Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #8

Ladybug82 wrote:It was sleuthed that Kaitlyn was at a totally different hotel, than Whitney and Becca.  And based on what he told Becca, when he pulled her aside for her conversation, she wasn't ever really in jeopardy of going anywhere.  Kaitlyn was in the F3 spot by the time they left states for Bali.  But, someone please correct me if I'm remembering wrong.

The whole lets stop the RC for a talk was just done for drama and much like you mentioned maybe to help enhance the storyline of the next potential 'ette.  IMO...

Run, Becca, Run!!  No to becoming Emily's SIL, it's not worth it, no matter how hot her BIL is or how sweet his/her husbands family is.  And most definitely don't get involved with Jef, in any way!  NO, NO, NO!  Run, Becca, Run!!

Sprite wrote:
And Sean told Lindsey he loved her at the FRC just before he proposed to Cat. Just another perspective. When nice, honest people are nervous and care about someone they are trying to let down gently, they may say things that might seem inappropriate....depending on your perspective. I just see both guys trying to ensure that their F2's don't feel as if they had been led on and that they think they are wonderful and there had been genuine emotions involved. Doesn't mean they care for the F1 less, in fact, for me it is a complement to the F1 that they were chosen over another equally great person. 

Sprite wrote:

Pia1 wrote:

AlohaLady wrote:

ITA.  I was thinking he doesn't look happy.  I wonder after seeing Becca again, it's making him depressed and is pushing W away and not showing any affection.  I feel so sad for all three.

And yes, that was the most unromantic FRC.  He didn't have a huge smile someone would have when just proposing.  He also said in a VO at the LCD with Becca about her being the most incredible he's every met.  Not something to say when you're about to propose to someone else.  

And may I add that at the FRC he told Becca that he could see her as his wife. Not something one would say when he's about to propose to another woman.

And Sean told Lindsey he loved her at the FRC just before he proposed to Cat. Just another perspective. When nice, honest people are nervous and care about someone they are trying to let down gently, they may say things that might seem inappropriate....depending on your perspective. I just see both guys trying to ensure that their F2's don't feel as if they had been led on and that they think they are wonderful and there had been genuine emotions involved. Doesn't mean they care for the F1 less, in fact, for me it is a complement to the F1 that they were chosen over another equally great person.

whit90 wrote:

Sprite wrote:

Pia1 wrote:

And may I add that at the FRC he told Becca that he could see her as his wife. Not something one would say when he's about to propose to another woman.

And Sean told Lindsey he loved her at the FRC just before he proposed to Cat. Just another perspective. When nice, honest people are nervous and care about someone they are trying to let down gently, they may say things that might seem inappropriate....depending on your perspective. I just see both guys trying to ensure that their F2's don't feel as if they had been led on and that they think they are wonderful and there had been genuine emotions involved. Doesn't mean they care for the F1 less, in fact, for me it is a complement to the F1 that they were chosen over another equally great person.

The sisters IMO did chose Whit over Becca and he did what his head thought was right not his heart. I never saw a love story between Lindsay and Sean but I did see it with C and B.
Actions speak louder than words . JMO

AlohaLady wrote:

whit90 wrote:

Sprite wrote:

And Sean told Lindsey he loved her at the FRC just before he proposed to Cat. Just another perspective. When nice, honest people are nervous and care about someone they are trying to let down gently, they may say things that might seem inappropriate....depending on your perspective. I just see both guys trying to ensure that their F2's don't feel as if they had been led on and that they think they are wonderful and there had been genuine emotions involved. Doesn't mean they care for the F1 less, in fact, for me it is a complement to the F1 that they were chosen over another equally great person.

The sisters IMO did chose Whit over Becca and he did what his head thought was right not his heart. I never saw a love story between Lindsay and Sean but I did see it with C and B.
Actions speak louder than words . JMO

His BL said it all.

Pia1 wrote:

AlohaLady wrote:

Ladybug82 wrote:

Well...it would've been very, very, very inappropriate to put them on Becca's leg or hold Becca's and them have hand dances!    

