Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #9

GuardianAngel wrote:

RammerJammer91 wrote: snipped
Unless she is F1, it will not have been worth it. She's going to get a lot of flack, and her family will, too. They do not like the spotlight...at all. My anxiety is through the roof.

It will be ok, if she has I tried and it didn't work attitude. There is nothing wrong with that IMO. If she felt she wanted to give it a try to see if it went anywhere, at least she went with her gut and tried. She needs to stay away from the negativity as we have seen all to often what happens to those who can't take it. IMO if one is grounded, and confident in who there are, any negativity should be meaningless to them. They shouldn't have the need to focus their attention to the negative fans, especially if they have those that truly support them. IMHO

That's what I honestly think it is, and that's what I have been told. I saw RS post about her having ulterior motives and that just isn't the Becca that I know. I'm not saying RS is making that up, but I really wonder who he has been talking to. I can guarantee that I have many more sources that are closer to Becca than he does, on top of the fact that I actually know her, and I haven't heard any of that.

I agree that she needs to stay away from the negativity. It's unfortunate that she lets that get under her skin. Just don't acknowledge them, or just don't read your mentions as often.

Rammer, any idea what happened to Becca night 1? Or personal thoughts? And anything on the other returnees?

GuardianAngel wrote:

RammerJammer91 wrote: snipped
Unless she is F1, it will not have been worth it. She's going to get a lot of flack, and her family will, too. They do not like the spotlight...at all. My anxiety is through the roof.

It will be ok, if she has I tried and it didn't work attitude. There is nothing wrong with that IMO. If she felt she wanted to give it a try to see if it went anywhere, at least she went with her gut and tried. She needs to stay away from the negativity as we have seen all to often what happens to those who can't take it. IMO if one is grounded, and confident in who there are, any negativity should be meaningless to them. They shouldn't have the need to focus their attention to the negative fans, especially if they have those that truly support them. IMHO

IA. No different than Nick taking a chance - no risk, no reward (or sometimes the reward in itself is the risk alone).
Perhaps Becca could take a page from Nick's book since she is following, literally, in his 2x on consecutive seasons footsteps.
And IA... it is always best to ignore or kill with kindness any negative fans.
Becca did great with that last season but may need a much thicker skin this time around.
It won't be pretty and the best thing for her is either F1 or anything-but-F2. :Nod:
She really doesn't want to go down as Nick 2.0.
Or maybe she does

eversotrue wrote:Rammer, any idea what happened to Becca night 1? Or personal thoughts? And anything on the other returnees?

Nothing on possible returnees. I'm pretty sure Becca got a rose. She isn't back in SD or in the hotel where the girls went after filming.

RammerJammer91 wrote:

eversotrue wrote:Rammer, any idea what happened to Becca night 1? Or personal thoughts? And anything on the other returnees?

Nothing on possible returnees. I'm pretty sure Becca got a rose. She isn't back in SD or in the hotel where the girls went after filming.

Did you hear from someone specifically that she's not at the hotel?

eversotrue wrote:

RammerJammer91 wrote:

eversotrue wrote:Rammer, any idea what happened to Becca night 1? Or personal thoughts? And anything on the other returnees?

Nothing on possible returnees. I'm pretty sure Becca got a rose. She isn't back in SD or in the hotel where the girls went after filming.

Did you hear from someone specifically that she's not at the hotel?

Yes.

I'm guessing whoever got eliminated night 1 won't show up anywhere until Monday, when it's back to work for them. Up until how long do they keep the eliminated contestants sequestered? Especially on the first night?

I would be shocked if Becca DIDN'T get a rose at the M&G. She's gorgeous and kind...even if a little immature. She's a somewhat known commodity versus some of the nut jobs that get cast. I think Ben would be foolish not to keep her around a little while at least. If she holds true to herself, she won't be bringing the drama...a big plus for any guy. I certainly would take a gamble on her if I were in Ben's shoes.

Litta123 wrote:I would be shocked if Becca DIDN'T get a rose at the M&G. She gorgeous and kind...even if a little immature. She's a somewhat known commodity versus some of the nut jobs that get cast. I think Ben would be foolish not to keep her around a little while at least. If she holds true to herself, she won't be bringing the drama...a big plus for any guy. I certainly would take a gamble on her if I were in Ben's shoes.

ITA. Surely there are plenty of worse options there on night 1. Becca didn't get to F2 last season out of sheer luck. She's also friends with Kaitlyn, so Ben must be at least a bit intrigued. I'm sure she'll last at least a few episodes.

I think even if he's not that interested, he would keep her at least night one, just to be nice....

Just because he knows of her, and they have mutual friends. Not to mention the producers influence. I still predict she lasts 2-4 episodes.

RammerJammer91 wrote: snipped

That's what I honestly think it is, and that's what I have been told. I saw RS post about her having ulterior motives and that just isn't the Becca that I know. I'm not saying RS is making that up, but I really wonder who he has been talking to. I can guarantee that I have many more sources that are closer to Becca than he does, on top of the fact that I actually know her, and I haven't heard any of that.

I agree that she needs to stay away from the negativity. It's unfortunate that she lets that get under her skin. Just don't acknowledge them, or just don't read your mentions as often.

Re the bold, ok I'll say it.

How does he know she has ulterior motives? We can speculate, but how does he know, did Becca tell him herself? If she didn't then he doesn't know IMHO.

He talks to who ever will give him the time of day, including those that want a foiler season and he doesn't know better.