The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #8 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

I repeat, people accused Andi of killing Eric. I put that over trashy sl*ttty b*tch wh*re, especially when you spend hours crying about confessing sleeping with Nick to Shawn to literally turn around and tell him, yup and I am going to do it again, if you don't like that leave. Why the tears upon tears if you were just going to say, hey I am going to keep having sex with him.

If she actually seemed to care about her mistake great, but she just made the viewer suffer so she could keep having sex.

Stop reading social media and go live your life. You are not a role model and your attacking others is just as bad as them attacking her. She is definitely old testament an eye for an eye, but she needs to be careful because they would have stoned her in the old testament.

People have told Nick they wish he would die. They accused Andi of murder. Everyone gets it, and her reacting is just egging it on. So congratulations Kaitlyn, you are giving those who aren't fans lots of publicity. Stupid, stupid girl.

I just find it sad when people are so hooked on attention from strangers that they spend all their days on SM despite it making them feel bad. Just turn your phone off and go outside! Problem solved. There are plenty of people out there with actual problems that they can't ignore by simply logging out of Twitter. Kaitlyn should consider herself lucky.

stuckinsc wrote:I repeat, people accused Andi of killing Eric.  I put that over trashy sl*ttty b*tch wh*re, especially when you spend hours crying about confessing sleeping with Nick to Shawn to literally turn around and tell him, yup and I am going to do it again, if you don't like that leave.  Why the tears upon tears if you were just going to say, hey I am going to keep having sex with him.  

If she actually seemed to care about her mistake great, but she just made the viewer suffer so she could keep having sex.

Stop reading social media and go live your life.  You are not a role model and your attacking others is just as bad as them attacking her.  She is definitely old testament an eye for an eye, but she needs to be careful because they would have stoned her in the old testament.

People have told Nick they wish he would die.  They accused Andi of murder.  Everyone gets it, and her reacting is just egging it on.  So congratulations Kaitlyn, you are giving those who aren't fans lots of publicity.  Stupid, stupid girl.

Exactly. And once again, Kaitlyn has all the media, all of Bach Nation, as well as the men from her show, defending her (I assume Shawn being with her is him defending her as well).

She has a ton of support!

To equate herself to young teenagers who commit suicide and that she has that level of cyberbullying?! Rubbish, I say, and an insult to those who really deal with life-threatening cyberbullying.

Imo, Kaitlyn's network of support from influential voices (the media to Bach Nation) far outweighs any negative comments which she chooses to search out and focus on when those people have the smallest and least influential voice

ETA: For example: Kaitlyn tweeted back to someone who said her behavior is disgusting that this person was disgusting because they only had 20 followers.
Why would Kaitlyn care about someone's opinion of her if that person only has 20 followers which Kaitlyn deems disgusting?
She has people kissing her butt and defending her that have 100s of thousands of followers but she focuses on the person who has the least?
Her choice, her problem. It is ridiculous, imo.

AllAboutLove wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:I repeat, people accused Andi of killing Eric.  I put that over trashy sl*ttty b*tch wh*re, especially when you spend hours crying about confessing sleeping with Nick to Shawn to literally turn around and tell him, yup and I am going to do it again, if you don't like that leave.  Why the tears upon tears if you were just going to say, hey I am going to keep having sex with him.  

If she actually seemed to care about her mistake great, but she just made the viewer suffer so she could keep having sex.

Stop reading social media and go live your life.  You are not a role model and your attacking others is just as bad as them attacking her.  She is definitely old testament an eye for an eye, but she needs to be careful because they would have stoned her in the old testament.

People have told Nick they wish he would die.  They accused Andi of murder.  Everyone gets it, and her reacting is just egging it on.  So congratulations Kaitlyn, you are giving those who aren't fans lots of publicity.  Stupid, stupid girl.

Exactly. And once again, Kaitlyn has all the media, all of Bach Nation, as well as the men from her show, defending her (I assume Shawn being with her is him defending her as well).

She has a ton of support!

To equate herself to young teenagers who commit suicide and that she has that level of cyberbullying?! Rubbish, I say, and an insult to those who really deal with life-threatening cyberbullying.

