Bachelor 19 - Whitney Bischoff #2

Litta123 wrote:I completely concur with the earlier posts regarding Chris's one armed hold on Whitney being due to keeping them steady. I saw that when I made those caps. However, the cap that gave me pause was this one.

On the Tuesday after the premiere, I capped it, recognized as one of the likely F3 (I was unspoiled) due to location, but I noted the BL immediately. That was among my first red flags for "the blonde" as well as the over abundance of her face in the preview. I was so certain the girl I was to learn is Becca would be F1 based on that preview. One of the reasons I came to the dark side was because I was so confused by her lack of presence in the early episodes.

Not trying to be a Debbie Downer for those who believe the spoiler, I just thought I'd share. Some seasons I can see it and some I can't. This season I can't. If I'm wrong, no big deal. I really like Whitney, too.

Perhaps Chris's BL can simply be explained by sea sickness...so he feels the need to steady himself no matter what. Maybe it's as simple as that and I've made it more.

Miyala wrote:I cant shake the feeling that he is more into Becca (and I am more of a whitney fan). He presses Becca against himself a lot when they are kissing, something I have not seen lately with Whitney. With Whitney she is all over him. The kisses also seems to be "deeper" with Becca. He looks really happy with her but.... Then again, when I look back at Emily- Jef and Arie her kisses with Arie was also much deeper and more sensual so it doesnt have to mean anything. It also worries me thatWhitney is so sure of them two together. That usually doesnt bode well :/

Mommyof1 wrote:Chris also called Becca "strong" in his blog and again on camera.  He said,  "That, my friends, is one strong woman" when poor Sully had his donkey panic attack.

Cameron2 wrote:MVMom-----What you have done in your last post is use "logic", a trait not used much anymore. I too, look at this relationship as you do. After watching #3, it became apparent to me that Chris and Whitney had spent enough time together to know and understand each other quite well. Then when he was expounding on the Wedding,  he said something that was a dead giveaway to me. He said it was not crashing the wedding that was so much fun, but the girl he was with.

After all, he is on a journey and been offered many excellent choices. He must investigate  each choice to see how they measure up.  I was surprised how many decided who his choice would be after episode 3.

He had stated previously he didn't just want a wife, but wanted an extrodinary wife.

MVMom39forever wrote:

lurker11 wrote:Honestly, I think a lot came last year from josh and andi and even other seasons because the lead and F1 were so into social media. Whitney and Chris stink at SM.

ALso the "clues" about becca being seen in LA I don't buy mostly cause she was seen out and about.

Exactly ... Becca lives in southern California so is it really such a stretch that she is being seen in LA??

I know this is Whitney thread but check out this US Weekly article:
US Weekly beach stroll

I know this is Samantha ... NOT Becca ... but Samantha is her good friend pre season. Becca moved to Southern California to be with her sister and brother in law (opportunity to rub shoulders with NFL) and other stars and stayed for a reason. She must like the Southern California lifestyle. As a frequent visitor, I can attest ... it's friggin awesome so I don't blame her.

Becca dated someone who went on the View so she is no stranger to reality shows. She has a very good friend (Samantha) who gets to walk on beach and go to parties with Hollywood stars like Jeremy Piven.

I just don't think for one minute that the lovely Becca fell in anything but Bachelor butterfly stage with Chris. Remember, the more Becca pours it on for the cameras, the better her chances are for being considered for Bachelorette. No wonder her big sister was so ticked!! By editing the family HTD as if her family thought she was frigid and not into men, TPTB sent a huge message that Becca was not going to get the Bachelorette spot.

So yep ... I don't need any SM proof that WHitney is F1. I have all the proof that I need that Becca and Kaityln for that matter are NOT. I am not claiming they are "wrong reasons" girls. As I said in another thread, if Arie was the F1, I might be paying attention more to the Becca and Kaityln for F1 thread but just not going to believe it. RS nailed it this time and it was TOO EASY for him to do.

stuckinsc wrote:I am going to play Debbie Downer a little bit too, but why is it only Chris who is stabilizing them?  Whitney is too busy attaching herself to Chris in each pic?

As for the list, how do we know that Becca wants to be a model or actress, have we seen anything that hints at all that she tries to do this as she lives in San Diego, so it really wouldn't be hard to try to find those opportunities at all right?

And how do we know that Becca doesn't want to be a wife or mother?  Because she is a mere three years younger than Whitney?  I don't think age has anything to do with when you are ready for love or marriage and most girls who I know who decide to wait until marriage to have sex are ready for marriage a little sooner.

As for the weather, well I am from South Florida originally and have never lived north of Atlanta, but my husband is talking about moving to Washington State for his job and I will go with him, because I love him.  I have no desire to live in the cold, but since I love him I will make due.  Just like I live in an area that I hate now for him.  You can live anywhere if you love anyone enough.

I just don't know that anything is all that definitive this season.  Some are all in on Whitney and see just great interaction with her and Chris.  Some see only great interaction with Becca and are all in on them.  I like them both, so either one of them winning won't surprise me.  Nothing is all that convincing towards either one of them.

At the end of the day, I just want them to be happy and since they both seem to be happy it is a great season for me.