Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #5

concerned36 wrote:That phrase "wearing your heart on your sleeve" traditionally has to do with feeling sorry for someone, i.e. pity. Doesn't it? So it could refer to his feelings toward W, who lost her mother and never had a father.

I have always heard it in the way that someone is so in love that they can't hide it. But it could be pity too I guess.

stuckinsc wrote:

concerned36 wrote:That phrase "wearing your heart on your sleeve" traditionally has to do with feeling sorry for someone, i.e. pity. Doesn't it? So it could refer to his feelings toward W, who lost her mother and never had a father.

I have always heard it in the way that someone is so in love that they can't hide it.  But it could be pity too I guess.

I think you are both right! It just means that you show how things affect you and emotions come through easily for everyone to see --- regardless of what you are feeling (sad, happy, pity, angry, etc.)

sfrank wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

concerned36 wrote:That phrase "wearing your heart on your sleeve" traditionally has to do with feeling sorry for someone, i.e. pity. Doesn't it? So it could refer to his feelings toward W, who lost her mother and never had a father.

I have always heard it in the way that someone is so in love that they can't hide it.  But it could be pity too I guess.

I think you are both right! It just means that you show how things affect you and emotions come through easily for everyone to see --- regardless of what you are feeling (sad, happy, pity, angry, etc.)

This is how I see it, too. ^

Mommyof1 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:
If she's riding in a vehicle in this shot, I don't see her wearing a seatbelt. Before she gets out, after she gets in?

Maybe she is just a rebel!  Just teasing.  

If the no seatbelt shot is intentional - which I think it might be because such a big deal was made of Kaitlyn & her seatbelt in Bali - then it could reinforce that Becca is not the "safe choice" or that she is now willing to take a risk.  I noticed in the rafting date the camera panned to her twice when the word "safe" was mentioned by the guide.  Both times she looked a bit worried.  Here she doesn't seem worried. Food for thought.  
Comparing this to Whitney with seatbelt: could suggest "buckle up ... wild ride" or that she is secure.

Mommyof1 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:
If she's riding in a vehicle in this shot, I don't see her wearing a seatbelt. Before she gets out, after she gets in?

Maybe she is just a rebel!  Just teasing.  

I just checked the video, and the vehicle is moving - so, yeah, she is in the back of a moving vehicle without using the safety belt. I Googled it, and current law in Iowa seems to be that only people up to age 18 have to be belted in the backseat of a vehicle. Rebel or not (medium said our girl was hard to control), she was ok Iowa, no. California, Louisiana and Illinois, all occupants have to be restrained.

Just whiling away the hours before the finale

notarose wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:
If she's riding in a vehicle in this shot, I don't see her wearing a seatbelt. Before she gets out, after she gets in?

Maybe she is just a rebel!  Just teasing.  

If the no seatbelt shot is intentional - which I think it might be because such a big deal was made of Kaitlyn & her seatbelt in Bali - then it could reinforce that Becca is not the "safe choice" or that she is now willing to take a risk.  I noticed in the rafting date the camera panned to her twice when the word "safe" was mentioned by the guide.  Both times she looked a bit worried.  Here she doesn't seem worried. Food for thought.  
Comparing this to Whitney with seatbelt: could suggest "buckle up ... wild ride" or that she is secure.

interesting...

mindless wrote:What if Chris is planning to pick Whitney, since it's the sensible thing to do and that's why Becca arrives first to the FRC. But then he sees her in that sexy low-cut red velvet dress and is like "OMG, what was I thinking, I can't say goodbye to this girl!" and tells her he loves her. Then Whitney arrives later after having been driven around in circles for a while stressing and he lets her go.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it!

Love it!

sfrank wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

concerned36 wrote:That phrase "wearing your heart on your sleeve" traditionally has to do with feeling sorry for someone, i.e. pity. Doesn't it? So it could refer to his feelings toward W, who lost her mother and never had a father.

I have always heard it in the way that someone is so in love that they can't hide it.  But it could be pity too I guess.

I think you are both right! It just means that you show how things affect you and emotions come through easily for everyone to see --- regardless of what you are feeling (sad, happy, pity, angry, etc.)

Yes this is true! my bad!

Okay, I love mindless's theory, it would reconcile why Chris is crying before the girls arrive. Because he's decided to send his love home and pick W. But it gives us the happy ending to the love story. But I still wonder why he seems so pensive (sad?) when it's dark outside. ugh, can't wait 5 more days!

An other view of the dress that could be Becca's

Buckle up its going to be a wild ride means. Look out its going to be a roller coaster. Which would also indicate yanking the rug from viewers. This season has been a lot emotions in it. Just like all viewers are expecting to see one thing but in reality another thing happens. The unexpected... Hmmm I wonder hmmm. Nope not buying what there selling. This girl still on the Beccas F1 boat.

concerned36 wrote:That phrase "wearing your heart on your sleeve" traditionally has to do with feeling sorry for someone, i.e. pity. Doesn't it? So it could refer to his feelings toward W, who lost her mother and never had a father.

To me that means you express your feelings very easily.   someone who is very emotional.