Re: The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #7 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

by Alanna Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:32 pm

relaxing wrote: So bummed because I love Kait and Shawn and especially Shawn right now.

I have no problem with Kaitlyn being a free spirit, sexual person. Her beliefs, her body, whatever. Get caught up in the moment with guys you're into and go for it if that's how you build relationships or just how you express yourself.

BUT, when you meet someone who makes you say you've never had such an immediate attraction before and you feel like he's your husband when he expresses his feelings to you - have a little self control out of respect for that person. For me it's not the sex, but it's her being about her own gratification and not thinking beyond that. If I'm Shawn that's a huge red flag and raises major trust issues about her impulsiveness and being in a relationship with her.

I don't get how he gets over that. I don't really want him to right now. And it seemed hard for him to get so open and vulnerable with her and to me she totally disrespected that effort he put in to move things forward with her. Hard for me to imagine being a fan of how this turns out with them being a couple. WIll have to see what happens.

Anyone think he does leave, since there are no caps of him later on, and then comes back somehow? Part of the reason for all the secrecy in filimng?

You said this so perfectly. There better have been some epic remorse scenes with Shawn after this for him to move forward with her.

I'm pissed he's not going to be the Bach for this! Ugh.

by Guest Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:37 pm

[quote="Alanna"]

relaxing wrote: So bummed because I love Kait and Shawn and especially Shawn right now.

I have no problem with Kaitlyn being a free spirit, sexual person. Her beliefs, her body, whatever. Get caught up in the moment with guys you're into and go for it if that's how you build relationships or just how you express yourself.

BUT, when you meet someone who makes you say you've never had such an immediate attraction before and you feel like he's your husband when he expresses his feelings to you - have a little self control out of respect for that person. For me it's not the sex, but it's her being about her own gratification and not thinking beyond that. If I'm Shawn that's a huge red flag and raises major trust issues about her impulsiveness and being in a relationship with her.

I don't get how he gets over that. I don't really want him to right now. And it seemed hard for him to get so open and vulnerable with her and to me she totally disrespected that effort he put in to move things forward with her. Hard for me to imagine being a fan of how this turns out with them being a couple. WIll have to see what happens.

Anyone think he does leave, since there are no caps of him later on, and then comes back somehow? Part of the reason for all the secrecy in filimng?

You said this so perfectly. There better have been some epic remorse scenes with Shawn after this for him to move forward with her.

I'm pissed he's not going to be the Bach for this! Ugh.[/quote]

I know Alanna, totally. If he's not Bach for a quickie 2 month give it a try thing with Kaitlyn I'll be so ticked off.

by bilolo Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:40 pm

relaxing wrote: So bummed because I love Kait and Shawn and especially Shawn right now.

I have no problem with Kaitlyn being a free spirit, sexual person. Her beliefs, her body, whatever. Get caught up in the moment with guys you're into and go for it if that's how you build relationships or just how you express yourself.

BUT, when you meet someone who makes you say you've never had such an immediate attraction before and you feel like he's your husband when he expresses his feelings to you - have a little self control out of respect for that person. For me it's not the sex, but it's her being about her own gratification and not thinking beyond that. If I'm Shawn that's a huge red flag and raises major trust issues about her impulsiveness and being in a relationship with her.

I don't get how he gets over that. I don't really want him to right now. And it seemed hard for him to get so open and vulnerable with her and to me she totally disrespected that effort he put in to move things forward with her. Hard for me to imagine being a fan of how this turns out with them being a couple. WIll have to see what happens.

Anyone think he does leave, since there are no caps of him later on, and then comes back somehow? Part of the reason for all the secrecy in filimng?

I hope he does if he's not the one she did it with.
Kaitlyn is so annoying.

by emusha Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:41 pm

well i've been trying to figure out what could have happened in Utah cos K was crying when only 2 guys were supposed to have been around.
Nick tweeted somedays nothing goes right or whatever (if we can take him seriously on social media at all)
something must have happened there

there is only one cap of shawn from later weeks and that's of him in a blue blazer on a couch...

by GypsySarah Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:42 pm

If this is true that Nick is sex guy, then I have even less respect for K than the 0% I had before. She needs help. Poor Shawn...once the bubble is over, he needs to run fast. This showed zero respect for him.

by kimberlyg Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:46 pm

IMO of course, but I think both the sex with Nick and the ILY's with Shawn are both the product of the bubble PLUS a lot of drinking by all parties. The Kaitlyn/Shawn/Nick thing is basically going to persist through the rest of the season, and TPTB want the audience in suspense of who Kaitlyn actually chooses, so they're going to do their best to get her to fall "in love" with both of them. And obviously it works since she goes Full Mesnick in Utah.

Because if it really was a done deal with Shawn after their 1-on-1, why would Kaitlyn give Jared the GDR in Dublin? When their relationship goes temporarily south, I really doubt that it's all just going to be because of Kaitlyn/Nick and Shawn is going to screw up in some way too.

Of course, Kaitlyn (or possibly Shawn) spoiled the ending via snapchat, so we know what ultimately happens. But that wasn't a done deal when everything went down in Ireland.

by luvlady345 Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:56 pm

Alanna wrote:Man, I'd pay up to $5, or even up to $10 if I'm feeling wild, to hook up with Nick and just see what all the fuss is about. Like, for real.

Must not be that great, if the women are into you before the sex but both left him afterward and chose someone else....Man I would be so embarrassed if I were him, I mean like really, you can't seal the deal with a woman who you knew before the rest of them and allegedly have sex before them? That would be an ego blow....

by Guest Wed Jun 17, 2015 7:59 pm

Why should it be an ego blow? If you lust after someone and then find love with some one else is not because of what you do it is the heart that is speaking.

by nd4reality Wed Jun 17, 2015 8:00 pm

I'm holding out for the magazine to be wrong because this is just unpalatable on all levels.

by Guest Wed Jun 17, 2015 8:01 pm

nd4reality wrote:I'm holding out for the magazine to be wrong because this is just unpalatable on all levels.

It really is ND. You said that perfectly.

by glazedover Wed Jun 17, 2015 8:02 pm

I am not assuming she ended up with Shawn during the course of the show just because of the snapchat photo. That is only one option. It is entirely possible that they hooked up later. Kaitlyn is a loose cannon. She was a good choice for Fleiss, and refreshing for me after so many seasons of religious undertone.

It's a sleazy but exciting season. I am loving it since I have no investment in a real love story, ever, in this venue. Don't care, either way, it's just entertainment. Go, Kaitlyn!

by emusha Wed Jun 17, 2015 8:04 pm

well the funny part of it is K didn't back off from Nick after the sex by the scenes we see after Dublin...she was still hot and heavy with Nick...
I'm actually really curious what happened cos the sc and scenes/glimpses show her still pretty physically intimate with him and seemingly happy and "glowing" in cobb and with her lacy white dress VERY hot and heavy... (probably at LCD)

I have a really hard time figuring out how K convinced Shawn to be ok with all that -- shawn CANNOT watch this season -- based on what we saw of him he just won't be able to handle it!!

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