The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - General Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Alanna wrote:

traveler90 wrote:Andi openly talked bad about JPG while Nikki was dating him and Nikki is one of her best friends. It wouldn't surprise me if she'd do the same to Kaitlyn, whom she isn't as close to, if K choose Nick and I'm saying that as someone who likes Andi.

I remember Andi saying that she loves Nikki and "any Juan" that makes her happy is someone Andi will support, so I'm not sure I agree here. Also, Kait did retweet Andi's support so it's not like Kait is salty (ha!) on what Andi is saying. I do tend to think Andi knows the ending personally.

Sorry, I didn't remember all the details. What I mean is, while Andi may be supporting her friend(s), she very vocal how she feels about their boyfriends/fiancées.

Something that just popped into my head:

Could it be that the season is a foiler because RS is getting cocky?

Someone just happens to find the cast of BIP2 lying around. Maybe some producer really is that careless or they want RS to think that and be confident in his spoiler even though he doesn't know what happens with Shawn at the FRC? It isn't a huge spoiler. It's already out there (thanks to RS) who leaves when on the bachelorette. So, people are already making assumptions, who is going to be on BIP2. So, for the tptb to allow RS to spoil the cast of BIP2 and who is coming on later and when is no big deal, it doesn't have spoilers WHAT happens on BIP2 (even though it's too early for that). Though, it does leave the impression that tptb are being careless, so maybe RS is becoming careless as well because there no way he could be wrong (even though he says he knows what he did wrong in previous seasons and he's double checking on K's season).

Normally, I believe RS but I only have been reading his spoilers since Andi's season, so what do I know? Some things just aren't adding up to me.

Thoughts?

happygolucky wrote:oh boy ... wish I didn't read/see this ... prefer to remain silent on "the girl who just can't let it go" ... but I do know that saying: different strokes for different folks.

So dear Mrs. wisdom of women's intuition ... we're presenting you Kaitlyn Bristowe, a 30y old woman, who isn't ashamed to talk about sex (& engaging in it), because it's part of the relationship, a woman who doesn't care what other people think about someone, but tries to understand and get to know them herself to make her own judgment, a woman who isn't intimidated to be straight-forward, but prefers the brutal honesty while still remaining respectful and a woman who isn't scared to make a fool out of herself, admit her mistakes and own them!

I’m sorry I saw this too HGL. What a way to start my morning.

Honestly, Andi's continued hatred and vitriol for Nick is upsetting and unsettling to me. This is a man she considered marrying. To turn on him so completely with no feeling, to me, reflects an ugly inner being, a festering blackness in her soul. The fact that she can’t let it go is disturbing. And to be so unaware of how ugly it makes HER look just seems borderline psychotic.

Getting ready to duck

I don't think that tweet from Andi was such a big deal and so horrendously insulting to Nick. She was making a joke, which I'm sure a lot of people out there found funny. I have heard far worse attacks on her character on this board repeatedly than anything she has said about Nick. And I sort of doubt that Nick or Kaitlyn found the tweet all that offensive either.

I doubt very much that Kaitlyn or Nick would be bothered by it whether together or not. I'd rather not see so many discussions about Andi in Kaitlyn threads. She's old news imo.

My response addressed to Mrs. wasn't so much about Andi, since I've said my last word in her thread, it was about people's similar comments I read on twitter, like the one posted below Andi's tweet, where certain women who work in the field of "relationship advices" or "dating tips" are now "advising" Kaitlyn to non pursue Nick ... that comment by mrs. Patti was just laughable, if I may say, citing Andi as a good reference.
P.S. and yes, I agree, I hope there's no mentioning of her in Kaitlyn's thread. Kaitlyn is her own person with own mind, attitude and soul.

It seems as if the storyboard this season is "follow your heart". It has been said by CH, Fliess, Nick, Kaitlyn, Ali, Sharleen, Brady, included in favored quotes, etc. Following your heart could lead to Shawn, Nick, no one, etc. there are a couple of other key phrases that keep coming up that I want to compile. The other is Lust vs Love.

SueSt wrote:

happygolucky wrote:oh boy ... wish I didn't read/see this ... prefer to remain silent on "the girl who just can't let it go" ... but I do know that saying: different strokes for different folks.

So dear Mrs. wisdom of women's intuition ... we're presenting you Kaitlyn Bristowe, a 30y old woman, who isn't ashamed to talk about sex (& engaging in it), because it's part of the relationship, a woman who doesn't care what other people think about someone, but tries to understand and get to know them herself to make her own judgment, a woman who isn't intimidated to be straight-forward, but prefers the brutal honesty while still remaining respectful and a woman who isn't scared to make a fool out of herself, admit her mistakes and own them!

I’m sorry I saw this too HGL.  What a way to start my morning.    

Honestly, Andi's continued hatred and vitriol for Nick is upsetting and unsettling to me.  This is a man she considered marrying.  To turn on him so completely with no feeling, to me, reflects an ugly inner being, a festering blackness in her soul.  The fact that she can’t let it go is disturbing.  And to be so unaware of how ugly it makes HER look just seems borderline psychotic.

She dumped his butt at F2 so I don't see where she considered marring him.
If Kaitlyn likes Nick go for it baby her choice.

Kortni, I don't think Kait is that stupid either, but we shall see!

I understand that this is not an Andi thread so will quickly respond and finish my comments on this subject.
Everyone's entitled to their own opinion.
I stand by my comments on Andi.
If her aim was to warn K she could have done that privately. She didn't.
To me, her continued shots at Nick reflect her narcissistic and nasty nature (the tip of the iceberg).... Otherwise, walk away. But she can't.

Ali F. ( in her blog) Said Nick's relationship with Kait would hurt Andi.  Still do not know if she was making a dig at Andi, sympathizing, or was being snarky.

She might just be stating facts.  That is why I want SWSNBN other ex to be the bachelor.  Sometimes revenge is a dish best serves cold.  Kaitlyn have a right to talk to whom ever she fances and no one have the right to tell her otherwise.  SHSNBN is has step over the bounds and need to be put in her place and fast.

Nick is SWSNBN gloried trash and someone else in the future treasure so she not tbe telling kaitlyn what to do with her life.