The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Potential Contestants - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

loveactually9 wrote:

ICU wrote:I honestly hope that Ben is allowed to send Becca home asap, like tell her to get back in the limo she had her chance.  And I hope he is not forced to carry her along as one of his picks if he really isn't into her.  I just don't see them as a match.  There was time for her to meet him prior to him signing the contract if she really wanted the chance to.  

I actually prefer what she is doing to what Tenley did. She wants a chance with Ben so she is willing to put herself through possible embarrassment on TV, it's fair game. Whereas with Tenley she really tried to force it and make him pick her over being the Bachelor and then was upset/miffed that he didn't when she knew fully well that he was going to be the lead. If Becca wants a chance, then I'm ok with her not meeting him beforehand and being one of the 26-30 girls who can be dismissed the first night or kept on for as long as he chooses. With that said I still don't see them being the best match

I just hate the idea that Ben may be forced to keep her over someone new that he really would like to get to know. Just because the producers invited her back for the 2nd time. As long as he can get rid of her when he wants fine, otherwise I stand by the idea that she should have had her bestie Kaitlyn set them up.

ICU wrote:There was time for her to meet him prior to him signing the contract if she really wanted the chance to.  

Agreed.  I believe in second chances, but to me, this will be her 3rd.  She could have easily made contact with him off the show after his season with Kaitlyn, but the public spectacle really seems to be what she's looking for.  

I think she's a beauty with high standards for both a guy and the lifestyle she wants

And yet, she doesn't seem to have finished her education, has an low-skill, entry level job and appears to have no goals or aspirations but to flirt with guys on social media.  How is that valuable to a potential life partner?  She's pretty?  That's all she has to offer?  I'm sure she's a very nice girl, but I imagine there will be a few ladies available to Ben with more assets than just pleasant looks and the ability to send Tweets. Those are the one's I look forward to seeing.

I don't think Ben will be forced to keep her, just like Kaitlyn wasn't forced to keep Nick. If they turn out to have the connection that Kaitlyn and Nick did ( which I doubt), then she will stick around for awhile. Otherwise it will likely be a return more along the lines of Kacie which didn't take much away from the other girls. I don't mind that she is "taking a spot" away from the other girls because I think she will be in the 26-30 and in my mind she's replacing a "crazy" girl with her returning storyline

Becca tagged Ben in a lot of her tweets, or replied to tweets that tagged him, and he was always radio silent. I know he was probably told to ignore the ladies, plus he just doesnt use social media much..but I found/find that funny. Trying so hard to get his attention. Poor Bec:( JK

I for one am more interested in any new gals that may show up. I want to get their stories and see how I think they would get along with Ben. I really could see him with someone like Breanne. She seems more down to earth. Whoever it is Ben ends up with they have to be willing to get dirty. Need to enjoy the outdoors and not afraid to rough it, as in backpacking into the mountains and sleeping in a tent or under the stars. Better be able to fish and not be scared to bait her own hook or take her own fish off. And if they hunt that wouldn't be a bad thing either. Becca just doesn't seem like that girl at all to me.

I hope we get to see all those wonderful sides of Ben you have given us glimpses of.

Kashathediva wrote:I hope we get to see all those wonderful sides of Ben you have given us glimpses of.

I hope so too. And I hope they don't do the stupid type of dates that some of them were on Kaitlyn's season. I mean no sex ed needed, and the girls don't need to mud or jello wrestle like the guys did sumo wrestling. Give us good entertaining dates please that don't needs parts blurred out or beeped out.

ICU wrote:I for one am more interested in any new gals that may show up.  I want to get their stories and see how I think they would get along with Ben.  I really could see him with someone like Breanne.  She seems more down to earth.  Whoever it is Ben ends up with they have to be willing to get dirty.  Need to enjoy the outdoors and not afraid to rough it, as in backpacking into the mountains and sleeping in a tent or under the stars.  Better be able to fish and not be scared to bait her own hook or take her own fish off.  And if they hunt that wouldn't be a bad thing either.  Becca just doesn't seem like that girl at all to me.  

I promise to do all these things with Ben if he doesn't find "the one" on the show.


Kidding. Kinda.

ICU wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:I hope we get to see all those wonderful sides of Ben you have given us glimpses of.

I hope so too.  And I hope they don't do the stupid type of dates that some of them were on Kaitlyn's season.  I mean no sex ed needed, and the girls don't need to mud or jello wrestle like the guys did sumo wrestling.  Give us good entertaining dates please that don't needs parts blurred out or beeped out.

Let's not forget that amazing group date that was literally three guys sitting on a bench. Ben is quality so I'm sure he'll get much better dates than the last one.

I'm way more interested in the ladies who haven't been on the show. I'm hoping Becca doesn't get too much screen time and that Ben lets her go early. I'd rather she had met up with him pre-season and let it go at that like Tenley. If it's meant to be you'll get a chance later off tv.

albean99 wrote:I'm way more interested in the ladies who haven't been on the show. I'm hoping Becca doesn't get too much screen time and that Ben lets her go early. I'd rather she had met up with him pre-season and let it go at that like Tenley. If it's meant to be you'll get a chance later off tv.

Based on this show even if Ben gets engaged at the end doesn't mean he will marry the girl!!! Sean Lowe is the only bachelor to have married the one he got engaged to at the end of his season. Tenley still has at least a 50/50 shot! LOL

Ben probably doesnt realize/want it to be an option that the engagement will end though. Most people dont go into a relationship with the mentality that when they get engaged they're going to break it off and break up. It's just not the negative aspect that you think about. So no, I dont think Tenley has a 50/50 chance. Like people have said, if he wanted her...he would have her. Lord knows she would of jumped at the chance already, if he was game.