Bachelor 19 - Whitney Bischoff - Discussion #3

I actually liked the idea of Nick and Whitney when we first saw her. Both attractive, articulate, well educated, upwardly mobile people. Both choosing to make their lives in the same city. He has the large family she craves. She is that lovely mature woman he thought Andi was, but she can still be a little snarky which is good. If Nick and Whit date, I would be happy for both of them.

I can also see Whitney loving Chris's parents and going to where they are to try to work it out if at all possible. JMO, but I thought Whit was always more in love with his family and her idea of Chris. We really only started to know him on Andi's season on his HTD which was much more about his awesome family instead of him. I bet Chris's parents are very loving and supportive and heck I would drive four hours to see them without Chris. I bet they have been very supportive to her as well as him through out this. As for Whitney maybe not being happy with Chris's sister, well since they basically verbally smacked him and made him pick me, I might not like them too much either once I realized they didn't care if he even liked me, just that he needed to do the right thing. It seemed like without the sister's smack down he was on his way to trying to pick Becca and even after that since we know Becca had the second LCD, he was begging Becca to play along so he could pick her. The people pushing Chris to pick Whit did her no favors. I think she would have been a great bachelorette, a more sincere and genuine Emily. Really wanting love and happiness like Des and Ashley.

I hope whatever happens that Whitney realizes how awesome she is and to demand a man give as much in love and caring as she does to him.

Great post.
IMO, I don't think Whit is upset with Chris' sisters. Their motivation was out of love. I agree that she was in love with the package presented to her. As I have said before, I think she ended things. I believe that she is going through a lot right now and doing her best to put on a brave face. I am sure that his family has been supportive of her as well. (May have been why he thought doing another show in NYC would give his family a chance to get over the disappointment - but I doubt it - he is in it for another 15 minutes.)
She is beautiful inside and out. I am sure she will find someone deserving of her.

stuckinsc wrote:I actually liked the idea of Nick and Whitney when we first saw her. Both attractive, articulate, well educated, upwardly mobile people. Both choosing to make their lives in the same city. He has the large family she craves. She is that lovely mature woman he thought Andi was, but she can still be a little snarky which is good. If Nick and Whit date, I would be happy for both of them.

I can also see Whitney loving Chris's parents and going to where they are to try to work it out if at all possible. JMO, but I thought Whit was always more in love with his family and her idea of Chris. We really only started to know him on Andi's season on his HTD which was much more about his awesome family instead of him. I bet Chris's parents are very loving and supportive and heck I would drive four hours to see them without Chris. I bet they have been very supportive to her as well as him through out this. As for Whitney maybe not being happy with Chris's sister, well since they basically verbally smacked him and made him pick me, I might not like them too much either once I realized they didn't care if he even liked me, just that he needed to do the right thing. It seemed like without the sister's smack down he was on his way to trying to pick Becca and even after that since we know Becca had the second LCD, he was begging Becca to play along so he could pick her. The people pushing Chris to pick Whit did her no favors. I think she would have been a great bachelorette, a more sincere and genuine Emily. Really wanting love and happiness like Des and Ashley.

I hope whatever happens that Whitney realizes how awesome she is and to demand a man give as much in love and caring as she does to him.

, you nailed it. You just said exactly what I always though.

^^^yes! Great post Stuck :Nod:

I really like Whitney's newest pic on Instagram! She looks so pretty and happy!

https://instagram.com/whitb624/

The IG from thegoodquote that she liked pretty much sums it up-"Nobody is too busy, it's just a matter of priorities."

Exactly.....

Here's another one that Jaclyn Swartz posted today! I'm so glad Whitney is having so much fun!

https://instagram.com/jaclynswartz/

Did Jaclyn screw up her face? Whit looks very pretty.

ahaha, from Whit's IG pics I know all the "cool" places people go to in Chicago for a happy hour and I've never been in US. I can even recognize the table settings... (too much time in here, RL calling back).

bachelorfan777 wrote:Here's another one that Jaclyn Swartz posted today! I'm so glad Whitney is having so much fun!

https://instagram.com/jaclynswartz/

So Nick & Whitney were both at the Art Fair with Jaclyn S. At least I got my wish that Whit & Nick have got to know each other & who knows what might come of it. I for one think it would be great if something did as I really like both of them & Nick has a huge family which Whitney would just love to be a part of. Here's hoping

I find it interesting that post-breakup Whitney's like a different person on SM. People were thinking she's just not into SM or wants to keep a low profile because of her career, but now she's very active and looks very happy. Clearly the whole relationship, or sham of a relationship, was a weight on her shoulders.

I actually love the idea of Nick and Whitney!