's topic, I will say that in light of recent events it is interesting that when it was discussed she was going on the show she posted on here. And when it was discussed that maybe the information being sold (and not proven) was incorrect Becca resurfaced and posted on her Twitter.

Those are the things I am focusing on at present.
It will be interesting to see what happens next. :Nod:

rhondam wrote:LOVE your posts AAL!!!  and some others!!! :Nod:  Whew caught up!

As a side note:  maybe administrators can answer this, but why would the name of a member on here who posted recently change to Guest? If I'm allowed to ask?

This can happen for a few reasons. One reason is the member chooses to deactivate their membership. 
We have a one username per member rule. That could be another. 

I do not want to lock this thread.
We do not call other members out on this forum. If there are member issues please pm a mod. Thank you.

AllAboutLove wrote:RS this RS that. Since this is about Becca and her topic, I go back to the fact that the sleuthing here predicted that Becca would go on the show and that her SM was indicating such.
It was.

Sleuthing is the way to go. U guys do this so well. Each season.


The info from Rs is nice to know but should never be taken as 100%. A pet peev is when the "oh Rs said" posts creep up as though he is never wrong. Well he has been.

Eta : have there been any actual sightings of becca since her sm resurface?

umngirl wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

umngirl wrote:

People "guessed" Becca was Chris' F1.
People "guessed" Nick was Kaitlyn's F1.
People "guessed" so-and-so was F1 when they weren't.

Many here make just as many incorrect guesses. But it would be rude of us to bring it up to each other all the time when they are guesses.

Sorry, but I don't understand what the point of this post is?? That's what we do here, we speculate, we make incorrect guesses, we sleuth incorrectly, and we get things correct, we learn from each other, and we give credit to each other.

What does being rude to RS have to do with anything?

My point is that people are ragging all over RS for guessing wrong yet plenty of us are just as wrong. Doesn't that feel a little wrong to chastise someone for basically having a different opinion?

The mandate of this forum is to sleuth speculate teach others how to sleuth share post pics scour SM for clues be cordial to each other among a host of other things. It has nothing to do with RS UsMag People Mag or anyone else out there that earns an income for doing what we do for fun. If I want to point out RS didn't say what was posted here, I will do just that. If we were rude to each other posting what we are wrong about, we would all be like RS. That will never happen as long as I'm around. Shall we stick up for CL because they have a different opinion than us?

AllAboutLove wrote:Just as an aside...

As someone who has sleuthed 3 seasons without RS or spoilers of Bachelor franchise this year alone (Bach NZ, Bach AU, Bette AU) I can safely say that sleuthing this way has proven to me that RS can be a distraction when it comes to sleuthing.

It's why I don't pay that much heed to what is being said unless it fits the puzzle pieces and can be proven.

I really don't care who is "correct".

What I care about is making sure the pieces of the puzzle fit and there is evidence to support these pieces.  

So far, with regards to things stated about Becca and the facts thereafter, the puzzle pieces have best fit what has been sluethed on this forum and proven correct.

So until there is evidence to corroborate any other information, no matter the source, I will view it as IMO/JMO until it is proven as fact and not just opinion.

That's what makes it difficult to keep track of things when things are presented as fact or because "RS said it" but there is no evidence.

Until there is evidence? I will keep sleuthing...

This is basically how I feel as well. As for the bold, this is what started the conversation. That is also what started the backlash against Becca for going on a show which Ben told her not to go on. We don't know that. We can speculate what if, or how could she, however when posts don't say "IF Becca did" IF Ben did, it snowballs into unproven information. She tweeted recently and because RS says Nick did the same thing, then she must not have been eliminated.

Sleuthers remembered she tweeted during CS season as well. I'd rather disect that information, rather than oh well, RS said they are tricking us. BTW sleuthers knew TOG was posting on SM while filming, well before RS. If it wasnt RS and it was someone else, I'd be saying the same thing. Why would I not stick up for our own backyard before anyone else.

Did she always have this in her twitter bio?

Yer cute. Business inquiries: asst.beccatilley@gmail.com

AllAboutLove wrote: ***snipped***
Since it is Becca's topic, I will say that in light of recent events it is interesting that when it was discussed she was going on the show she posted on here. And when it was discussed that maybe the information being sold (and not proven) was incorrect Becca resurfaced and posted on her Twitter.

Along that vein...

This doesn't prove anything one way or another, but this was posted by one of Becca's sisters yesterday late morning. Remember, the day before, this board was hopping with RS's info about Ben telling Becca not to come on (and RJ's confirmation)...pages and pages of posts...many disparaging Becca.

This could be the biggest coincidence ever...or perhaps her sister was reading here. Personally, I lean toward the latter.

Here's a reminder that other people's opinions of you don't define you. Don't live to please by @cmtilley

^That post is interesting in so much that Becca clearly cares about our opinions enough to come here and defend herself...

Litta123 wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote: ***snipped***
Since it is Becca's topic, I will say that in light of recent events it is interesting that when it was discussed she was going on the show she posted on here. And when it was discussed that maybe the information being sold (and not proven) was incorrect Becca resurfaced and posted on her Twitter.

Along that vein...

This doesn't prove anything one way or another, but this was posted by one of Becca's sisters yesterday late morning. Remember, the day before, this board was hopping with RS's info about Ben telling Becca not to come on (and RJ's confirmation)...pages and pages of posts...many disparaging Becca.

This could be the biggest coincidence ever...or perhaps her sister was reading here. Personally, I lean toward the latter.

Here's a reminder that other people's opinions of you don't define you. Don't live to please by @cmtilley

I lean toward the latter as well. It is not just coincidence, IMO, that once the info was being challenged that it may be the opposite of what is being fed that Becca was on Twitter posting and soon after RJ was a "guest".

@Litta123 Thanks for bringing that over. It made me laugh. Who is she kidding? Becca does care about other people's opinions. A lot. So does her family. Does anyone remember when one of her sisters went on a Twitter rant about their edit on the HTD? So hoping Becca is eliminated soon and this whole mess is done with. Over it.

^I forgot about that. It really is comical.

To someone to follows Becca and her family or has a great memory: is this the same sister or a different one?

It's a different one. That whole family is oversensitive. Please no HTD for them.