Bachelor 19 - Chris Soules - Women Tell All - *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

happygirl77us wrote: I myself don't see flipping a coin as a bad thing to say.  

Given the circumstances I don't either. Let's face it, when it comes to being slick, and suave the dictionary doesn't have see Chris Soules next to it. I think he had to concentrate on not giving anything away, if you notice he said "you and Becca and then added and Whitey " almost as an afterthought as in Oops I have to include her in this at this point. I think he was trying to say, that between Becca and you it was a coin toss on which to keep and which to let go because he cared for you equally at that point. Meaning, not enough. I personally think he kept Becca because it would be easier to let her go with "just cause", than Kaitlyn. He clearly is a very caring man and found it difficult to hurt anyone, I will say I do see a lot of the same in my DH who really tries as hard as he can to avoid confrontation and hurting someone.

Maybe if had chosen Kelsey, she would have helped him learn to be more articulate and eloquent and use big words too.

IF the lead sleeps with the F3... she's got every reason to be ticked at him... and he has no other right answer except "I'm a jerk" If not, the F3 is better off to let it go and be gracious toward his feelings for the other 2 girls.

I've gotten the distinct impression from what I've read on this site that, that she's the former.

northernviewer wrote:IF the lead sleeps with the F3... she's got every reason to be ticked at him... and he has no other right answer except "I'm a jerk"    If not, the F3 is better off to let it go and be gracious toward his feelings for the other 2 girls.  

I've gotten the distinct impression from what I've read on this site that, that she's the former.  

IDK. If the lead sleeps with the F3, I would think the person in position to do some serious thinking would be the F3-F1.
I would automatically think of being put in a "test drive" position vs me being the one and only. This is the premise of the show.
In fact, when the show first aired the FS was made very tempting with body paints etc to entice the couple into doing more than talking.
To me the only difference in this date than any of the others, is there are less contestants. Keeping that in mind, I don't think I would expect the main to want any more or less from me than the others. So it's basically up to me to decide how much is ok.
Now, going back to the the F3 being Kaitlyn. This is no innocent rose nor is it her first rodeo in life. She has a wild side toward her. Maybe she has never been the dumpee, IDK. I think her reacting to her dismissal is more for the sake of appearing a jilted ex for the audience than anything.

Yeap, I agree with Kasha, IMHO, a performance, something to make people talk, buzz about ... for The Bette necessary I guess, so I don't mind Kaitlyn ... but boy, Chris really doesn't like being confronted, so I'm looking forward to another side of the coin.

What I can't wait for is what kind of explanation will Kaitlin give HER F3 during her Men Tell All. Maybe Chris can give her some tips.

She could tell them all she simply enjoys sex and it was a fun date, thank you very much.

Kashathediva wrote:She could tell them all she simply enjoys sex and it was a fun date, thank you very much.

PERFECT! Kasha

Kashathediva wrote:She could tell them all she simply enjoys sex and it was a fun date, thank you very much.

Kashathediva wrote:

northernviewer wrote:IF the lead sleeps with the F3... she's got every reason to be ticked at him... and he has no other right answer except "I'm a jerk"    If not, the F3 is better off to let it go and be gracious toward his feelings for the other 2 girls.  

I've gotten the distinct impression from what I've read on this site that, that she's the former.  

IDK. If the lead sleeps with the F3, I would think the person in position to do some serious thinking would be the F3-F1.
I would automatically think of being put in a "test drive" position vs me being the one and only. This is the premise of the show.
In fact, when the show first aired the FS was made very tempting with body paints etc to entice the couple into doing more than talking.
To me the only difference in this date than any of the others, is there are less contestants. Keeping that in mind, I don't think I would expect the main to want any more or less from me than the others. So it's basically up to me to decide how much is ok.
Now, going back to the the F3 being Kaitlyn. This is no innocent rose nor is it her first rodeo in life. She has a wild side toward her. Maybe she has never been the dumpee, IDK. I think her reacting to her dismissal is more for the sake of appearing a jilted ex for the audience than anything.

I must be old fashioned then, cuz I think that any guy that feels the need to "test drive" all 3 before choosing who he wants to marry is a sleezeball, out there looking for a good time, not a wife. All 3 of the girls should be disgusted, especially his F1. Again, I'm old I guess, because the loose morals of today makes me cringe.

Well, that would certainly put closure on the situation and move on. Right?

northernviewer wrote:IF the lead sleeps with the F3... she's got every reason to be ticked at him... and he has no other right answer except "I'm a jerk"    If not, the F3 is better off to let it go and be gracious toward his feelings for the other 2 girls.  

I've gotten the distinct impression from what I've read on this site that, that she's the former.  

I see it the other way. IF the f1. f2. f3 sleep with the lead then they only have themselves to be angry with. I guess it is hard for me to be on board with this as I could never see myself in this position. To me you know what comes with the territory of being one of the remaining three and to qualify this as even casual sex is impossible in my mind. You hardly know who you are sleeping with. Guess I am an old fogey.