Married At First Sight - Season 2 - Ryan DeNino - Jessica Castro - #2 *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Dr. C (*unhelpfully IMO for the producers and himself) posted back in March or April (link is above) that he DID flag Ryan as angry/outburst sort of person, but he had some cockamamie (SP!) justification for why Ryan (the actor/model, ex reality TV guy, mind you) nevertheless was well matched to the female model/wannabe actress who was a stereotypical non-assertive victim type.

It's horrible that he minimized those issues, and it is entirely predictable that the "stress" of the "experiment" (please, let's be honest it's a freaking SHOW), would cause him to blow a gasket.

The hubris of these so-called experts, starting with Dr. Cilona's sanctimonious posts and statements, is shocking.

I wonder if the ladies will be able to speak about all this after the reunion show? I also wonder if Ryan will fight the order or not. Makes me also wonder what the new contracts for season 3 say... ( Please note : there is a possibility your life might be in danger, and you can't hold us responsible.... we might pick a real jewel for you, or a complete abusive idiot... and you can't hold us responsible ! ) < said with dripping sarcasm !!

Imo I believe he is on coke & I bet if you look hard enough there's a girl or two who have sported a black eye because of Mr. Denino.It almost seemed like he had roid rage. If I was Jess I wouldnt give a damn about what I signed I would sue!!!!

Anyone else think that maybe the producers matched the couples and just told the experts to find reasons why X and Y would work together? I cannot believe any team of producers leaves the selection process/casting to other people (experts) not associated with the production company.

Has anyone else read this article. It's really good. http://www.viralglobalnews.com/entertainment/married-at-first-sight-experts-silent-on-restraining-order/31180/

Loved it, but in my opinion the experts have nothing to do with ryans friends bashing jessica. The experts have no control over peoples actions and words at this point. Are they responsible for putting jess into this ? Somewhat, while they paired ryan with her she still made the decision to go on the show in the first place and stay married to him after the show, even though he had explosive anger worse then what we seen on tv. That does not excuse him in anyway but he is an adult and knows better ( so do his friends).

sherrie714 wrote:Loved it, but in my opinion the experts have nothing to do with ryans friends bashing jessica. The experts have no control over peoples actions and words at this point. Are they responsible for putting jess into this ? Somewhat, while they paired ryan with her she still made the decision to go on the show in the first place and stay married to him after the show, even though he had explosive anger worse then what we seen on tv. That does not excuse him in anyway but he is an adult and knows better ( so do his friends).

I disagree.  Anyone with common sense, let alone a professional can see Jessica has dealt with some form of victimization. They did not vett Ryan properly and did not remove him or her from the situation when it was apparent he was volatile. Anyone can see he is a loose cannon. Jessica had a classic response in trying to please him many of her actions seemed fear based. I'd bet money he'd have no problem knocking her head off her body. To be fair though I think Ryan has the Madonna/whore complex and her sleeping with him that first night did her no favors. Most of how he treated her seemed to stem from that. He treated her they way he felt about her like a whore. I don't think he would have been quite so outlandish with a "good girl" overall I think he's a good old fashioned abusive a-hole. Not to mention an a-hole with an alleged drug problem which only intensified his already overwhelming douchiness.


Eta: I think the experts realized during they had made a mistake and were doing a lot of back tracking as they could smell a lawsuit coming from a mile away. They were just trying to keep him subdued until they could was their hands of this.

The experts have everything to do with this. The men were supposedly hand picked for each of the women, these so called experts. If not for them, she wouldn't have been with him. She believed she was getting a guy who was vetted thoroughly, and from what was said, they weren't.

Yes while these people might be experts they are not physcics or mind readers, they could have had assumptions but that does not mean it would happened. People act different under dufferent circumstances and unless these experts provoked him until he snapped then they do not know what his real reactions would have been. All of these women thought they were getting good stand up guys and in my opinion they all got guys not ready for marriage or a relationship for that matter.

There is no excuse, none whatsoever, for any 'expert' to have allowed at least two of these S2 men to be on the show.  Either their methods are seriously flawed, they were asleep at the wheel or they are simply lending their names to the show.  Even if they did nothing more than Google these men, they could have screened out one of them.

Any woman on the planet could have done as badly at finding a man with anger issues or legal problems by walking into a seedy bar and randomly picking one.

Which in my opinion jess should of moved out after the huge fight and told them to shove there show if she felt the least bit threatened. During the first season when monet did not get aling with her man they lived separately

Each person reacts differently to abuse. Just because one woman would move out, doesn't mean the next is capable emotionally to move out. Self esteem issues, people in production possibly pushing her to do one thing, and it not being for her best interest...etc.. These experts are the ones who say they vetted out these guys, and from what was said, they didn't. They not only dropped the ball, I don't think they ever even had the ball in the first place. It seems like it was just about getting the show on, and moving along, forget about all the necessary steps...