Imo, Kaitlyn's network of support from influential voices (the media to Bach Nation) far outweighs any negative comments which she chooses to search out and focus on when those people have the smallest and least influential voice.

Sadly her obsessive actions is actually giving a bigger voice to the bullies. It is truly insane to me. How is this woman 30 years old. How has her mother, a friend or her F1 had an intervention and removed her electronic devices from her hands?

Kait has responded to a handful of mean tweets, like 90% of her responses are thanking people for being kind and fav'ing them. I don't see anything wrong with her thinking this is a good platform to make herself heard though if cyber-bullying is something she's passionate about. Really, why not?

I feel that no matter how "bad" the bullying is, whether calling someone a murderer or a sl*t, it all needs to stop.  So actually I admire Kaitlyn for being willing to stand up against it.  She might need to take a little different approach.  For example, instead of fighting back with more negativity, she might want to consider taking Nick's lead and "killing with kindness".  Or even Shawn's lead and respond with light hearted humor.  

But overall I do not think it is fair to call Kaitlyn names because she is willing to take a stance against bullying, no matter how "bad" it has been for her.  The fact that she will stand up is the important part to me.  And those that respond to her stance against bullying with name calling and negativity are simply feeding the "bullying" culture.  JMO.

Well, the people that accused Andi of killing Eric were just stupid since they apparently don't know how paragliding accidents work. And Andi also put up her share of "bullying is bad" IG/tweets and had the support of Bachelor/ette alumni and most women and news articles over the Nick sex reveal.

I don't know, I think that Kaitlyn should absolutely step away from Twitter and forums, but I have seen devastating things written about her. I know that I would need serious therapy to get over all that and I personally think that only Jason/Molly have gotten it worse than Kaitlyn in this franchise.

If Kaitlyn wants to be a role model she should copy her friend Becca on how to handle mean tweets/cyberbullying.


Kaitlyn's most recent tweet:

Kaitlyn Bristowe ‏@kaitlynbristowe  17h17 hours ago Hurt people , hurt people. #SeeIanImDeep

She is making a dig at Ian, with that hashtag. Ian, who, yes, I don't condone at all what he said but the guy was on his knees at MTA and she is still digging at him? She is doing exactly what she tweets other people not to do. Holding grudges? That tweet with Ian in the hashtag is exactly that, imo. She's not as funny as she thinks she is, imo.

But we have seen the examples of Kaitlyn looking for tweets that don't even tag her. She is searching for the negative. She is asking her followers to shame others. She is being the bully she complains about. If she was responding to these people as One Promise said with kindness or humor, then great, but she is sinking to their level. She is living the theory of two wrongs don't make a right.

Calling people out on their bad behavior by equaling their bad behavior will get her no where. Getting upset because a woman tweeted Shawn that she isn't wife material is stupid.

I think she needs to focus on something else. JMO

AllAboutLove wrote:If Kaitlyn wants to be a role model she should copy her friend Becca on how to handle mean tweets/cyberbullying.


Kaitlyn's most recent tweet:

Kaitlyn Bristowe ‏@kaitlynbristowe  17h17 hours ago Hurt people , hurt people. #SeeIanImDeep

She is making a dig at Ian, with that hashtag. Ian, who, yes, I don't condone at all what he said but the guy was on his knees at MTA and she is still digging at him? She is doing exactly what she tweets other people not to do. Holding grudges? That tweet with Ian in the hashtag is exactly that, imo. She's not as funny as she thinks she is, imo.

Yup, stop being mean to her, but it is perfectly for her to hold a grudge and be mean to others. Hypocrisy is a wonderful thing to witness. Yet another step in the mental breakdown of Kaitlyn.

That photo of Ian like that I admit was a bit disturbing for me to see. I agree with apologizing but I found that disorienting that he was on his knees and Kaitlyn smiling. I will wait to see it air but it seems like that is what Kaitlyn wants - everyone on their knees in front of her calling her "Queen Kailtyn" who can do no wrong. It's bizarre, imo.

ETA: Imo, it's almost like Kaitlyn is pridefully/boastfully saying, "I am not perfect and that's what makes me perfect!"

There are apps that keep you updated even when just your name is being mentioned on twitter. I think she needs to step down from SM for awhile and do things that give her positive energy. IMO