Re: Bachelor 19 - Chris Soules - Whitney Bischoff - Fan Forum - *Spoilers* - *Speculation* - Discussion

[Rolly]

It is no problem brightmi! Thank you for the shout out.

Some cute moments from Whitney's HTD.

I think Chris loves her too.

[Miyala]

ok... I looked in interviews and this is what he wants:

"I like someone who's active, with a healthy lifestyle," the star of The Bachelor recently told Us. "Someone who's independent and career-oriented and successful." Aside from wanting a family, the future Mrs. Soules must also be sincere and forthright. "It's important," he continued, "to be honest with me."

except his dream woman, who will be smart, motivated and confident. Oh, and she will need to know or learn how to drive a tractor!

“At the end of the day my dream girl is someone who I feel as my best friend, someone who I can be a partner with in my life, and raise a family with, and that you know, I feel like make me better and makes me want to be better. Someone that’s equipped to get through the good and bad times with you know throughout life,” Soules recently told the International Business Times, adding that his dream woman would have a personality similar to his mother and sisters. Seriously though, if the girl is not looking to settle down and have children, she is not his dream woman, Soules also said.

However, Soules admits that he does have one major deal breaker, or two. As his “soul mate,” his lady love has to also want to get married and have kids.

“If I’m meeting somebody who I feel like is my soul mate and they don’t want those two things, those are pretty much deal breakers for me ... there’s some small things I can get passed but that’s one that I just can’t” said Soules.

What else have you read???

[metalgirl]

Great photos. And I absolutely LOVE her coat! She always looks perfectly appropriate for both her age and the occasion. She can rock the "cute" look in jeans & a T (the Des Moines date) and the more sophisticated Rose Ceremony looks.

I can't ever imagine Chris would ever have to wonder about what she would say, do or how she would act in any situation.

[nuts2uiam]

Simply put I think he is:
In Like with Becca
In Like with Kaitlyn
In Lust with Britt (WAS)
and
In LOVE with Whitney

[MiaHawk]

Great photos.  And I absolutely LOVE her coat!  She always looks perfectly appropriate for both her age and the occasion.  She can rock the "cute" look in jeans & a T (the Des Moines date) and the more sophisticated Rose Ceremony looks.

I can't ever imagine Chris would ever have to wonder about what she would say, do or how she would act in any situation.  

ITA. She is poised, composed, and put together yet has the ability to be giddy, spontaneous, and spunky. I am enjoying their story. I love to see a man's face light up when he is falling in love. I see a more joyful and energetic CS when he is in Whitney's presence. I think he is looking for someone with "small town" values who has some spice thrown in. I think Whitney appears to be the perfect match for him. Hopefully they can end up together and make it last for the long haul.

[metalgirl]

Totally agree, Mia.

I can also see Whitney working part-time in nursing somewhere nearby til the first baby, then either homeschooling, or having them attend the local schools. Hell, with a nursing degree she could probably teach a health class or even chemistry at Chris's old high school if she wanted to. It's not too difficult to get teaching credentials once you have a B.S. degree and have the motivation.

Not to denigrate the others (Kelsey would approve of that word!) but Whitney has the skills & practical experience to find a career she'd enjoy, if she chose, in that environment. I don't think the others are as fortunate.

[MVMom39forever]

Totally agree, Mia.

I can also see Whitney working part-time in nursing somewhere nearby til the first baby, then either homeschooling, or having them attend the local schools.  Hell, with a nursing degree she could probably teach a health class or even chemistry at Chris's old high school if she wanted to.  It's not too difficult to get teaching credentials once you have a B.S. degree and have the motivation.

Not to denigrate the others (Kelsey would approve of that word!) but Whitney has the skills & practical experience to find a career she'd enjoy, if she chose, in that environment.   I don't think the others are as fortunate.

Yep!! And, I don't know what her promotion entails ... but ... if she is doing more "desk" work versus 1-on-1 patient meetings, she could certainly do that remotely. I have been working from home for nearly 10 years and it's fantastic for mommy's.

