Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #3

Then I still don't get why tell her to get over Josh is out of line, is nasty or is bullying?

Nannymargie, for your info, I never follow her.

peggy0221 wrote:Then I still don't get why tell her to get over Josh is out of line, is nasty or is bullying?

Nannymargie, for your info, I never follow her.

Telling her to get over Josh does not count as bulling but to me it is out of line. She still loves Josh and is trying to move on but I feel she is still hurting. So telling her to get over Josh was just uncalled for. I will stick with if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all.

The whole idea of "what is out of line or overboard" is a very interesting topic to me. I am constantly amazed at the things I see mentioned on media regarding anon tweets etc. 
I know as I'm getting older, I am becoming more zen. I want to surround myself with more positive energy, but at the same time the snarky itch still remains rooted. 

So this is the difference we have and I think it doesn't make either one of us a bad person:

You like Andi and you see a love story between her and Josh, you believe what you see in her.
I don't like Andi and I only see a showmance between them, I don't buy anything she sells.

And you would say nice thing to those u like
And I would leave ONE comment to her to say it in her face (kind of) that I don't buy it, so get over it.

Yes, maybe this is very evil of me and be it.
I cannot forget how mean she was as well.

chasingpavements wrote:I'm obviously not an Andi fan, but she's never struck me as someone who is particularly sensitive. I mean, on Twitter, she constantly favorites comments attacking her. So, I tend to believe that if she's banning people, it's because their comments are unnecessarily rude and repeatedly  out of line. I find it really hard to believe that she would ban someone just because of a harmless "I didn't like your outfit" comment. There are some viewers out there that are crazy and obsessed to a point of concern; I don't think that anyone on these shows should have to put with such vitriol.

But she did ban my friend for a harmless comment about an outfit. It wasn't even really that negative. It was along the lines of "This isn't your best outfit. Perhaps xyz outfit would have been a better choice." Perhaps Andi was just in a bad mood that day or it was an accident. But that's pretty sensitive to ban someone for a comment like that.

As I mentioned, if people are using excessive profanity, being abusive, or downright stalkerish with their obsessive comments, by all means ban someone.

Just because someone's opinion of another is that they were mean, doesn't give the authorization to be mean back? No wonder we live in a messed up world if that's the case. JMO

I, like Kasha, don't like or want negativity around me. If I had an IG account, I would probably ignore the negative, delete when I felt like it, or just keep it private for my friends and family.

She is in the public eye, IMO she can control her IG any way she wants. As long as the negativity doesn't affect her, like Nikki or Emily. Do the people who post nasty things really think the IG'er will take their advice?

It's really serves no purpose to post things telling them what to do other than to satisfy the poster which in itself is sad. JMHO.

I feel bad already posting here now because I need to explain why I dont like Andi and why I posted ONE comment in her IG

And i like to hate her, that's all.
And now, I can't post negative comment about her here, can't post on SM...

okay, maybe I should just start to like her?

peggy0221 wrote:I feel bad already posting here now because I need to explain why I dont like Andi and why I posted ONE comment in her IG

And i like to hate her, that's all.
And now, I can't post negative comment about her here, can't post on SM...

okay, maybe I should just start to like her?

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and no one is saying you have to like Andi and can post whatever you want to. A lot of negative comments have been posted on this board and most of her fans had just kept quiet about them. But I just felt I needed to state my opinion about it just like you have the right to post yours.

It's one thing to post negative comments on this board and state what you are feeling because we are a group that have different opinions and can say them without being attacked for those opinions. But it is also ok to post in her defense if we want to. What I just don't understand is why go to their personal SM accounts and post those comments directly to her. That is what I have the problem understanding.

nannymargie wrote:

peggy0221 wrote:I feel bad already posting here now because I need to explain why I dont like Andi and why I posted ONE comment in her IG

And i like to hate her, that's all.
And now, I can't post negative comment about her here, can't post on SM...

okay, maybe I should just start to like her?

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and no one is saying you have to like Andi and can post whatever you want to.  A lot of negative comments have been posted on this board and most of her fans had just kept quiet about them.  But I just felt I needed to state my opinion about it just like you have the right to post yours.

It's one thing to post negative comments  on this board and state what you are feeling because we are a group that have different opinions and can say them without being attacked for those opinions.  But it is also ok to post in her defense if we want to.  What I just don't understand is why go to their personal SM accounts and post those comments directly to her.  That is what I have the problem understanding.

Nannymargie ... I agree!

Nannymargie, i respect you and the Andi fans, just like I stated upthread that I get what you see in her. And I dont mean I feel bad why you guys come defending her, I feel it because I really feel like I am being questioned why I left comment on her IG.

I'll just stop the IG topic here because I don't think we will have any agreement on the way we deal with her. Good day to you all.

peggy0221 wrote:Nannymargie, i respect you and the Andi fans, just like I stated upthread that I get what you see in her. And I dont mean I feel bad why you guys come defending her, I feel it because I really feel like I am being questioned why I left comment on her IG.

I'll just stop the IG topic here because I don't think we will have any agreement on the way we deal with her. Good day to you all.

Peggy0221 your comments keep this board lively. Otherwise there might not be much to talk about. Except for what Andi is wearing or ate that day! All opinions are valuable, as long as they are not rude or intentionally hurtful. I do not think you are trying to be either of those.

peggy0221 wrote:Nannymargie, i respect you and the Andi fans, just like I stated upthread that I get what you see in her. And I dont mean I feel bad why you guys come defending her, I feel it because I really feel like I am being questioned why I left comment on her IG.

I'll just stop the IG topic here because I don't think we will have any agreement on the way we deal with her. Good day to you all.

Well we can just agree to disagree. Have a Blessed Day!