Married At First Sight - Season 2 - Sean Varricchio - Davina Kullar - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

GuardianAngel wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I'm confused. If people who know Sean personally decide to share info on a message board or Facebook, it's kinda hard to just ignore it. When you go on a reality tv show isn't gossip to be expected? They have put themselves in this position. Davina's own best friend confirmed on facebook that Sean's relationship was just a random coworker hookup. I feel bad for Davina as well but she as well as Sean's family are probably already privy to this info. Sean has put himself in the position for things to go public by participating in a reality tv show.

This is why we are not about to change the rules or make exceptions for any contestant. Doing that changes the dynamics of this forum. There has been a lot worse said about contestants, some true, some fabricated.

Thank you GA for clarifying that if posters follow the rules, all are welcome. Lots of opinions, lots of sleuthed out clues and lots of insider scoop is what makes this forum so addicting so enjoyable.

I was on here a couple years ago when a contestant from Ready for Love - who made it really far (pretty sure top 4) - joined the forum as her real name AFTER she was let go. One night this contestant accidently signed on as another member's name - someone who had been posting on RFL thread throughout the season. So this RFL contestant essentially outed herself as also being another forum member who had been sharing really great insight/scoop all season long. Oopsie! I sent DM to moderator Love_Me at the time, so she could alert the RFL contestant just in case she was breaking her contract. Crazy stuff!! So you just never know who you are posting with and that's what makes this forum so much fun!

While it's unfortunate if cast members or their friends/family are insulted by what they are reading here, I guess that just comes with signing onto a reality tv show. When you open the cameras up into your honeymoon suite and ask your new wife if she is loud when having sex while a camera crew is in tow ... well ... I think that you should expect viewers will have an opinion.

JerseyNurse wrote:Maybe we should just focus on the positive - Jaclyn & Ryan....

I like this idea! Time to dig out their thread. ;) Keep posting jerseynurse. All opinions (and facts) are welcome here. :cutesmile!:

Everyone has a choice of which threads to visit. However it's not realistic to expect a change in the rules just because one doesn't like the information. Why would any family or friends want to join us if they feel it's exhausting? I certainly wouldn't.

This IMO is setting a poor example of what our forum is about.

JerseyNurse and anyone else is just as welcome as the next new poster.

"Don't shoot the messenger."

This is all very interesting!  Please keep posting Jerseynurse.

MVMom39forever

JerseyNurse wrote:

mindless wrote:You can be a certified trauma nurse: https://www.discovernursing.com/specialty/trauma-nurse#.VTRLa5PBr20 Just because it doesn't say so in Sean's name tag, doesn't mean he can't be one. I doubt it says "fertility nurse" on Whitney's name tag at work either.

I am aware of this. Many of us have this certification. Maybe my wording choice is throwing people off. I give up. It is just getting exhausting.
I will say it in a direct way. Sean does NOT have this certification. Is that better?

Sorry, it's just a bit confusing to me because of the things you said in your first post about all of you being ER nurses who deal with trauma. If it's just about the job title in his work contract or whatnot, then I don't think it's a big deal, since he's not representing his employer on the show. All reality shows embellish people's jobs, or put up job titles that sound the best or are the most informative to the general public. I don't think the cast members themselves get to decide those things. It's not like he's lying about his profession, since he is an ER nurse who deals with trauma.

We have no way of knowing who is telling the truth including alleged co-workers or bitter exes. I'll continue watching and it'll all come out. I don't blame the guy for being pissed (if these stories are true). Some of this stuff is pretty slanderous. I don't buy the hospital being upset at a title but that's just me. Sounds a little too far fetched.

Still can't stand Davina. She is way too full of herself. Again if all this talk gossip about Sean being arrogant is true, then they're a match made in obnoxious couple heaven.

albean99 wrote:Re: Sean's title on the show. I doubt the cast on this show is any different than on the Bachelor where very creative titles are often used instead of what they actually do because the producers want to jazz it up. Probably nothing to do with Sean.

I can't say I blame Sean for being angry about someone he works with coming on a site to talk about him whether it's true or not. Unfortunately for him that's the breaks when you choose to go on a tv show.

Word!

