The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 8 July 6th - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

ugh. im sad i haven't been able to watch/live tweet this seasonn. someone catch me up on tonight's episode?

stuckinsc wrote:

whit90 wrote:I do not understand that when Nick says something about Shawn it not ok but Shawn says more negative things about Nick is alright.

Because Kaitlyn wants Shawn and not Nick.  Shawn has told her she was being stupid and it is okay.  Nick was pretty clueless IMO to not read the signs from Kaitlyn that she wanted Shawn not him.  Accusing him of telling the other men about sex?  No trust there.  Getting annoyed when Nick tells her about Shawn (which was pretty stupid of Nick IMO), Nick's fault not Shawn.  Nick she is showing you in everyway she can that she is not going to pick you.  Nick, IMO, is caught up in the fantasy he has of Kaitlyn and doesn't see the real Kaitlyn.

Sorry but I have to disagree with you and mainly I was talking about the post they made. I see the opposite I do not see her showing him that he is not the one why would she take that Risk with Shawn if she really wasn't feeling it at that time.

No worries though I am so glad Nick did not end up with her he deserves someone much better. To me she is the worst ette to ever be on this show and has nothing to due with me being a Nick Fan.

Can anyone see that that Nick is a master manipulator?? Anyone who has had experience with a narcissist can spot one a mile away and for sure Nick is your quintessential narcissist!! No doubt and it is sad that we empathetic souls (including me) get sucked in to such crap.
These manipulators are only out for themselves and it's only about their own personal gain ...in the beginning they suck you in by wearing a mask and mirroring your qualities. They are too good to be true...your soul mate, they are empathetic and loving...you are their entire world..they suck you in with all of this false self....
and then the mask comes off and they expose their true self....UGLY!!! Eventually their true self is revealed...So Run as fast as you can Kaitlyn (hopefully you already saw through the lies)!!

What lies did Nick tell?

Now that would be a great new poll: 
Who is the worst 'Ette. 
Who is the best.
I don't think Kaitlin is the worst. I don't like the editing this season and the episodes/dates so much, however, I think what we are seeing is a result of what the machine wants. If TPTB weren't salivating at the sex angle, it could have been different. We could have gotten more filler and empty made up romance for guys K was never interested.

chris viall
‏@cviall11
We're very proud of our son, The Other Guy. It's an old family name. #TheBachelorette #team Nick

mmsupi wrote:Can anyone see that that Nick is a master manipulator?? Anyone who has had experience with a narcissist can spot one a mile away and for sure Nick is your quintessential narcissist!!  No doubt and it is sad that we empathetic souls (including me) get sucked in to such crap.
These manipulators are only out for themselves and it's only about their own personal gain ...in the beginning they suck you in by wearing a mask and mirroring your qualities.  They are too good to be true...your soul mate, they are empathetic and loving...you are their entire world..they suck you in with all of this false self....
and then the mask comes off and they expose their true self....UGLY!!!  Eventually their true self is revealed...So Run as fast as you can Kaitlyn (hopefully you already saw through the lies)!!  

He sat there and pretended like he didnt want to out Shawn, all masterminded by him. He is scum! I gave him the benefit of doubt at last season's ATFR but i now know better

see2love wrote:

mmsupi wrote:Can anyone see that that Nick is a master manipulator?? Anyone who has had experience with a narcissist can spot one a mile away and for sure Nick is your quintessential narcissist!!  No doubt and it is sad that we empathetic souls (including me) get sucked in to such crap.
These manipulators are only out for themselves and it's only about their own personal gain ...in the beginning they suck you in by wearing a mask and mirroring your qualities.  They are too good to be true...your soul mate, they are empathetic and loving...you are their entire world..they suck you in with all of this false self....
and then the mask comes off and they expose their true self....UGLY!!!  Eventually their true self is revealed...So Run as fast as you can Kaitlyn (hopefully you already saw through the lies)!!  

He sat there and pretended like he didnt want to out Shawn, all masterminded by him. He is scum! I gave him the benefit of doubt at last season's ATFR but i now know better

And Shawn is a saint that did absolutely nothing wrong!

see2love wrote:

mmsupi wrote:Can anyone see that that Nick is a master manipulator?? Anyone who has had experience with a narcissist can spot one a mile away and for sure Nick is your quintessential narcissist!!  No doubt and it is sad that we empathetic souls (including me) get sucked in to such crap.
These manipulators are only out for themselves and it's only about their own personal gain ...in the beginning they suck you in by wearing a mask and mirroring your qualities.  They are too good to be true...your soul mate, they are empathetic and loving...you are their entire world..they suck you in with all of this false self....
and then the mask comes off and they expose their true self....UGLY!!!  Eventually their true self is revealed...So Run as fast as you can Kaitlyn (hopefully you already saw through the lies)!!  

He sat there and pretended like he didnt want to out Shawn, all masterminded by him. He is scum! I gave him the benefit of doubt at last season's ATFR but i now know better

Kait getting so mad at him was hilarious though, but then she had sex with Nick yet again...She's such a freaking wreck.

mmsupi wrote:Can anyone see that that Nick is a master manipulator?? Anyone who has had experience with a narcissist can spot one a mile away and for sure Nick is your quintessential narcissist!!  No doubt and it is sad that we empathetic souls (including me) get sucked in to such crap.

Yep, Nick is the master manipulator here. Not the producers of the show. At all. :peanutbutter: :peanutbutter: :peanutbutter:

ElonM wrote:chris viall
‏@cviall11
We're very proud of our son, The Other Guy. It's an old family name. #TheBachelorette #team Nick

I laughed

At this point, all 3 need a time out and a cold shower.