Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #2

GuardianAngel wrote:How do we know Ben is in the back of that picture? I highly doubt he would be anywhere near her IMO

Because of this pic:

seton wrote:Back to the scene of the crime. He's sweet.

http://pinsta.me/higgins.ben

It's definitely him. How strange. I'm sure he's attractive to her again now that he's the rumoured Bachelor.

Thanks, I didn't see those pics.

That's not good. I bet we won't hear the last of her. He should have left IMO.

IA ICU - she accomplished what she set out to do, been seen.

ETA: I think it's her that's attracted to him now that he's the rumour bachelor, after she dumped his butt.

I don't understand how he could be cordial with her after she went to the tabloids and questioned his motives. She seems desperate.

Jmo- I see no reason why HE should leave because she shows up.  She wants to reconnect with him and has since the show started airing.  He is not interested.  If she wants to be ridic and follow him and their friends around, whatever, but he doesn't seem to hide from people or situations.  He's a mature adult man, not a boy who leaves the party because his ex shows up with mutual friends.  *shrug*  Just my $.02

I know that the charity Ben was supporting is near and dear to his heart. He would not be one to up and leave an event just because she showed up. And they did date for a while so she did get to know some of his friends. Ben is not one to make a scene at the event for his friends charity when it comes to her or anyone else. Please don't give her anymore of your time. Honestly she isn't worth it.

Bachinfo wrote:Jmo- I see no reason why HE should leave because she shows up.  She wants to reconnect with him and has since the show started airing.  He is not interested.  If she wants to be ridic and follow him and their friends around, whatever, but he doesn't seem to hide from people or situations.  He's a mature adult man, not a boy who leaves the party because his ex shows up with mutual friends.  *shrug*  Just my $.02

I totally agree, but if he's the bachelor, he needs to watch his every move. This IMO will come back to bite him. We've already given the rag mags enough info.

It didn't take long for pics of Andi and Josh seen at the same nightclub while Josh was being cast during her season.

Ben definitely wasn't lacking for female fans at the event tonight. Good lord there's a lot of fan pics.

But Ben followed his ex on his IG a few weeks ago.
Not sure why he would choose to follow her if he wants nothing to do with her?

Well this could get interesting . I wonder if she'll show up on his season. With Tenley? Can we have both of them?

Ben is certainly not boring as some proclaim.  With every hot guy, there is always a hot ex-girlfriend. IMO.  

And lots more drama.

It doesn't bother me. I always made a point of staying on good terms with my ex-boyfriends if I could do so. I've gotten together with them on occasion -- lunch, drinks, what have you. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. Plus, I always say -- you broke up with that person for a reason.