Re: The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 8 July 6th - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

by dw_a_mom Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:08 pm

AllAboutLove wrote:
emusha wrote:just watched it -- this guy has issues and they're related to his ego...

I'm gonna call it like I see it...curious to see how things end up post-show but his behavior is just very off putting imho. possessive, jealous, disrespectful and not openminded. indeed all of this is egged on by producers but that only adds naive, not perceptive, lacks empathy for fellow contestants also going through the same thing to the list of attributes that we're seeing from him. producers work with what they got -- shawn's behavior is NOT a fluke, he's not drunk, he's had time to reflect... the consistency of his choices point to the approach he takes. JMHO

I actually am not even seeing the long term potential with K given his possessiveness...shouldn't he be considerate and want her to be happy in spite of what that situation means for him????
:Nod: Being considerate and wanting someone else's happiness above one's own wishes/wants is the definition of love.

That is the kind of love that lasts.

Everything else is just based on ego or romantic love/lust which fades with time.

jmho

True. Just the situation they are in is so unreal, I simply don't think we can accurately take what we see and extend it to what their real life relationship will be like.

Time will tell, is how I look at it.

by sparkler Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:08 pm

Ben hesitated when Kaitlyn said "do you think I'm wife material?" That is telling. Also how unromantic is that question? She wouldn't ask that question to Shawn or Nick, as I see it.

by Kashathediva Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:09 pm

"When I'm with Ben and were talking and kissing, it feels good."
And therein lies your problem K, everything feels good.

by nutty1 Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:11 pm

Kashathediva wrote:Ok so Nick and Shawn who despise each other are sitting next to each other on this tiny couch and just happen to be smiling. But they hate each other. Yeah.

Well, to be fair, Shawn didn't get the news yet!! :shocked!:

by mizzoufan Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:12 pm

I just don't get the Ben love. He seems nice but nothing more special then the other guys.

by sparkler Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:13 pm

Just as an aside, I am convinced that RS follows this thread...way too many times he picks up comments from here and they appear in his column the next day. I know we are all watching the same show, but he seems to pick up the tone of the thread, and I think he directly quotes Kasha at times. Naturally, no credit is given....just a thought I have had for several seasons now.

by soccermom333 Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:13 pm

Kashathediva wrote:Ok so Nick and Shawn who despise each other are sitting next to each other on this tiny couch and just happen to be smiling. But they hate each other. Yeah.

Yes, I saw that. Shawn was also joking with everyone. Smiley

by Kashathediva Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:14 pm

Sorry but oh jeez. A handsome 25 or 26 yr old guy talking about being unlovable. Jeez. Give. Me. A. Break.:strings1

by Aunties_Love Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:14 pm

Somehow I think that the next bach will either be Dr Cupcake or Ben Z...going by SM and the comments that are being said to fleiss, etc.

by mercieme Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:14 pm

Ok I dig Ben H a lot but this confessional to Kaitlyn is too much. His last relationship made him feel un-loveable????

by sparkler Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:15 pm

mizzoufan wrote:I just don't get the Ben love. He seems nice but nothing more special then the other guys.

I agree with everyone else who has said it but Ben is being set up to be the next bachelor. "I feel unloveable" is so heartbreaking to hear and also priming him to be the next bachelor.

by Kashathediva Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:15 pm

sparkler wrote:Just as an aside, I am convinced that RS follows this thread...way too many times he picks up comments from here and they appear in his column the next day. I know we are all watching the same show, but he seems to pick up the tone of the thread, and I think he directly quotes Kasha at times. Naturally, no credit is given....just a thought I have had for several seasons now.

Yeah. Nothing new there. giggling

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