Married At First Sight - Season 2 - Sean Varricchio - Davina Kullar - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

"come to daddy sex "

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I think the producers know how they make people appear, manipulating viewers by playing the same stuff over & over and giving us sound bites. In an interview, (maybe a podcast or radio show) Cortney said that there were real clips, re-enactments, and times where they were prodded (not the words that she used). She said that she & Jason had a code word when the they had conversations that were not prompted by the producers. This is not RH because this show represents that these are real relationships with real consequences. Add on to that the sliminess, meanness, or those who just like to fan the fires of some social media users, MHO is that there are a lot of skewed views. I enjoy the show because it does show problems that arise and how people react. Sometimes I say I want to be more that way and sometimes I say I want to be less that way (patience of Ryan R. and not the defensiveness of Ryan D., playfulness and spontaneity of Ryan D. but not the over analyses of Davina, the vulnerability that Davina is opening herself up to and not Sean's constant sexual innuendo). The events occur during short time periods & we are seeing snippets. So I try to ignore the edits, enjoy the show and give each person the benefit of the doubt. I hope they all make it and if they don't I hope they don't come out too bruised. Think of the parable of the 6 blind men in a room with an elephant. Each is touching a different part and then guesses what they are touching. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blind_men_and_an_elephant We are seeing less than what the blind men touched.

TheReaper666 wrote:I personally would take anything he says on the show with a grain of salt.  I'm not trying to be a bad person about it, but I know the guy pretty well on an admittedly somewhat superficial level, but have been around the guy on a regular basis for a few years.  Knowing him, I am sure he reads every single site, blog, forum, etc. so I won't go into detail about our relationship (not a bitter ex).  The thing that I do know about him is that he is a habitual, pathological liar.  Maybe this will come out as an issue on the show, maybe not.  The guy goes around telling people he meets that he is a DOCTOR.  Not sure how he planned to keep up with this façade after going on television and coming out as a nurse.  He has told this lie to so many people, in graphic detail, over long periods of time complete with stories from the ER and other accolades from his fine work as a M.D.  All lies.  There are other repetitive lies as well, but no need to air ALL of the guy's dirty laundry...I don't think he is a bad/evil person, but he's got some serious issues...maybe a result of all the bullying he endured as a kid, he now feels the need to over-compensate and tell boastful lies.  Its just hard to gauge the validity of the level of bullying he claims to have endured when he lies so much.  He also told someone that his marriage ended in divorce on the show...again as a pathological liar, I guess we will have to continue watching to find out the truth...

Reading this just confirms what my suspicions and thoughts about Sean were all along. Narcissistic. He spends the majority of his air time talking about HIMSELF. How he feels he is patient, he came across such and such way and she is responding to that.

Steel2009 wrote:"come to daddy sex       "

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"kudos to the masseuse for not vomiting on his face" That scene was so brutal. I find him so pervy. I wish Davina would shut him down when he talks sex. The fact that she hasn't, and then found a different much milder incident to be so insensitive has ruined her for me a bit. Maybe her reaction on the sleigh ride was a cumination of sitting through too many of his other insensitive moments and realizing he was not a guy she liked too much.

The "come to daddy" sex comment was weird. I don't think Davina would be into that.

That whole conversation was better reserved for in private. Those poor masseuses!

I liked them in the beginning but now I think Davina would be suited for someone better. Agree don't think she would be okay with any of the things Sean wants to do but time will tell.

This my opinion so far on Sean. I don't know if there is such a thing for guys that is called, "Short Guy Syndrome", but that is what I call it. This isn't just about Sean but also other guys I've known, (a friends hubby, exactly the same stuff) it is just that I recognize it in him. Hope I'm wrong.
What I mean by that is because of their stature or in Sean's case also bullying. They want to feel Important, Big, so they make sexual innuendos for shock value, as in do you make sounds when having sex, this in front of the 2 women and cameras for all to see. Also the need to be kissing her on the dance floor that IMO went on so long that it made people at the reception and maybe some at home uncomfortable. I call it TACKY!! Not Necessary, like what is he trying to prove. He knew in both cases what he was doing. Just my

Yeah, that french kissing in front of all their friends and family was so unbelievably cringeworthy. Trust me, no one wants to see that. Save it for the bedroom. It's so obvious that he's still trying hard to prove he's not the bullied outcast he used to be. I think he thought Davina would jump his bones as soon as they got to the wedding suite and now he's losing interest since she's not putting out. He sort of strikes me as the kind of guy who went so long without any female attention that he never learned to treat women like normal people rather than sex objects.

The show has started already here in Canada but it is the repeat right after the wedding the next morning.

Brill wrote:This my opinion so far on Sean.  I don't know if there is such a thing for guys that is called, "Short Guy Syndrome", but that is what I call it.  This isn't just about Sean but also other guys I've known, (a friends hubby, exactly the same stuff) it is just that I recognize it in him.  Hope I'm wrong. (post snipped here)

Brill -- There has long been talk about short guys. It's called the "Napoleon Complex." Here's a link to the google page: https://www.google.com/search?q=napoleon+complex&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8

albean99 wrote:Comments on Facebook or articles can't be considered a source imo. People feel free to say whatever they want but it doesn't mean they "know" anything. I also take posts with a grain of salt from those who say they know someone on a reality show. It's not unheard of for someone with an ulterior motive to post online.

I'm just going to watch the show and not worry about SM "clues" or the editing. This is still a show and they want us to believe certain things although I have a feeling they didn't know how Sean (or even Davina) was going to be perceived by viewers.

So true. I'm an ER nurse and there are nurses that rumors have been going on for years about their sexuality but no çoncrete proof. This is the Hosp way. It doesn't mean its true! It is just gossip with no concrete proof ,I think this is the case here with Sean and that blabber mouth coworker. She should be ashamed of herself BTW.

So Sean's moving to Manhattan for Davina...let's see how this pans out. I'm not feeling Davina in this episode...