[MVMom39forever]

I was just looking at Whitney's tweets and this is just hilarious tweet that Jenny McCarthy sent out with photo of her husband, Donnie Wahlberg, covering his face ...


Whitney Bischoff retweeted
Jenny McCarthy @JennyMcCarthy · Feb 16
Love that Whitney from Chicago just made Donnie tear up. Haha I love him. #TheBachelor

He responded ...

Donnie Wahlberg ‏@DonnieWahlberg · Feb 16
@JennyMcCarthy Whitney was one of my least favorites, now maybe the best. ha ha!

[Rolly]

ok... I looked in interviews and this is what he wants:

"I like someone who's active, with a healthy lifestyle," the star of The Bachelor recently told Us. "Someone who's independent and career-oriented and successful." Aside from wanting a family, the future Mrs. Soules must also be sincere and forthright. "It's important," he continued, "to be honest with me."

except his dream woman, who will be smart, motivated and confident. Oh, and she will need to know or learn how to drive a tractor!

“At the end of the day my dream girl is someone who I feel as my best friend, someone who I can be a partner with in my life, and raise a family with, and that you know, I feel like make me better and makes me want to be better. Someone that’s equipped to get through the good and bad times with you know throughout life,” Soules recently told the International Business Times, adding that his dream woman would have a personality similar to his mother and sisters. Seriously though, if the girl is not looking to settle down and have children, she is not his dream woman, Soules also said.

However, Soules admits that he does have one major deal breaker, or two. As his “soul mate,” his lady love has to also want to get married and have kids.

“If I’m meeting somebody who I feel like is my soul mate and they don’t want those two things, those are pretty much deal breakers for me ... there’s some small things I can get passed but that’s one that I just can’t” said Soules.



What else have you read???

Gosh that description sounds a lot like Whittney to me. The last two pictures above are adorable, they both look very happy.

[Miyala]

....and he`s said that Whit makes him want to be a better man....

[MVMom39forever]

It's been a couple days so let's get some fan loving going for Chris and Whitney.

Here's why I would say she is the ONLY one in Chris' top 6 (or higher) who I see ...

-Moving to Iowa and truly understands what it means to live in Midwest and handle the weather (brrrrr!)

-Not just on show for the experience or to further a career as performer, model or actress

-Is actually in a place in her life where she wants to settle down and have kids

-Has been in serious relationship before so has something to compare what she feels for Chris vs. just falling in Bach Bubble love

-Lives in the same city (Chicago) as his beloved sisters so it's a place he knows and loves

-Is a strong woman who leads in the relationship. He's got THREE sisters and a strong mother so I am sure they bossed him around and he was only to happy to let them and then escape to what he knows/loves best: farming and football

-Is take charge/spontaneous so can create her own fun living in Iowa

Plus, Chris just walks around beaming pride & adoration about every little thing she does. He has commented and demonstrated his approval for how Whitney:

-Brought him his favorite whiskey ... it's the little gestures

-Acted on the wedding date and was so friendly to everyone

- How they tore up the dance floor together and was so spontaneous

- Acted so mature with Jordan's return and did NOT bring it up to him during 1-on-1 time at party (got her a rose!)

- Was right by his side steering on the rafting trip and he said that he wouldn't mind Whitney saving him

- How she interacted with his friends and the friends LOVED her

- How she was so vulnerable and sweet when he showed her the mural (where HE took the lead ... okay, so it was probably producers but he got to take credit)

- How great she is in her profession and how much he respects that

- How much they are on same page with wanting babies and he has seen the proof with what she does for a living

- How he can provide her with a family ... there's the old vulnerable side but it's something that he can easily give her

Did I miss anything?

[KB_Mom]

^ Great job MV Mom. I would add:

- When she got the GDR, he chose Whit who"always makes him feel special"

- She makes him want to be a better man

- It's important to him that his wife is at ease in social settings- She passed that test with flying colors on wedding crash date and the meet the friends date

- in an interview he said sense of humor is one of the most important traits in a wife for him and Whit has shown her sense of humor

I'm sure there are more- the above is what my old and tired brain remembers right now.

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