Re: Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #2

by loveactually9 Mon Aug 17, 2015 10:43 am

His ex has hung out with one of his friends who lives in Austin a couple of times recently

by Beagle Mon Aug 17, 2015 11:44 am

Amethyst wrote:It doesn't bother me. I always made a point of staying on good terms with my ex-boyfriends if I could do so. I've gotten together with them on occasion -- lunch, drinks, what have you. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. Plus, I always say -- you broke up with that person for a reason.

The problem is when Ben went on the show, she ran to the cheapest rag mag to let everyone know that the only reason Ben went on the show was because she dumped him after he was willing to move to another state to be with her. In other words, she owned him. What was the purpose of putting that information out there? IMO, she's not a trustworthy ex and I don't know what her game is but she's definitely playing one with him.

by **GuardianAngel** Mon Aug 17, 2015 12:30 pm

Beagle wrote:
Amethyst wrote:It doesn't bother me. I always made a point of staying on good terms with my ex-boyfriends if I could do so. I've gotten together with them on occasion -- lunch, drinks, what have you. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. Plus, I always say -- you broke up with that person for a reason.

The problem is when Ben went on the show, she ran to the cheapest rag mag to let everyone know that the only reason Ben went on the show was because she dumped him after he was willing to move to another state to be with her. In other words, she owned him. What was the purpose of putting that information out there? IMO, she's not a trustworthy ex and I don't know what her game is but she's definitely playing one with him.

She also stated he went on the show to get back at her because guys like to use another girl to get back at their ex.

Adams explained she had dumped The Bachelorette suitor after moving to Texas and Higgins probably appeared on the ABC reality dating series as revenge -- just to get her back.

"I wouldn't put it past any guy to use another girl to make his ex jealous," Adams told the magazine.

Read more at http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelorette-ben-higgins-reportedly-wasnt-over-ex-girlfriend-went-on-show-for-revenge-18123.php#KJ5blOKhPKRSchu4.99

Her game IMO is to be noticed now that he is getting so much attention and is quite possibly the next bachelor.

by DMBFan Mon Aug 17, 2015 12:55 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:
Beagle wrote:
Amethyst wrote:It doesn't bother me. I always made a point of staying on good terms with my ex-boyfriends if I could do so. I've gotten together with them on occasion -- lunch, drinks, what have you. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. Plus, I always say -- you broke up with that person for a reason.

The problem is when Ben went on the show, she ran to the cheapest rag mag to let everyone know that the only reason Ben went on the show was because she dumped him after he was willing to move to another state to be with her. In other words, she owned him. What was the purpose of putting that information out there? IMO, she's not a trustworthy ex and I don't know what her game is but she's definitely playing one with him.

She also stated he went on the show to get back at her because guys like to use another girl to get back at their ex.

Adams explained she had dumped The Bachelorette suitor after moving to Texas and Higgins probably appeared on the ABC reality dating series as revenge -- just to get her back.

"I wouldn't put it past any guy to use another girl to make his ex jealous," Adams told the magazine.

Read more at http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelorette-ben-higgins-reportedly-wasnt-over-ex-girlfriend-went-on-show-for-revenge-18123.php#KJ5blOKhPKRSchu4.99

Her game IMO is to be noticed now that he is getting so much attention and is quite possibly the next bachelor.