Re: Bachelor 19 - Chris Soules - Whitney Bischoff - Fan Forum - *Spoilers* - *Speculation* - Discussion

[Sprite]

Did Chris tell any of his F3 he was "falling in love?" (Sorry, haven't seen the show in 2weeks) Falling in love and being in love is slightly different imo

he told Kaitlyn to her face he was falling in love. I don't remember if he said it to Becca because admittedly I zoned out a little because I was bored and the constant virgin talk.

Chris in an ITM said he was falling in love with Whitney and then later when CH asked him if he was falling in love with Whitney he said he can't quite say that. So I was confused.

I think part of it is being in the bubble and having feelings for multiple people. The other thing is, I always keep in mind my perception of the lead...in this case Chris. IMO he is a gentleman. He has been shown by his edit, as well as by the different ladies throughout the show, as being kind and very sincere. I don't think he would want to hurt anyone and at that point, there were still three ladies in the running. If he declared himself in love with one, then that would be disrespectful to the other and I don't think he would want to do that. JMO

[Cameron2]

Personally, I think that US and CH are both provaricators The part they left out was Chris saying he could have flipped a coin to see who won. They both knew, ch and cs  that Becca was not a candidate for the Bachelorette. Kaytlin was the only good candidate which meant she had to go as F3 so they could be prepared for her season up coming.

So, if you analyze that, you begin to realize that Chris was not necessarly falling for Becca. They had to wiggle around and find an excuse not to pick her, which was the plan all along. I stated on the 5 or 6th week that it was  a done deal. CH knew that and they had to fill in. Chris had let Britt go, so the only one out of that 6 that made sense for a bachelorette, was Katlyn. I don't believe a darned thing the bachelor says.

[Guest]

Did Chris tell any of his F3 he was "falling in love?" (Sorry, haven't seen the show in 2weeks) Falling in love and being in love is slightly different imo

he told Kaitlyn to her face he was falling in love. I don't remember if he said it to Becca because admittedly I zoned out a little because I was bored and the constant virgin talk.

Chris in an ITM said he was falling in love with Whitney and then later when CH asked him if he was falling in love with Whitney he said he can't quite say that. So I was confused.

I think part of it is being in the bubble and having feelings for multiple people. The other thing is, I always keep in mind my perception of the lead...in this case Chris. IMO he is a gentleman. He has been shown by his edit, as well as by the different ladies throughout the show, as being kind and very sincere. I don't think he would want to hurt anyone and at that point, there were still three ladies in the running. If he declared himself in love with one, then that would be disrespectful to the other and I don't think he would want to do that. JMO

No, I agree. I just thought it was weird that earlier in the show he said he's falling in love with her just like the other girls and then when CH point blanks asks him if he's falling in love with Whitney and he says he can't quite say that.

Which none of that didn't even matter because he said something to Whitney he didn't say to any of the other girls. He said his family is important to him and that he can see her in his family.

Also though through that whole exchange with CH it was quite obvious that he was meaning Whitney for sure had one rose and he was debating between Becca and Kaitlyn for the other rose. In all the chaos of that cut up editing job in the conversation between CH and Chris, CH had to point blank ask him about Whitney. The thought of letting Whitney go didn't even cross his mind.

[Fosnight]

Just a thought... I still think the "I Love U" in the stones was for Whitney. He said in an interview that he said "I love you" to one. Perhaps him telling CH that he couldn't say he was falling in love with W was because he was already in love with her.... He rose was not even up for discussion.

[Guest]

^^ Great point, Fosnight.

That's why I find it funny that TPTB are trying so hard to make Becca seem like a strong contender for F1 against Whitney.

Do I think he liked Becca? Yes, of course. Who wouldn't? She's beautiful and sweet. But do I think he ever thought about choosing her and proposing to her? No. I'm one of the people that thought the FD episode made it even more obvious it was Whitney.

[KKay]

I just went back and watched the "talk" with CH about falling in love with Whitney. CH says "We haven't really talked much about Whitney, so am I to assume you're in love with this girl?"
Chris says "I'm falling in love with Whitney and it, I guess I, for me to just say I'm in love with her doesn't feel right yet. I really want to get through next week and then I feel like then I'll know. I hope."

To me that sounds like he is trying to keep all relationships open, but he is farther along in being in love with Whitney than he is in falling in love with the other two.

[Rolly]

Just a thought... I still think the "I Love U" in the stones was for Whitney.  He said in an interview that he said "I love you" to one. Perhaps him telling CH that he couldn't say he was falling in love with W was because he was already in love with her.... He rose was not even up for discussion.

Now I'm gonna need to go back and watch that scene again. I thought CH asked CS if he could say was "in love" with Whitney and I thought he said he couldn't quite say that yet. I had a feeling not saying I love Whitney was out of respect for the other girls. I do think there really wasn't a question about the rose for Whitney, something that was said in the Chris discussion gave me the impression her rose was a given.

[Rolly]

I think part of it is being in the bubble and having feelings for multiple people. The other thing is, I always keep in mind my perception of the lead...in this case Chris. IMO he is a gentleman. He has been shown by his edit, as well as by the different ladies throughout the show, as being kind and very sincere. I don't think he would want to hurt anyone and at that point, there were still three ladies in the running. If he declared himself in love with one, then that would be disrespectful to the other and I don't think he would want to do that. JMO[/quote]




This post of Sprite's above is great in explanation of why I think Chris wouldn't say that he was "in love" with Whit yet. Out of respect for the others.

[Rolly]

Just a thought... I still think the "I Love U" in the stones was for Whitney.  He said in an interview that he said "I love you" to one. Perhaps him telling CH that he couldn't say he was falling in love with W was because he was already in love with her.... He rose was not even up for discussion.

I would love to know the story behind the "I love U" in stones. I wonder if we'll ever find out?

[Trueloveforever]

[Fosnight]

Yep.... That photo speaks volumes!

[Trueloveforever]

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