Bachelor 19 - Chris Soules - Women Tell All - *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

KB_Mom wrote:I don't know how to do links but ABC news has a video of Kaitlyn confronting CS at WTA about why he did not pull her aside at F3 RC "like he did with Becca"  and why he made her go through the RC. Among other things, in his halting attempt to explain, he says "he could have flipped a coin" (not that he did flip a coin) and that at that point, he had to think selfishly as to who he thought would fit into his life.  

http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/bachelor-women-preview-watch-kaitlyn-confront-chris-soules/story?id=29282984

"like shooting darts at a dartboard in the dark"  
One last rap from Chris.

^ I guess they misplaced the "How to Respond to F3 at WTA" cue cards and He was left to wing it.

So he thinks that "I could have flipped a coin at that point" is a good answer? I can sympathize with any lead that has to justify letting someone go when they in truth they just want to say "because I liked the other 2 better than you" or "I already knew who I was going to choose as F1 at that point and I couldn't decide which one to keep longer, you or X"

tptb should have known the types of questions he was going to be asked and should have prepared him better... unless they just couldn't wait to see how he'd screw up as he's just not good at putting a coherent sentence together.... nah..... they would never ever do that to a lead or contestant!!!

It's a requirement for a future lead to have been wronged by the current lead in one way or another. They want Chris to stick his foot in it while talking to Kaitlyn, so she becomes more sympathetic to the viewers.

mindless wrote:It's a requirement for a future lead to have been wronged by the current lead in one way or another. They want Chris to stick his foot in it while talking to Kaitlyn, so she becomes more sympathetic to the viewers.

The good old having it both ways the women always do on this farce show.

I just saw Carly on Good Morning Texas. They don't have a video up yet but hopefully will. No clips from the WTA but she talked a little about it. It sounds like it's a lot of her, Britt, & Kelsey. Carly said she does regret some things she said. I typed most of it out and will post in the media section.  https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/t2736p936-bachelor-19-chris-soules-media-tweets-facebook-ig-spoilers-sleuthing-discussion-2#758815

Of course they asked her who she thinks Chris picks. She said "Whitney's my girl" and "I love Becca too but just think Whitney's a good fit".

notarose wrote:

KB_Mom wrote:I don't know how to do links but ABC news has a video of Kaitlyn confronting CS at WTA about why he did not pull her aside at F3 RC "like he did with Becca"  and why he made her go through the RC. Among other things, in his halting attempt to explain, he says "he could have flipped a coin" (not that he did flip a coin) and that at that point, he had to think selfishly as to who he thought would fit into his life.  

http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/bachelor-women-preview-watch-kaitlyn-confront-chris-soules/story?id=29282984

"like shooting darts at a dartboard in the dark"  
One last rap from Chris.

OUCH Chris….foot, meet mouth!

Awww Wow nutty foot in mouth is a under statement in this case.

I myself don't see flipping a coin as a bad thing to say.

happygirl77us wrote: I myself don't see flipping a coin as a bad thing to say.  

^^ This. He was obviously trying to tell her how much he cared for her, but poor guy doesn't navigate these emotional waters very well.

BKay wrote:

happygirl77us wrote: I myself don't see flipping a coin as a bad thing to say.  

^^ This. He was obviously trying to tell her how much he cared for her, but poor guy doesn't navigate these emotional waters very well.

I get that he is often a poor communicator however if I was dating a guy (and no other girls were involved) and he told me post-break up that he flipped a coin to decide if we should continue or break up, well I wouldn't interprete that as a caring statement. 
He really needs to work on self improvement in this area.  In this aspect he resembles Britt to a degree.

I dont get what she wanted him to say honestly. There was no way Tptb was going to allow him to pull 2 women aside. They needed the drama of is it her or Becca? There is never a right answer to the question the lead gets asked. There is that need to be empathetic and not say "i knew who i was going to choose so you were an extra". In trying to soften the blow there will always be a case of saying the wrong things. Does he say something overly nice which will cause his F1 to be upset or say something not too nice which causes others to take offense. Hopefully they all talk it through later and become friends
I am honestly tired of the same questions asked of the Lead
"When did you know it wasnt me"
"Why didnt you let me go earlier"
I Would rather ask questions like "are you truly happy" "what did you like about me" IMO.