Re: Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

by athensgal67 Tue Jun 09, 2015 2:45 pm

mindless wrote:She is pathetic. I feel I need to remind her of this once again: YOU broke HIS heart, not the other way around. Apparently he's now an undateable creeper, since he had trouble getting over her. What a bitch.

by Cecilia Tue Jun 09, 2015 2:48 pm

She's a self-obsessed mean girl. And I liked her on Juan Pablo's season. Just stop with the tweets. It's not about you anymore.

by whit90 Tue Jun 09, 2015 2:53 pm

It is as simple as this she is a bitch and will never change.

by happygolucky Tue Jun 09, 2015 2:59 pm

I never thought I will write about Andi in her thread again ... let alone for what I'm about to say:

I have nothing against her expressing her thoughts on Nick, only that wasn't the "thought", that was a simple "jab". Considering that I believe Nick himself with his ATFR comment made a "jab" at her, I cannot blame her for using the opportunity and unleashing the negative energy on his "karma".

It is very unfortunate though, that she had many opportunities like that and she used them (I won't recall all the things she said and what she referred to), so this "jab" comes after a string of many precedents and after a year.

I feel sorry for her. Her soul must still be in the state of unrest and she continues to view Nick as someone who wronged her (and amazes me, that a smart woman as she is, doesn't see any of her wrong doings in between) and needs to pay.

I hope that with this the deed is payed... and that she can move on. I sincerely hope for her.

I've just listened to the Afterbuzz review and what made me think was Danny Hoyt (&Cathy)... he always claimed to be her fan and also liked Nick in previous season (got to know him after), his thoughts on Andi's tweets surprised me and maybe it is an interesting point of view to look at. He said, that he senses the guilt, like she feels that she did something wrong with Nick, he explained it like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A8QYGRlfA08 - from 30:38 minute on

by Guest Tue Jun 09, 2015 4:08 pm

athensgal67 wrote:
mindless wrote:She is pathetic. I feel I need to remind her of this once again: YOU broke HIS heart, not the other way around. Apparently he's now an undateable creeper, since he had trouble getting over her. What a bitch.

Agree with the bolded...however, from what we've gathered, that moment @ ATFR when he outed her on national tv basically changed everything for her....her public image, her relationship, her reputation. She'll never live it down...ever. Guarantee it's one of those things that's gonna take forever to not be bitter about. Regardless of how we feel about anybody or anything, I think that is one thing we maybe can all agree on? Maybe?

Taking forever to get over causes stress which could lead to cancer or other illness, she needs to back the truck up and park and reaccess her life because she is fake and not real.

by mindless Tue Jun 09, 2015 5:37 pm

athensgal67 wrote:
mindless wrote:She is pathetic. I feel I need to remind her of this once again: YOU broke HIS heart, not the other way around. Apparently he's now an undateable creeper, since he had trouble getting over her. What a bitch.

Agree with the bolded...however, from what we've gathered, that moment @ ATFR when he outed her on national tv basically changed everything for her....her public image, her relationship, her reputation. She'll never live it down...ever. Guarantee it's one of those things that's gonna take forever to not be bitter about. Regardless of how we feel about anybody or anything, I think that is one thing we maybe can all agree on? Maybe?

Sorry, but I don't agree. Andi had sex with Nick regardless and it was very heavily implied on the show already. Nick's comment just confirmed the obvious. If she cared about her reputation, she wouldn't have even gone on a show where she has to make out with multiple people, let alone went into a fantasy suite with two of them. I hate the idea that it's all OK as long as it stays hidden, well not even hidden, more like unconfirmed. Her actions were the same whether we know about them or not. It's like a thief complaining about their reputation being ruined because they now have a criminal record. Shouldn't do things you don't want getting out. If she thinks it's totally fine and within her personal liberty to sleep with whoever she wants whenever she wants, then why can't she own her actions? It's just ridiculous to play the victim about something like that IMO. Most people sympathized with her anyway.

by Bet2Win Tue Jun 09, 2015 6:24 pm

If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. Hugesmile

by luvlady345 Tue Jun 09, 2015 6:38 pm

LOL, good for Andi, everyone doesn't like Nick and she doesn't have to.... Going by that tweet favorite and retweet she is not in the minority..... She can sit with me anytime....

by Guest Tue Jun 09, 2015 6:46 pm

mindless wrote:
athensgal67 wrote:
mindless wrote:She is pathetic. I feel I need to remind her of this once again: YOU broke HIS heart, not the other way around. Apparently he's now an undateable creeper, since he had trouble getting over her. What a bitch.

Agree with the bolded...however, from what we've gathered, that moment @ ATFR when he outed her on national tv basically changed everything for her....her public image, her relationship, her reputation. She'll never live it down...ever. Guarantee it's one of those things that's gonna take forever to not be bitter about. Regardless of how we feel about anybody or anything, I think that is one thing we maybe can all agree on? Maybe?

Sorry, but I don't agree. Andi had sex with Nick regardless and it was very heavily implied on the show already. Nick's comment just confirmed the obvious. If she cared about her reputation, she wouldn't have even gone on a show where she has to make out with multiple people, let alone went into a fantasy suite with two of them. I hate the idea that it's all OK as long as it stays hidden, well not even hidden, more like unconfirmed. Her actions were the same whether we know about them or not. It's like a thief complaining about their reputation being ruined because they now have a criminal record. Shouldn't do things you don't want getting out. If she thinks it's totally fine and within her personal liberty to sleep with whoever she wants whenever she wants, then why can't she own her actions? It's just ridiculous to play the victim about something like that IMO. Most people sympathized with her anyway.

I just think it's ridiculous to still be playing the victim a YEAR later. Especially when Nick hasn't bad-mouthed her at all since then.
If she was really that concerned about Kaitlyn, she would have privately called or messaged her; she wouldn't have sent this cutesy tweet. Or she would have stayed silent. It's like she wants to keep this public image as the victim and make sure that no one forgets that Nick is a "sl*t-shaming stalker", which doesn't really stand up when you think about the fact that many of her friends and fellow ex-Bachelorettes have befriended him and defend him.

by Mustang19 Tue Jun 09, 2015 7:05 pm

^^ not sure I would say everyone doesn't like Nick. He seems to have his own fans. I went and looked at the tweet. She has quite a few negative replies. Again, Andi can post any comment she wants, but she also invites the criticism when she chooses to do it publically.

by bleuberry Tue Jun 09, 2015 7:15 pm

When Nick outed her on TV, many defended his right to do that and said Andi brought it on herself. Well now Nick goes back for Bachelorette serving #2, opening himself up yet again to criticism from viewers - Andi being one of them. Some would say he brought it on himself and just goes with the territory.

by **GuardianAngel** Tue Jun 09, 2015 7:15 pm

IA Mustang and cp.

They are both in the same boat. They have plenty of fans that hate them and those that love them.

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