Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I wish I'd cashed in my frequent flyer miles. 

Please guys let's try to establish facts over opinions or speculations. Too many read here and then take off with things that may not be totally true or true.

eversotrue wrote:snipped..
Do you know which others he heard the Becca/Jared stuff from? Contestants on Kaitlyns season? Or Chris'? So you think Ben won't get anywhere with Becca because 1) he's not interested in her romantically 2) he didnt want returnees on the season/he wanted all new ladies 3) Jared is his friend and he doesn't like that she turned him down to go on his season?

Btw, why did Becca get in contact with Jared, if she supposedly liked Ben so much? And was thinking about going on his season?

IMO she's there because he had no choice. I would think he heard from Jared as well as SM, it was plastered everywhere.

What is even more strange is not only did Becca contact Jared, now we learn she contacted Ben as well.

Becca reaching out to both Ben and Jared makes total sense to me. Like others have said, she seems like the type to always have "crushes" on guys but then either gets bored or thinks their someone better she can flirt with so she moves on. Reminds me of a friend I had in high school. It wasn't attractive back then and isn't attractive for someone in their mid to late 20s. JMO

Well in a few days all the media hounds will have pulled this info off RS's site and it will be everywhere.Didn't someone post on here, she will be the last one out of the limo.Guess we know why now.IMO he did not know she was going to be one of the contestants.

chasingpavements wrote:Interesting! Thank you very much, RJ!

I can totally see Kaitlyn trying to be a matchmaker between the two. I forget which Ben it was, but I remember someone asking them about it on Periscope if Becca would be interested in him (back during MTA weekend) and Kaitlyn was so excited about the possibility. I think Kaitlyn just really wants Becca to find love.

I am really surprised that Ben AND other contestants implied to Becca that she shouldn't go on and she still did. Hey, she stayed there a lot longer than a lot of us expected so maybe Ben changed his mind. Maybe he was like "oh, these are the girls they got for me? maybe I'll just stick with Becca."

(all jmo)

I thought most of us agreed she would last until at least the half way point..? It seemed written in the cards from the get go. I think/hope there are better candidates on his season. Didn't RJ and other say that there are?

RammerJammer91 wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:It's surprising Becca is pursuing Ben despite all of this. RJ, did Becca feel confident she and Ben would hit it off?

Yes. Very confident. But there's a big difference. He's ready to settle down, get married, and have a family. Becca isn't there yet. That's not a bad thing, though.

Ok. I feel there's some piece of the puzzle missing here. Ben tells Becca not to go but yet Becca feels very confident that they'll hit it off. I have to think there was more to their conversation that made Becca confident. Definitely something is missing.

Wait, RJ, do Becca's family know of this??

RammerJammer91 wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:This is bizarre. I wonder if Becca and her family are okay with info that paints a negative light upon Becca... since they are such a private family it seems odd. It seems this info that Ben didn't want Becca would be more trying in itself than just her on the show? I don't see why this would be something they'd want people to know if one is close to her? I just don't see her friends and family who are close to her saying "Ben doesn't want Becca" even if it is true. Seems odd
Obviously we are all able to choose to believe what we want but my skeptical hat is on.  :Nod:

I will keep all eyes open... especially for foilers and aware that any information that is coming from producers or film crew with access to any emails may or may not be part of a plan where even the sleuthing here is attempted to be foiled along with RS. TPTB went out of their way last season to foil RS and it worked on RS (RS has Kaitlyn to thank that he was able to "change" his mind) but the sleuthing here was already on track that Shawn was likely F1 and SHV sluethed, etc., and the sleuthers were the ones not getting foiled.  

So with that in mind, who knows... I think that while some info may be correct because it can be corroborated and proven to be so (that Becca had a date for example and was on the show), other info could be planted. So until then... I will do what this forum is best at... look at all the angles and watch out for the foilers  

I never posted on here, and I haven't been told by Becca's family/friends that "Ben didn't want her." And if they did tell me, I would never post that.
When I said "Ben didn't think it would be the best idea for Becca to be on the show," I didn't get that e-mail from Becca's family/friends.

Fully aware of this part. It is not personal at all. We can all choose to believe anything and it certainly is enticingly believable. Perhaps too much so for me personally when it comes to knowing what TPTB do/say.

I will be skeptical of any and all information that is posted and especially if it ties into connections to production/crew, who are certainly aware of this forum and aware of the sleuthing here. And this forum was able to sleuth the foiler for K's season. So with that in mind... while I am very appreciate for all and any info, I keep my wits about me just like I did with K's season.  

I would rather be on the lookout for a foiler than be like RS who just buys into whatever his "sources" email him and tell him.

It is not coincidence that sleuthers on here figured out Becca would be on the show before anyone else did. Sure this was corroborated by RS and RJ (yourself) but only after it was sleuthed here first. :Nod: Also, it was sleuthed here first that Becca would likely have a 1on1. In fact, I posted myself that that is what I thought once I saw that video of the 12 girls and MiniDiva stated it would be the wedding one. Corroborating something is one thing, sleuthing is another and the sleuthing so far has proven correct on this forum by all the sleuthers.

So... with that in mind I just want to make sure, for myself, I don't stop sleuthing, no matter what story is being sold (even if I personally may not see Becca as F1) keeping the sleuthing going and skeptical glasses on at all times has proven handy

What a great site endorsement: 

So... with that in mind I just want to make sure, for myself, I don't stop sleuthing, no matter what story is being sold (even if I personally may not see Becca as F1) keeping the sleuthing going and skeptical glasses on at all times has proven handy. 

Thank you, AAL.

Great post AAL. Thank you!

Thank you GA, Kasha, and other mods for this great forum.
When it comes to the sleuthing on the forum, the proof is in the pudding.
*sleuthing glasses on* :Nod:

All this information and speculation, whether opinion or fact. True or untrue. Unsure or sure. Etc. is very valuable IMO. It gives us the ability to view the situation at all different angles. I love that. Really digging deep and analyzing the heck out of it, good stuff.