Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

OK, I may not like Andi, I definitely believe that the most simple solution to all of this was (now is too late, so it's also waste of emotions) ... if she just had said "I'm sorry" ... that isn't so hard to say ... but she never did.
The lead of NZ version of TB although he never slept with any of his F3 and even though there's an assumption that his F2 knew that she wouldn't be the One, still managed to say "I'm sorry" (for breaking your heart, for leading you all the way till the end with some illusion of possible future together) and that was respectful to the F2, for appreciating the role she had in his journey, so that he was able to make the show till the end.
That said ... I really don't like calling names ... especially derogatory ones like Bword.
With that I'm exiting this thread.

mariebeth wrote:Don't one have to continually have to whine about something to be a whiny bitch? The only person still talking about last year and whining about it is Andi

Exactly!!!!
Nick had not talked about that bitch, that incident for I can't remember how long now.
He just didn't need her help. He may go back for the fame, for the attention, at least he's doing it his own way.
Unlike some jobless bitch needed him this much to say relevant.

In an interview with Ryan Secrest Kaitlyn said she and Chris S were naked in the FS. This was said before the break up announcement. 
Since that announcement, which was a form of "outing" slightly less damaging than Nick's reveal, Chris has NOT retaliated in any way and Whitney has remained supportive of Kaitlyn.

I use this example to illustrate that some people have no need to re-enter the fray of past events or use SM as a public platform to air their laundry past the due date. In Andi's case, it's been almost a year yet she continues to play sniper and given her large SM following is harming Kaitlyn by questioning her decision to keep Nick. 

Andi isn't the only woman to ever have a 1-night stand with a man after a very brief relationship. Given she was engaged after that incident, I fail to see how she, Nick's ex-girlfriend, is any different than any other woman who has experienced this.  There are good matches for everyone.  Nick not being a good match for her means nothing in terms of Kaitlyn's criteria for a match. Hopefully Andi wil lighten up and focus on her own love life... and use her humor to just enjoy watching the show without antagonism.

Andi, has not talk about that bitch either or the incident. He is the one to come back to the show, she is tweeting. Now on to next week and let me retweet her some more.

nannymargie wrote:Peggy, I understand you don't like Andi but is the name calling really necessary?

Precisely! It seems that the rules permit derogatory language towards cast members, baffles me though.

luvlady345 wrote:And Nick is one whiny Bitch, tired of hearing his victim MO...I am glad Andi, isn't sugar coating or being PC, why should she? Those who like her will and those who don't won't...This is a man who goes back on this circus with the same MO, no one exist but him...Can't wait for her tweets next week...

I remember u mentioned u never follow Nick post show, so I'm curios to where did u see he keeps whining about that bitch?
Maybe u can point me where?

And it's me and many of Nick's fan to blame, if you want to, it's mostly us think he is the victim in this.
I think he never put himself in that position.

Btw, it is not a competition here to see whether Nick or Andi is more of a bitch.
I think she is a bitch because of what she did during and post show.

Because talking about Andi is irrelevant at this point, she's not on TV. But Nick going back for more allows everyone to talk about him again. I'm sure Andi loves attention too and enjoys her tweets being RTd and talked about for days. Im not denying that at all.

aviej wrote:

nannymargie wrote:Peggy, I understand you don't like Andi but is the name calling really necessary?

Precisely! It seems that the rules permit derogatory language towards cast members, baffles me though.

I guess I see some more evil names that was called on other casts.
What it is, this is the best description to describe Andi Dorfman

mariebeth wrote:Don't one have to continually have to whine about something to be a whiny bitch? The only person still talking about last year and whining about it is Andi

I'm still talking about last year and how much I don't like Nick, as do others here and on SM. But I don't consider myself a whiney bitch. Andi was live tweeting before this episode and I hope she continues to tweet with her opinion. I look forward to her commentary. JMHO

peggy0221 wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:And Nick is one whiny Bitch, tired of hearing his victim MO...I am glad Andi, isn't sugar coating or being PC, why should she? Those who like her will and those who don't won't...This is a man who goes back on this circus with the same MO, no one exist but him...Can't wait for her tweets next week...

I remember u mentioned u never follow Nick post show, so I'm curios to where did u see he keeps whining about that bitch?
Maybe u can point me where?

And it's me and many of Nick's fan to blame, if you want to, it's mostly us think he is the victim in this.
I think he never put himself in that position.

Btw, it is not a competition here to see whether Nick or Andi is more of a bitch.
I think she is a bitch because of what she did during and post show.

Oh trust me honey, I don't....Can't even go into Andi's thread without reading the sweet, poor innocent Nick... Nope never said it was a competition you see Andi as a bitch, I see Nick as one an like the saying goes, it is what it is....I am not changing my mind and your mind won't change, so let's move on an call it a draw...

aviej wrote:

nannymargie wrote:Peggy, I understand you don't like Andi but is the name calling really necessary?

Precisely! It seems that the rules permit derogatory language towards cast members, baffles me though.

As far as I know as long as we dont use derogatory language to the posters directly here any thing goes for the characters on a show after all they went on tv to put them self out there, they are not off limits.  If someone acts like a duck it is a duck and Andi is acting like b**** so she is a b****. I am done with her for me all I have to say is ###GBG

I almost want Nick to be on tv forever, just so some jobless aspiring designer would lose sleep and mad it is not her who got the attention.

Haha, andi dorfman, find some other way to stay relevant, would you pls?