Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Yes, it is^^ Keep your eye on all the puzzle pieces.

I'm not ruling ANYTHING out. ANYTHING/EVERYTHING is possible IMO. I can't wait to hear/see how it all unfolds and then eventually ends... That's the great part about being on this forum while filming is underway. We find out stuff for ourselves, and then when the show airs, we see if and what has come to light.

I take everything RS says with a heap of salt. Last season he was 100% confident and cocky about Kaitlyn choosing no one and going home alone, until SnapGate happened.
If RJ has the same source as RS on this tidbit maybe the source is wrong. I just hope for Becca's sake it is wrong.

The Jared date doesn't make any sense. Why would Becca set up a date with Jared when she had already contacted Ben and knew going on Ben's season was a possibility? She also knew Jared and Ben were good friends. Just doesn't make sense to me.

Thanks for sharing info RJ, I just hope your source is wrong is all.

bleuberry wrote:

chasingpavements wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:As messy as this all is, it would be amazing if Becca turned it around and they actually end up together. 

(jmo)

Now I'm even more eager to find out why he didn't just send her home right away.

He didn't send her home right away because he wasn't allowed too...If the lead was allowed to send home all the people they wanted to right away there would be no show.

There are only three possible reasons IMO that Becca went on Ben's season after he told her not to go on:

1) TPTB promised something to her. Whether that be next lead, payment for appearing or something else worthy to her

2) Ben in fact did NOT tell her not to come on in which case a foiler is trying to be put in place with each RS and RJ each receiving convincing emails

3) She is delusional that Ben will change his mind once getting to meet her in person.
JMO

RJ, I'm still a little unclear on a couple of things. Isn't Ben telling Becca that he doesn't think her going on the show would be a good idea basically telling her that he's not interested in HER? I understand what you mean by him not being interested in returnees period (whether it's Becca or whoever) but if he told her that, it seems equivalent to telling her that he's not all that interested

algold29 wrote:I take everything RS says with a heap of salt.  Last season he was 100% confident and cocky about Kaitlyn choosing no one and going home alone, until SnapGate happened.  
If RJ has the same source as RS on this tidbit maybe the source is wrong.  I just hope for Becca's sake it is wrong.

The Jared date doesn't make any sense.  Why would Becca set up a date with Jared when she had already contacted Ben and knew going on Ben's season was a possibility?  She also knew Jared and Ben were good friends.  Just doesn't make sense to me.

Thanks for sharing info RJ, I just hope your source is wrong is all.

I agree with this post!! Well said!

She thinks she can change his mind and he wasn't clear that he wasn't really interested IMO. There is definite desperation, especially if Kaitlyn and Shawn got involved. JMO

Beagle wrote:

RammerJammer91 wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:It's surprising Becca is pursuing Ben despite all of this. RJ, did Becca feel confident she and Ben would hit it off?

Yes. Very confident. But there's a big difference. He's ready to settle down, get married, and have a family. Becca isn't there yet. That's not a bad thing, though.

Ok. I feel there's some piece of the puzzle missing here. Ben tells Becca not to go but yet Becca feels very confident that they'll hit it off. I have to think there was more to their conversation that made Becca confident. Definitely something is missing.

This kind of thing happens ALL THE TIME in the real world, Guy dumps girl or tells girl he's not into her, yet girl STILL thinks she can change his mind. There's no piece missing, it's simply Becca forcing something that Ben already said no to. The sad part is, by her sticking around this long, mostly likely the producers choice not Ben's, she is probably actually convinced he likes her, and is going to be crushed.

BlackHalo wrote:As messy as this all is, it would be amazing if Becca turned it around and they actually end up together. 

Messy is an under statement!  You could be right - watch Ben fall madly in love with Becca!  

MiniDiva wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:As messy as this all is, it would be amazing if Becca turned it around and they actually end up together. 

Messy is an under statement!  You could be right - watch Ben fall madly in love with Becca!  

IF this were to happen, then the discussion between Ben and Becca for her not to come in the show never happened IMO.

loveactually9 wrote:RJ, I'm still a little unclear on a couple of things. Isn't Ben telling Becca that he doesn't think her going on the show would be a good idea basically telling her that he's not interested in HER? I understand what you mean by him not being interested in returnees period (whether it's Becca or whoever) but if he told her that, it seems equivalent to telling her that he's not all that interested

Isn't that what it is though?