Re: The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 7 Jun 29th - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

by emusha Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:13 am

Ben H is a real gentleman!!!! so impressed by him!!!!!

by stuckinsc Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:15 am

emusha wrote:Ben H is a real gentleman!!!! so impressed by him!!!!!

Are you telling him to run from Kaitlyn, like I was? Hugesmile

by bleuberry Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:16 am

I think I'm gonna watch The Notebook after this.

@Maja_ski
Every time Shawn starts crying I expect him to go all notebook on us... "I wrote you every day for a year!" #TheBachelorette #TheNotebook

by rosesrREd Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:17 am

emusha wrote:Ben H is a real gentleman!!!! so impressed by him!!!!!

I agree, I am on the Ben H for bachelor bandwagon.

by jojo47 Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:23 am

Kashathediva wrote:See Chris Manson is telling her to get the other guys up to speed. Screw them all. Then no problems. Every one gets their share of the pie. Even playing field.
Herpes for all.

Oh man, it's late & this epi has exhausted me. I thought this said even the plowing field...

by Bet2Win Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:23 am

Geez, an hour and a half to get to the rose ceremony from last week. Rolling Eyes

by Guest Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:27 am

stuckinsc wrote:
chasingpavements wrote:
rosesrREd wrote:I don't think there is going to happy ending, regardless of how Kaitlyn seems on the media rounds, it's all for show, IMO.

She did look VERY happy in last week's interview rounds, so I can believe that there's a happy ending. One thing I'll say for Shawn is that he's OBSESSED with Kaitlyn. The guy basically ended up apologizing for Kaitlyn's mistake, because he was so afraid that it would ruin things. I do believe him when he says that none of the other guys feel the way that he does, so I think that intense of a love (or lust, which I think it is) can make you forgive things you didn't think you could. I totally think that "bump in the road" conversation was foreshadowing.

But is it lust, love or obsession. If he was a woman acting this way on the bachelor, we would all call her crazy and the man would probably dismiss her.

He freaked out because Jared got a rose, then because Joe said he was falling in love. I have never understood the idea, that I am going to shield you from everyone else so you love me. Real love is the kind that if you love me, I can trust you and I don't have to freak out. If you have to isolate someone so they have no choice but to love you, it isn't love at all.

They get there and hopefully they will work, at this point, I am just over them both. She has great guys, and honestly as a Nick Chick I don't even count Nick as one of those great choices - they both rushed sex and made their situation as messy as hers with Shawn, but Jared is a sweetie, Ben H is one of the most amazingly mature and hot men we have seen since Chris Sigfried IMO and she is obsessed with Shawn and Nick.

As Patty on the Millionaire Matchmaker would say, her picker is broken.

Oh and how is Joe falling in love with her? Enough of her saliva made it into his system when they kiss, and all they do is kiss, that he is feeling love, or is it just a heightened immune response?

I think Kaitlyn's type is "half-assh*le", which I think both Nick and Shawn are. I think she enjoys that intensity and challenge in men. Chris, Ben H, Ben Z, and Jared all just seem like really good guys. Way too good for this franchise, probably, and definitely too good for Kaitlyn.

by emusha Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:28 am

Nick got veryyy vulnerable with K -- can't even imagine how much it must have taken for him to get that emotional cos he held his own only tearing up with his mom last season. The way K reacted to his tears she was pretty early on in her feelings developing for him at that point IMHO. she was on the fence about him at that point not sure if he truly had her back ...regardless I don't think she's that into him emotionally speaking at this point just from her reaction...

I dislike the sudden flip that shawn took once she talked about "mistakes" etc. he's coming off as a drama queen -- one second one intense crazy thing, another second rushing through a big apology that absolves K of all the things she was doing wrong previously. he is not empathizing with her very well and only doing so when she made that speech at the cocktail party...
I also really dislike how shawn makes her primary experience during this season ---> tempered by guilt

I'm FINALLY seeing K's smarts -- she is SO right to question how Shawn goes through the tough part of this show -- his reaction was emotional and immature imho

by Guest Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:30 am

I have heard Kaitlyn said a relationship went too fast I believe it is the relationship that she is in. It will burn out in time if not handle carefully. The relationship with NICK is the slow burn and it will be gone by the time she realize it. Just like SWSNBN realize it too late per CH

by soccermom333 Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:30 am

^^^ Most couples don't have a happily-ever-after coming off this silly show. Some do, and Shawn and Kaitlyn have the same chance as the rest did. Kasha is right... "uphill battle." I still like kaitlyn and hope she is happy and can't wait for the ATFR.

I would love to fast forward there now. ;)

by Guest Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:36 am

emusha wrote:Nick got veryyy vulnerable with K -- can't even imagine how much it must have taken for him to get that emotional cos he held his own only tearing up with his mom last season. The way K reacted to his tears she was pretty early on in her feelings developing for him at that point IMHO. she was on the fence about him at that point not sure if he truly had her back ...regardless I don't think she's that into him emotionally speaking at this point just from her reaction...

I dislike the sudden flip that shawn took once she talked about "mistakes" etc. he's coming off as a drama queen -- one second one intense crazy thing, another second rushing through a big apology that absolves K of all the things she was doing wrong previously. he is not empathizing with her very well and only doing so when she made that speech at the cocktail party...
I also really dislike how shawn makes her primary experience during this season ---> tempered by guilt

That's what I thought when I originally saw that preview, but watching that whole episode, I feel like Kaitlyn is just TIRED. She seemed just drained emotionally after her second hotel talk with Shawn, and seemed stone-faced in her cocktail conversations with Ben, Shawn, and Nick. I feel like she's had to deal with the most guys leaving and the most drama out of any Bachelorette, plus the guilt from sleeping with Nick. Even when Shawn was like I can't do this, she didn't seem as desperate to keep him as I thought she would get. Even in her ITM, she said something like "If someone says he can't do this, he's probably not the guy for me".

I do think the situation must suck for Nick - he slept with Kaitlyn and the next time he sees her, she's like "I made a lot of mistakes this week. Btw, I think you are a completely untrustworthy person who told everyone we had sex. ". Ouch.

by IrishGal Tue Jun 30, 2015 1:38 am

I haven't watched yet. But want to say, I'm not a Shawn fan cuz he looks like some actor named Ryan Gosling...I have no clue at all who that is. I'm a fan because his first words to her out of the limo let her know someone thought she was beautiful and hoped she'd be the Bette. My heart went out to Kait having to compete against Britt and it was obvious she was very insecure about it...who wouldn't be? Shawn gave her the confidence to go on and for that I really like him. The rest of this is just TPTB induced nonsense IMHO.

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