The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - #10 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

K & S are flying today . Snapchat video at their plane . But it is funny Shawn looks so nervous and not talking that much .Cheer up bro .Not sure where they are going . 

Only 12? Poor Shawn. Did Ireland teach him nothing?

I am very happy that, she didn't "pick" Nick after seeing her life is now all about alcohol, party and SM. Thank you Kaitlyn, you have set Nick free. He is just so not the right man for you.

I blame Nick for not having good character judgement to have seen through her personality and her life goal earlier. I dont judge her good or bad, just a completely different person than I (even Nick I believe) thought of.

How could he been so blind after a few months of chating/sexting? Oh, must be the fame seeking self of him wanted to go on the show to be humiliated by a party girl just to get all attentions he wanted.

MeAndi was the first B'etter I dont really like, because of so many reasons. And now, Kaitlyn is the another B'etter I really really dont like, almost top meAndi.

I used to be on Kaitlyn's team, defended her after she was announced as one of the B'ette and even during the first few episodes. But was disgusted by many of her decisions/actions during filming, and how she tries to re-write history post show. This is not the genuine woman I thought she was. She was more of a teenage girl wants to have some fun and some fame.

She has every right to show off her life with Shawn in whatever ways she wants, but I just hate to see this "real" Kaitlyn.

peggy0221 wrote:I am very happy that, she didn't "pick" Nick after seeing her life is now all about alcohol, party and SM. Thank you Kaitlyn, you have set Nick free. He is just so not the right man for you.

I blame Nick for not having good character judgement to have seen through her personality and her life goal earlier. I dont judge her good or bad, just a completely different person than I (even Nick I believe) thought of.

How could he been so blind after a few months of chating/sexting? Oh, must be the fame seeking self of him wanted to go on the show to be humiliated by a party girl just to get all attentions he wanted.

MeAndi was the first B'etter I dont really like, because of so many reasons. And now, Kaitlyn is the another B'etter I really really dont like, almost top meAndi.

I used to be on Kaitlyn's team, defended her after she was announced as one of the B'ette and even during the first few episodes. But was disgusted by many of her decisions/actions during filming, and how she tries to re-write history post show. This is not the genuine woman I thought she was. She was more of a teenage girl wants to have some fun and some fame.

She has every right to show off her life with Shawn in whatever ways she wants, but I just hate to see this "real" Kaitlyn.

This post brings up an interesting point about how Nick could fall so completely for 2 very different women, neither of whom were really a good match for him (Andi was probably a better match than Kaitlyn, but I doubt that would have gone anywhere either). At 34, is he still so naive and easily manipulated/brainwashed? Although I still believe that he developed real feelings for both women, I think that's part of what makes some people doubt that he's there for the "right reasons", because he just seems too anxious to fall in love with whoever is available, regardless of whether they're compatible with him or not.

To bring this more on topic, I wasn't really a fan of Kaitlyn's nor did I dislike her, but from the moment she offered to plow the *%*&^ out of Chris' field on first meeting him, I never for a minute thought she was very "classy", so her behavior now comes as no surprise. In many ways, she has always reminded me of her fellow Canadian, Jillian, whose true self (at the time of her season, maybe she's more polished now) was quite "rough around the edges", which is why she picked barfly Ed over Reid or Kiptyn. Interesting that during her season, fans also didn't see that side of her, and thought she was very "sophisticated".

peggy0221 wrote:I am very happy that, she didn't "pick" Nick after seeing her life is now all about alcohol, party and SM. Thank you Kaitlyn, you have set Nick free. He is just so not the right man for you.

I blame Nick for not having good character judgement to have seen through her personality and her life goal earlier. I dont judge her good or bad, just a completely different person than I (even Nick I believe) thought of.

How could he been so blind after a few months of chating/sexting? Oh, must be the fame seeking self of him wanted to go on the show to be humiliated by a party girl just to get all attentions he wanted.

MeAndi was the first B'etter I dont really like, because of so many reasons. And now, Kaitlyn is the another B'etter I really really dont like, almost top meAndi.

I used to be on Kaitlyn's team, defended her after she was announced as one of the B'ette and even during the first few episodes. But was disgusted by many of her decisions/actions during filming, and how she tries to re-write history post show. This is not the genuine woman I thought she was. She was more of a teenage girl wants to have some fun and some fame.

She has every right to show off her life with Shawn in whatever ways she wants, but I just hate to see this "real" Kaitlyn.

This Nick?
(Pictures from Nick's igs last weekend)
https://instagram.com/p/57aPOFMw-8/
https://instagram.com/p/50vWGisw2R/

While Nick was partying last weekend, Kaitlyn was having a game night with Shawn's sisters, then attended a backyard barbecue engagement party where she was playing with his niece and nephew.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with Nick partying, I'm just saying that Nick is not a saint and Kaitlyn is not the devil.

IMO, Nick likes to party as much as K and S. He just does not choose to share it on SM. Personally, I think he and K are more alike than people think based on their pre-show SM and FT plus there have been plenty of stories of Nick making out with numerous women at bars. Is it a double standard because K is a woman and therefore supposed to be more demure or ladylike?

Personally, I could care less how these people choose to live their lives. I just think they are more alike than any of us can realize.

Guys, what I posted hinted Nick as a saint?
I see Kait as Kait, I blame myself for have high hope about her.
This is irrelevant about Nick, and I stated that I just hate to see what I am seeing in her, I think everyone has their likes and dislikes and they are not necessarily mutually inclusive/exclusive.

