Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

How in the world Andi is trying to stay relevant by clinging on to Nick?  *EDIT* Andi was tweeting about the show Nick was in the F2, she tweeted just like any other alumni..........  Everyone is not required to like Nick, I don't like Nick either but just like Andi said, no one deserves to get their heart broken......*EDIT*  I guess Andi, is relevant.

Oh lookie look what pops up when you google Andi Dorfman the last 24 hours

https://www.google.com/search?q=andi+dorfman&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8#q=andi+dorfman&tbs=qdr:d

People magazine has an article Andi talking about Nick

US WEEKLY magazine has an article Andi talking about Nick

INQUSTIR has an article Andi talking about Nick

YAHOO has an article Andi talking about Nick

ETC


And what they all have in common......Nick

Andi is an attention seeker that craves attention and unlike the other alumni they don't have the kind of history she has with Nick. Nikki needs to teach her some class on how to handle an ex.

2boys3girls wrote:Annoying is not the word for her. I wanted to tell her to please stop talking. She needs to let it go. It amazes me (not really) that she can have fans and act the way she does while said fans hate Nick when he has only taken the high road.

Obviously I'm a fan, but not liking what she's been tweeting lately. Hopefully now that this season is over she will tone it down and move on. Also my dislike of Nick started way before all that stuff with the 2 of them happened, I didn't instantly choose her side after what Nick said, that just made him look worse in my eyes.

StacyNor wrote:
Oh lookie look what pops up when you google Andi Dorfman the last 24 hours

https://www.google.com/search?q=andi+dorfman&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8#q=andi+dorfman&tbs=qdr:d

People magazine has an article Andi talking about Nick

US WEEKLY magazine has an article Andi talking about Nick

INQUSTIR has an article Andi talking about Nick

YAHOO has an article Andi talking about Nick

ETC


And what they all have in common......Nick

Andi is an attention seeker that craves attention and unlike the other alumni they don't have the kind of history she has with Nick. Nikki needs to teach her some class on how to handle an ex.

Andi puts out one tweet that says she doesn't like Nick but that no body deserves a broken heart.  The mag run with it and Andi is to blame!!!  I do not think she called all the mags to put her tweet in their mag.  

Why does Andi, Kaitlyn and Shawn have to tip toe around everything they say not to hurt Nick's feelings?  Nick knew exactly what he was getting into and he also knew how it felt when in was rejected last season. He also had to know that he had a 50/50 chance of it not being him on the last day.  I do believe that Kaitlyn loved him more as a friend but she was in love with Shawn.

IMO, no one has to or is tip toeing around anything not to hurt Nick's feelings.  He's a big boy and seemed to handle himself well last night.  That doesn't mean he wasn't hurt or still couldn't be hurt when Kaitlyn or Andi act like there was nothing between them, making light of what relationship they did form with him on the show, after the fact...in Andi's case a year later, it's still going on.  The fact they were interested enough to carry him to the F2 and both slept with him shows there was interest of some sort, because I don't think he forced his way into the F2 or them to sleep with him.  So either they're both really good actresses or there was something there feelings wise,  it might not have been "in love" feelings more love feelings, but they felt something towards him.

Had she just said no one deserves a broken heart, I would commend her on being nice and respectful.  Everyone would have known she meant Nick, even without using his name.  We didn't need the I don't care for him part.  She's made that abundantly clear each time she opens her mouth or tweets something in regards to him.  Being that she supposedly had her heart broken when she and Josh went belly up, you'd think she could find and bring herself to be a little more compassionate when seeing it happen to someone else, especially someone else from the show (having been in both positions now) and even more someone that she'd already done the same thing to.

JMO.

I am totally lost here. I am. It is not okay to go about saying everything you feel. Being able to guard your tongue and mindful of how your words affect others is one of the signs of true maturity. We will not "care about" everyone we meet along the way, but there is nothing to be gained in saying it over and over. We won't like everyone but we have to try to be kind to everyone. Andi's tweet, despite the second part, was unkind.

It's just time for her to let it go. Nick hasn't said a bad word about her since the ATFR, whereas her ex-fiancé has thrown a lot of not-so-subtle shade her way. If you ask me, she's holding a grudge for the wrong person.

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I chose to clean this thread up quickly vs lock.

The people that claim they want to move on just can't let it go. What's good for the goose...

2boys3girls wrote:The people that claim they want to move on just can't let it go. What's good for the goose...

It's kind of hilarious how these two are still yapping in their respective corners a year later and Nick couldn't care less. Do they not realize how silly they look? Maybe they ought to go on some dates or something to get him and each other out of their systems.

LOL, yeah she is yapping because Nick came back onto the show, just liked she would have yapped/tweeted about anyone else in the F2.....  ***edited***

There already has been a warning in this thread. It's much easier for us to lock the thread and delete posts. Please stay on topic, and leave the snark towards other members out of here.

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