Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

grace8136 wrote:

sfrank wrote:Sorry it was a paragraph...here's the full piece:

US weekly wrote:In the end the decision, Soules had agonized over was made  for him. When the time came him to choose either [Becca] or [Whitney] at the final rose ceremony in Iowa, one wasn't ready to be Mrs. Soules. It really came down to a feeling, say a show source. She just didn't feel it. Sensing her hesitation, Soules, followed his gut and proposed to woman he believed was all in. He genuinely fell in love with both women. In terms of the Bachelor not being sure who to pick, they were probably the closest ever, says the source, but the runner-up wasn't as into him, so he didn't chooser her.

hmmmm.... well that is certainly how they have presented it to the viewers. Thanks for posting it. If true, I wonder if she leaves from the hotel room since we have SC of him rubbing his eyes. I think he's saying, "It's not what I wanted, but it's reality."

Again this still points me to Becca. Becca has said she is 100% in to him, knows the obstacles of Arlington and still wanted to move forward form FS dates. Unless she suddenly has a change of heart after meeting his parents I don't see where her opinion changes. Whitney on the other hand has said all along that she wants to be a mother and wants to be married... she hasn't yet been to Arlington (this would be more of a "shocking to the mainstream audience" ending). I don't know how you say that Whitney is a sure thing but Becca is the one you want and all along tell Becca that you are willing to wait for her if she is the right one and still pick W. Maybe I'm too much of a romantic but either way I am sad for Whitney after having to watch this season and the obvious love he has for Becca. Even after the filming calling your second choice (if she is F2) the Total Package at the same time calling your F1 a Mother. To me that'd be disappointing, but maybe W just wants to be married and maybe we just didn't see as much of W and Cs relationship develop (which again I'd be sad about if it was me).

Her brother

Pia - her Brother (Chris) .. it's cropped from the family reunion pic

When Chris was on Ellen, he described the F3.  Whitney = Mother  , Kaitlyn = Firecracker, Becca = The total package...Mother + Firecracker.   Oh, and remember that she can shoot a gun, which makes her a 10 in Chris'  book!  

happygolucky wrote:Pia - her Brother (Chris) .. it's cropped from the family reunion pic

Okay, thanks Happy! I missed that part.

I don't think that pic of Becca making a W is about anything other than the girls winning the baseball game, but we can always dream.

K here's a question? A reporter caught Chris comming from one of the Talk shows around new years. The reporter asked Chris what his New Years resolution was. Chris says in the lines getting back to normal. Now why would Chris do DWTS if he is with Whitney it really doesn't make any since. Wouldn't you think he would want to get back to Iowa to be closer to Whitney? I think he is doing it DWTS to be close Becca. But that's just my thoughts.

BKay wrote:Becca wasn't on my radar initially. I believed the spoilers and watched with detachment because what I was seeing made Chris a very uninteresting person. He seemed like someone I wouldn't wish on any of the contestants. Then he was on a 1-1 with Becca and I suddenly saw a different Chris. He bloomed in front of me, becoming warm and vibrant. I had to go back and re-watch his earlier scenes with Becca, and saw 'it' had been there all along, just had been tucked into the background and obscured.

It was exactly what I had experienced with Des and Chris -being gobsmacked.  I remember pming Murasaki about Chres and saying 'holy cow, I see now what you've been saying all along.'

We all see through our own filters - I'm not trying to change anyone's mind at all, and know I can easily be Fleissed (has happened more than once!) - but this is just what I have viewed.

YES!! I didn't even watch the beginning of the season at first, but after that one on one date with the horses I was hooked.  It struck me how different they were and I thought now THIS is REALITY tv! She seemed so honest and consiquently he took on a totally different demeanor, super intriguing and it's only gotten better.  It went from being a game show in my eyes to being a love story unfolding... After that I went back and rewatched the early episodes and the ones following and since Chris doesn't seem to be a very good actor you can see him wearing his heart on his sleeve for sure when you read the body language IMO.  He did have a connection with Britt I think that was real, but after he found out she lied it switched almost immediately and you could see it. Of course everyone comes from different places but JMHO.

Becca has also disabled her snapchat account

^^  Dun dun dun.  

it's getting interesting Are we ready?

see2love wrote:Becca has also disabled her snapchat account

That's odd...what do we think that means?
Seems strange to be doing that we the show nearly over, no?