Re: Finale and After the Final Rose Spoilers - Bachelorette 7 - Thread #1

[bluwavz]

Is Ashley the only Bachelorette who let two men propose?

I believe Ashley will be the only Bachelorette where we see both men actually ask her to marry them.

I actually think we'll be seeing this more often in the seasons to come.

Oh, I agree. I didn't word that right. I meant that she's the only one we will see so far where both men actually ask her to marry them.

[Guest]

As I mentioned earlier, let's all give Ashley a break on the FRC. If anything goes down that seems wrong, or inappropriate, blame it on TPTB for leading on the F2 and perhaps telling him to get down on knee right away, and he was naive enough to do it.

Ashley is not the evil one here, TPTB are for the way they handled it. (ok off my soap box, I just hate that Ashley may get bashed, when all she did was meet the man of her dreams and fall in love and he did too)

Bottom line, Ashley could of and should of stopped it or done it more diplomatically. This is a discussion board to put your opinions on and this is mine.

.....and in my opinion I am going to wait until I see it with my own eyes before I pass judgement. Even then who am I to judge? Until you've walked in some ones shoes.....

I am with you! I will watch and make my decision after I see how it all played out!

All I am saying is that day is hard enough on the F2, so why allow it to happen? Why go out of your way to allow for the day to be harder than it has to be on everyone...........again, I will reiterate........I don't care who the F2 person is..........the point is why make this day doubly hard on that person.........definately not what an individual should do. Whether they are the producers that are wanting it, why couldn't Ash of stood up for the F2 person and said no, not going to allow that to happen.........

[Beeleever]

I interrupt this thread to let you know that I have finally caught up! Now back to your regularly scheduled posting.

Me too GrahamGal...it's literally taken me half the night. Whew!!! Carry on... :awesome:

I know what you mean about my siggy...so hot!

[Alanna]

They just showed a commercial with BOTH men proposing.

Oy vey. Poor JPash to have to deal with this latest gift from TPTB. :puke:

I only hear this expression these days when I talking with my Mom or other relatives. It's nice to see it out and about!

JP and I have two things in common - we are both Jewish and from Long Island! Way to go JP!

Don't worry, I'm keeping it alive! I hope JPash use it too as appropriate. :awesome:

[Guest]

No wonder I luvs you too, NativeNewYorker!!!!! :missclap:

[DMBFan]

As I mentioned earlier, let's all give Ashley a break on the FRC. If anything goes down that seems wrong, or inappropriate, blame it on TPTB for leading on the F2 and perhaps telling him to get down on knee right away, and he was naive enough to do it.

Ashley is not the evil one here, TPTB are for the way they handled it. (ok off my soap box, I just hate that Ashley may get bashed, when all she did was meet the man of her dreams and fall in love and he did too)

Bottom line, Ashley could of and should of stopped it or done it more diplomatically. This is a discussion board to put your opinions on and this is mine.

.....and in my opinion I am going to wait until I see it with my own eyes before I pass judgement. Even then who am I to judge? Until you've walked in some ones shoes.....

I am with you! I will watch and make my decision after I see how it all played out!

All I am saying is that day is hard enough on the F2, so why allow it to happen? Why go out of your way to allow for the day to be harder than it has to be on everyone...........again, I will reiterate........I don't care who the F2 person is..........the point is why make this day doubly hard on that person.........definately not what an individual should do. Whether they are the producers that are wanting it, why couldn't Ash of stood up for the F2 person and said no, not going to allow that to happen.........

I agree with you Coastal, but I also can't even imagine the kind of pressure (financial, etc) that the producers place on the F1. I agree she should have stood her ground, but I will also wait until I see it and see how bad it is. Maybe she is surprised he proposed, IDK.

[chaslom4]

They are hyping it up for ratings. You can see both men get down on one knee and then it was split screen with both men saying will you marry me

add this to CH's comment in the tv guide article that one of them was going doing in flames, and you got the viewers sucked right back in for the drama!

[cupcakes]

I can't find any of the videos and now it appears the forum is gone. Anyone else see that?

Are you talking about this thread?
http://bachandbachettefans.forumotion.com/t131-bachelorette-7-videos-no-discussion

[northernviewer]

Below is my post from another thead, but I'm going to post it here to.

I think people have to realize that the concept of this show is that people are going to get hurt.. no ifs ands or buts about it. It happens every year, and the lead becomes the scum of the earth for hurting a poor unsuspecting contestant. Sorry but thats the nature of the beast. We can all sit here and say "well I'd never" ... but do you think Ashley went on there saying "well I would"?? JP nailed it when he said on his HTD that at the end somebody was going to be hurt... and this year it was Ben. The Bach/ette has to lead somebody on and I'm sure it's more uncomfortable for them to actually do than it is for us to watch. And do I think that when Ashley was getting dressed that morning that she planned out how she was going to let Ben get down on his knee to propose, just to humiliate him? of course not.... it just happened and I'm sure nobody regrets those few minutes more than she does. I know "I hope I'd never" but until I'm in those high heels, I won't really know, I'll give her a pass as there's nothing about her that suggests that she's the heartless witch that she was made out to be

[DMBFan]

I can't find any of the videos and now it appears the forum is gone. Anyone else see that?

Are you talking about this thread?
http://bachandbachettefans.forumotion.com/t131-bachelorette-7-videos-no-discussion

No, on ABC - can't see any of the deleted scene, etc videos and the link for the forum seems to be gone. Wonder if people were posting spoilers.

[Beeleever]

As I mentioned earlier, let's all give Ashley a break on the FRC. If anything goes down that seems wrong, or inappropriate, blame it on TPTB for leading on the F2 and perhaps telling him to get down on knee right away, and he was naive enough to do it.

Ashley is not the evil one here, TPTB are for the way they handled it. (ok off my soap box, I just hate that Ashley may get bashed, when all she did was meet the man of her dreams and fall in love and he did too)

Bottom line, Ashley could of and should of stopped it or done it more diplomatically. This is a discussion board to put your opinions on and this is mine.

.....and in my opinion I am going to wait until I see it with my own eyes before I pass judgement. Even then who am I to judge? Until you've walked in some ones shoes.....

I am with you! I will watch and make my decision after I see how it all played out!

All I am saying is that day is hard enough on the F2, so why allow it to happen? Why go out of your way to allow for the day to be harder than it has to be on everyone...........again, I will reiterate........I don't care who the F2 person is..........the point is why make this day doubly hard on that person.........definately not what an individual should do. Whether they are the producers that are wanting it, why couldn't Ash of stood up for the F2 person and said no, not going to allow that to happen.........

I agree with you Coastal, but I also can't even imagine the kind of pressure (financial, etc) that the producers place on the F1. I agree she should have stood her ground, but I will also wait until I see it and see how bad it is. Maybe she is surprised he proposed, IDK.

I don't think there is any way Ashley knew it was coming. I think TPTB talked Ben into it...I have heard they can be pretty convincing aka Reid coming back, Jeremy coming back etc. It seems this happens on the Bette seasons because the guys are the ones that propose.

[onelove]

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