Re: The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Britt Nilsson - Premier May 18-19 - Thread #2 *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

[allykat]

I don't think there is anything wrong with her sleeping with who ever she wants, whenever she wants. Her body and her life, and she gets to do what she wants with both. And clearly she really liked/likes Nick.

What I find hard to believe is that:
a) she would bring Nick on and tell the guys that she talked to him before;
b) then would sleep with him within a few weeks, before FSD (which is universally known as the time to sleep with the lead) and tell the guys;
c) any of the guys would remain on the show and invested and thinking they were going to get engaged to her.

Why on earth would she tell them? And why on earth would the other guys not read into that some VERY strong signals that she wasn't as into them? I call BS. This is too ridiculous not to be scripted and planned out. JMO.

[Guest]

And then when you act like you attach so much imporance to the act on TV barely a yr ago. Mybe, this time, it was just physical for him.

[Guest]

I don't understand why it's ok for a lead to have sex with the F3 one after another, and who knows who else, but this isn't ok.

I agree! I don't know why so many are willing to bail on Kaitlyn from one highly edited preview!

[mercieme]

To be honest (and i am not a fan of theirs), both Courtney and Andi were blasted for the same thing, so I don't think this is a Kaitlyn thing IMO, we are just reliving the past that's all

[Alanna]

And then when you act like you attach so much imporance to the act on TV barely a yr ago. Mybe, this time, it was just physical for him.

YES. This is it!! 

As for Kait, she made a poor decision and tptb will make sure she's going to pay for it now.

[elyn]

I don't understand why it's ok for a lead to have sex with the F3 one after another, and who knows who else, but this isn't ok.

Agreed. To me it seems less shady to sleep with someone while you're dating several people in the early stages, before real feelings get involved, than to sleep with someone in the FS and then get engaged to someone else a few days later. The former is much closer to what people do in the real world.

[Litta123]

I love Nick-  if that's him running naked then I love it even more!  

I haven't seen proof he is sex guy, but that's just me

Same here. There was so much slicing and dicing going on. The implication from the presentation is that it's Nick, but there's no visual proof from what I can see. There was also a shot of a guy in shorts walking in a hotel hallway, sockless, wearing addias(?) athletic shoes.

[officeRules]

Me too! It's kind of boggling my mind.

For me, the sex with someone else the night before-getting-engaged is far worse. Most of the leads do that.

I'm still trying to find out who had sex in Ireland. I am not convinced we have enough info to spot it yet.

[b]

Ok i consider myself a fair and balanced person....and as someone that really likes Nick, i don't agree with what went down with Kaitlyn, it's disrespectful to the other guys IMO

As a fellow Nick fan, I have to agree with you mercieme. We don't know how this turns out yet, but if it's all true, his poor Mother. He had to know they would air this!

[GuardianAngel]

Someone suggested earlier that this was the result of a dare. I tend to agree. Though the way it was edited, it seems TPTB want you to believe this is the getaway on the morning after...imo.

Note the return of the black box.    Also this cap was made from a pic off of my TV so not the best. Maybe someone can use the freckles to identify the culprit. Btw, those are light blue socks with dark blue polka-dots.

Bringing this forward. Thanks Litta! We have sumo wrestling caps we can compare this pic to. IMO it looks like Shawn's black box legs.

[Guest]

I don't think there is anything wrong with her sleeping with who ever she wants, whenever she wants. Her body and her life, and she gets to do what she wants with both. And clearly she really liked/likes Nick.

What I find hard to believe is that:
a) she would bring Nick on and tell the guys that she talked to him before;
b) then would sleep with him within a few weeks, before FSD (which is universally known as the time to sleep with the lead) and tell the guys;
c) any of the guys would remain on the show and invested and thinking they were going to get engaged to her.

Why on earth would she tell them? And why on earth would the other guys not read into that some  VERY strong signals that she wasn't as into them? I call BS. This is too ridiculous not to be scripted and planned out. JMO.

I think that it's the same reason why Josh stayed with Andi after he found out that she had sex with Nick. Or why JP stayed with Ash, after she had sex with Ben. Or why Court stayed with Ben, after she found out he had sex with...everyone else. I would definitely have a problem with it, but for many of them, it's not a "real" engagement and are okay with the lead do whatever before settling down in a monogamous relationship.

As to why she told them? I do think that TPTB set it up. They probably egged Nick to go to her room knowing that they were dying to sleep together since January, then got another guy to knock on her door. If Kaitlyn/Nick have been FT-ing, they've probably already seen each other naked. OF COURSE, they are going to have sex the moment they are left alone. TPTB knew that and used it to their advantage. JMO.

[bleuberry]

I'm assuming there were cameras there?

Why not wait and then NOT have to air this out to millions?

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