Thomigirl wrote:We have no way of knowing who is telling the truth including alleged co-workers or bitter exes. I'll continue watching and it'll all come out. I don't blame the guy for being pissed (if these stories are true). Some of this stuff is pretty slanderous. I don't buy the hospital being upset at a title but that's just me. Sounds a little too far fetched.

Still can't stand Davina. She is way too full of herself. Again if all this talk gossip about Sean being arrogant is true, then they're a match made in obnoxious couple heaven.

It's only slander if it's not true. As JerseyNurse said, one of their co-workers pointed that out to SV when he went off at work about someone there "slandering" him.

He's p/o'd not because someone's telling lies about him but because they're telling truths that he didn't want revealed.

mindless wrote:

JerseyNurse wrote:

mindless wrote:You can be a certified trauma nurse: https://www.discovernursing.com/specialty/trauma-nurse#.VTRLa5PBr20 Just because it doesn't say so in Sean's name tag, doesn't mean he can't be one. I doubt it says "fertility nurse" on Whitney's name tag at work either.

I am aware of this. Many of us have this certification. Maybe my wording choice is throwing people off. I give up. It is just getting exhausting.
I will say it in a direct way. Sean does NOT have this certification. Is that better?

Sorry, it's just a bit confusing to me because of the things you said in your first post about all of you being ER nurses who deal with trauma. If it's just about the job title in his work contract or whatnot, then I don't think it's a big deal, since he's not representing his employer on the show. All reality shows embellish people's jobs, or put up job titles that sound the best or are the most informative to the general public. I don't think the cast members themselves get to decide those things. It's not like he's lying about his profession, since he is an ER nurse who deals with trauma.

Except that we've heard that he HAS lied about his profession, wrongly representing himself as a doctor, and IIRC on more than one occasion.

Also, his title may be a big deal with the hospital administration; they can't have staff going off calling themselves whatever they want. There might be certain rules or guidelines they have to follow for their accreditation.

red-cap33 wrote:

mindless wrote:

JerseyNurse wrote:

I am aware of this. Many of us have this certification. Maybe my wording choice is throwing people off. I give up. It is just getting exhausting.
I will say it in a direct way. Sean does NOT have this certification. Is that better?

Sorry, it's just a bit confusing to me because of the things you said in your first post about all of you being ER nurses who deal with trauma. If it's just about the job title in his work contract or whatnot, then I don't think it's a big deal, since he's not representing his employer on the show. All reality shows embellish people's jobs, or put up job titles that sound the best or are the most informative to the general public. I don't think the cast members themselves get to decide those things. It's not like he's lying about his profession, since he is an ER nurse who deals with trauma.

Except that we've heard that he HAS lied about his profession, wrongly representing himself as a doctor, and IIRC on more than one occasion.

Also, his title may be a big deal with the hospital administration; they can't have staff going off calling themselves whatever they want. There might be certain rules or guidelines they have to follow for their accreditation.

Hearing things on the internet should be taken with a grain of salt imo. We don't "know" that anything we've heard about Sean is true. Obviously we can form our own opinion about that.

red-cap33 wrote:

Thomigirl wrote:We have no way of knowing who is telling the truth including alleged co-workers or bitter exes. I'll continue watching and it'll all come out. I don't blame the guy for being pissed (if these stories are true). Some of this stuff is pretty slanderous. I don't buy the hospital being upset at a title but that's just me. Sounds a little too far fetched.

Still can't stand Davina. She is way too full of herself. Again if all this talk gossip about Sean being arrogant is true, then they're a match made in obnoxious couple heaven.

It's only slander if it's not true.  As JerseyNurse said, one of their co-workers pointed that out to SV when he went off at work about someone there "slandering" him.

He's p/o'd not because someone's telling lies about him but because they're telling truths that he didn't want revealed.

JerseyNurse is someone posting on the internet just like you and I. It's real simple for me if I had an axe to grind against someone to 'reveal' so called truths. I'm not buying into anything so one says on the internet**edited**As Whitney Houston said 'show me the receipts'. Um not taking what anyone says on the internet as truth unless I see photos or taped convos. We all get a kick out of being entertained...but at the end of the day the reality is is that it is STILL gossip. **IMO**