But, seriously I do think he was nervous.  Not that they left things on bad terms or anything along those lines (like many have), more the first time facing her since FRC and having all those feelings rush back.  I think that would be rough for any lead.  I'm not even taking into account any unresolved feelings or lack there off, depending on which team and love story has been viewed all season.

ITA.  I was thinking he doesn't look happy.  I wonder after seeing Becca again, it's making him depressed and is pushing W away and not showing any affection.  I feel so sad for all three.

And yes, that was the most unromantic FRC.  He didn't have a huge smile someone would have when just proposing.  He also said in a VO at the LCD with Becca about her being the most incredible he's every met.  Not something to say when you're about to propose to someone else.  

And may I add that at the FRC he told Becca that he could see her as his wife. Not something one would say when he's about to propose to another woman.

whit90 wrote:

AlohaLady wrote:

whit90 wrote:

The sisters IMO did chose Whit over Becca and he did what his head thought was right not his heart. I never saw a love story between Lindsay and Sean but I did see it with C and B.
Actions speak louder than words . JMO

His BL said it all.

Yes it did.

Jolena wrote:

Pia1 wrote:

AlohaLady wrote:

ITA.  I was thinking he doesn't look happy.  I wonder after seeing Becca again, it's making him depressed and is pushing W away and not showing any affection.  I feel so sad for all three.

And yes, that was the most unromantic FRC.  He didn't have a huge smile someone would have when just proposing.  He also said in a VO at the LCD with Becca about her being the most incredible he's every met.  Not something to say when you're about to propose to someone else.  

And may I add that at the FRC he told Becca that he could see her as his wife. Not something one would say when he's about to propose to another woman.

They all say that to the final gals at one point or another. Yes, He could have seen her as his wife BUT.......alot of BUTS .. Chris has to do what he has to do , it's like that with every lead and every show. No doubt that Becca was "one" of the most incredible gal he's every met.,  actually she's one of the most incredible contestants to ever grace the likes of this show. She is awesome and I take nothing away from Becca at all., but given the way the show works and the 6 week fast pace time frame it shouldn't surprise anyone that he said that about Becca  and I'm sure he meant it. jmo

Pia1 wrote:

Jolena wrote:

Pia1 wrote:

And may I add that at the FRC he told Becca that he could see her as his wife. Not something one would say when he's about to propose to another woman.

They all say that to the final gals at one point or another. Yes, He could have seen her as his wife BUT.......alot of BUTS .. Chris has to do what he has to do , it's like that with every lead and every show. No doubt that Becca was "one" of the most incredible gal he's every met.,  actually she's one of the most incredible contestants to ever grace the likes of this show. She is awesome and I take nothing away from Becca at all., but given the way the show works and the 6 week fast pace time frame it shouldn't surprise anyone that he said that about Becca  and I'm sure he meant it. jmo

His body language didn't look like he had to do what he had to. It looked more like please change your mind Becca. imo. Watching that clip again, he even paused, I believe to give Becca another opportunity to change her mind. imo. She didn't, so he continued his break up speech.

Jolena wrote:

whit90 wrote:

AlohaLady wrote:

His BL said it all.

Yes it did.

Yes because that's what TPTB decided to show us.  I'm sure if they showed the body language with Chris & Whit and didn't EDIT it out we would be saying the same thing about their BL. Highly edited . ( Josh posted a picture post show of him and Andi laying on the couch practically on top of each other , and he said " The producers were so mad at us because they couldn't keep us apart") Then the deleted scenes that they throw out there during the show are a little telling as well. jmo

soccermom333 wrote:Becca will be fine and again at this point in the game some saw the love story between chris and whit and others between Chris and Becca.  I do think it is important to mention some are seeing something very different today.  The BL was off imo at the ATFR, and some saw it, and some did not.  I doubt opinions will be changed on that either.  Fans of chris and whit will see what they want and that is okay.  

I wish them luck!  Can't wait to see what Becca does in the future.