Just like I hate black not because I love red.
I hope this is clear now because it frustrated me so much that people think Nick Chick hates Kait must because of Nick.

JenTen1585 wrote:

peggy0221 wrote:I am very happy that, she didn't "pick" Nick after seeing her life is now all about alcohol, party and SM. Thank you Kaitlyn, you have set Nick free. He is just so not the right man for you.

I blame Nick for not having good character judgement to have seen through her personality and her life goal earlier. I dont judge her good or bad, just a completely different person than I (even Nick I believe) thought of.

How could he been so blind after a few months of chating/sexting? Oh, must be the fame seeking self of him wanted to go on the show to be humiliated by a party girl just to get all attentions he wanted.

MeAndi was the first B'etter I dont really like, because of so many reasons. And now, Kaitlyn is the another B'etter I really really dont like, almost top meAndi.

I used to be on Kaitlyn's team, defended her after she was announced as one of the B'ette and even during the first few episodes. But was disgusted by many of her decisions/actions during filming, and how she tries to re-write history post show. This is not the genuine woman I thought she was. She was more of a teenage girl wants to have some fun and some fame.

She has every right to show off her life with Shawn in whatever ways she wants, but I just hate to see this "real" Kaitlyn.

This Nick?
(Pictures from Nick's igs last weekend)
https://instagram.com/p/57aPOFMw-8/
https://instagram.com/p/50vWGisw2R/

While Nick was partying last weekend, Kaitlyn was having a game night with Shawn's sisters, then attended a backyard barbecue engagement party where she was playing with his niece and nephew.  
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with Nick partying, I'm just saying that Nick is not a saint and Kaitlyn is not the devil.

I think I haven't mentioned Nick is a saint nor Kait is a devil.
And I dont think I have mentioned there is something wrong with Kait, I just stated the reason why I dislike her.
I think every contestants have their fans AND non fans, I'm simply a non fan of her now because of the reasons I stated. I simply don't like party girl, that's all, never sanitize Nick nor demonize Kait.

I hope this is clear now, thank you.

ironcat wrote:

peggy0221 wrote:I am very happy that, she didn't "pick" Nick after seeing her life is now all about alcohol, party and SM. Thank you Kaitlyn, you have set Nick free. He is just so not the right man for you.

I blame Nick for not having good character judgement to have seen through her personality and her life goal earlier. I dont judge her good or bad, just a completely different person than I (even Nick I believe) thought of.

How could he been so blind after a few months of chating/sexting? Oh, must be the fame seeking self of him wanted to go on the show to be humiliated by a party girl just to get all attentions he wanted.

MeAndi was the first B'etter I dont really like, because of so many reasons. And now, Kaitlyn is the another B'etter I really really dont like, almost top meAndi.

I used to be on Kaitlyn's team, defended her after she was announced as one of the B'ette and even during the first few episodes. But was disgusted by many of her decisions/actions during filming, and how she tries to re-write history post show. This is not the genuine woman I thought she was. She was more of a teenage girl wants to have some fun and some fame.

She has every right to show off her life with Shawn in whatever ways she wants, but I just hate to see this "real" Kaitlyn.

This post brings up an interesting point about how Nick could fall so completely for 2 very different women, neither of whom were really a good match for him (Andi was probably a better match than Kaitlyn, but I doubt that would have gone anywhere either).  At 34, is he still so naive and easily manipulated/brainwashed?  Although I still believe that he developed real feelings for both women, I think that's part of what makes some people doubt that he's there for the "right reasons", because he just seems too anxious to fall in love with whoever is available, regardless of whether they're compatible with him or not.

To bring this more on topic, I wasn't really a fan of Kaitlyn's nor did I dislike her, but from the moment she offered to plow the *%*&^ out of Chris' field on first meeting him, I never for a minute thought she was very "classy", so her behavior now comes as no surprise.  In many ways, she has always reminded me of her fellow Canadian, Jillian, whose true self (at the time of her season, maybe she's more polished now) was quite "rough around the edges", which is why she picked barfly Ed over Reid or Kiptyn.  Interesting that during her season, fans also didn't see that side of her, and thought she was very "sophisticated".

I understand the Nick situation, because I turned a 180 after a serious heartbreak. I almost cannot forgive myself for falling for that guy, and after that, I tended to look for a guy in another spectrum, felt like I wont make the same mistake twice.


But I think Jillian is a little more mature, a little more secured than Kait. And she is more compassionate too, all these made the two B'ette that much different IMO. Jilly is not classy, but she is just like a normal girl friend we have, not perfect but relatable. But kait looked aimless in life and I don't want to hang out with such a girl.

isittrue wrote:
IMO, Nick likes to party as much as K and S.  He just does not choose to share it on SM.  Personally, I think he and K are more alike than people think based on their pre-show SM and FT plus there have been plenty of stories of Nick making out with numerous women at bars.  Is it a double standard because K is a woman and therefore supposed to be more demure or ladylike?  

Personally, I could care less how these people choose to live their lives.  I just think they are more alike than any of us can realize.  

So true. Nick bar hops alone and uses his 'status' as a show alum to pick up girls. Classy eh?

At least Nick has a job, and isn't popping a cold one as soon as he gets up in the morning!

I see these conversations in pretty much every thread and I have the same thoughts on all of them. Generally speaking I don't think any of these contestants are better than the other. IMO they all tend to do/say the same things and we interpret them differently based on our own personal preferences.